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Laurie
October 24th 03, 05:05 AM
I know this is a fairly FAQ, but I've done all the normal suggested things
and am still having problems. For about 10 days now, Christopher has been
biting me like mad. It hurts. A lot. He has 2 bottom teeth. I've tried
saying "NO!" loudly and putting him down, he always laughs. I've tried
pulling him in towards me, which works best to get him off less painfully,
but it doesn't stop him from biting. I'm getting better at telling when it's
going to happen and preventing it that way, ending a session immediately,
etc, but there are times when I KNOW he's hungry or wants to nurse to sleep
and he's biting as he's trying to latch on. I'm going crazy. Any other
suggestions? I've also tried offering chew toys before nursing, etc.

laurie
mommy to Jessica, 2.5 years
and Christopher, 6 months

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news.eclipse.co.uk
October 24th 03, 08:12 AM
"Laurie" > wrote in message
. net...
> I know this is a fairly FAQ, but I've done all the normal suggested things
> and am still having problems. For about 10 days now, Christopher has been
> biting me like mad. It hurts. A lot. He has 2 bottom teeth. I've tried
> saying "NO!" loudly and putting him down, he always laughs. I've tried
> pulling him in towards me, which works best to get him off less painfully,
> but it doesn't stop him from biting. I'm getting better at telling when
it's
> going to happen and preventing it that way, ending a session immediately,
> etc, but there are times when I KNOW he's hungry or wants to nurse to
sleep
> and he's biting as he's trying to latch on. I'm going crazy. Any other
> suggestions? I've also tried offering chew toys before nursing, etc.
>
> laurie
> mommy to Jessica, 2.5 years
> and Christopher, 6 months
>
> *This email address is now valid*

When pulling him in are you cutting off his air briefly?

Nikki

Nikki
October 24th 03, 03:34 PM
Laurie wrote:
> I know this is a fairly FAQ, but I've done all the normal suggested
> things and am still having problems. For about 10 days now,
> Christopher has been biting me like mad. It hurts. A lot. He has 2
> bottom teeth. I've tried saying "NO!" loudly and putting him down,
> he always laughs. I've tried pulling him in towards me, which works
> best to get him off less painfully, but it doesn't stop him from
> biting. I'm getting better at telling when it's going to happen and
> preventing it that way, ending a session immediately, etc, but there
> are times when I KNOW he's hungry or wants to nurse to sleep and he's
> biting as he's trying to latch on. I'm going crazy. Any other
> suggestions?

I struggled with Hunter doing the things you describe fore about 4 weeks.
He didn't get the messasge until I unlatched him, sat him down, and walked
out of the room. He didn't like me leaving him at all. I also then refused
to nurse him for 5 minutes or so even when I knew he wanted to. 5 days of
this and he stopped and never bit again. He was 10 months old. The
refusing to nurse was 50% accepted (probably times he didn't really want to)
and 50% screaming fit. I had to do it though as I was at the end of my rope
with the biting. Good thing he refused the bottle or I might have weaned
him at that time ;-)

--
Nikki
Mama to Hunter (4) and Luke (2)

Laurie
October 24th 03, 04:20 PM
news.eclipse.co.uk wrote in message
>...
>"Laurie" > wrote in message
. net...
>> I know this is a fairly FAQ, but I've done all the normal suggested
things
>> and am still having problems. For about 10 days now, Christopher has been
>> biting me like mad. It hurts. A lot. He has 2 bottom teeth. I've tried
>> saying "NO!" loudly and putting him down, he always laughs. I've tried
>> pulling him in towards me, which works best to get him off less
painfully,
>> but it doesn't stop him from biting. I'm getting better at telling when
>it's
>> going to happen and preventing it that way, ending a session immediately,
>> etc, but there are times when I KNOW he's hungry or wants to nurse to
>sleep
>> and he's biting as he's trying to latch on. I'm going crazy. Any other
>> suggestions? I've also tried offering chew toys before nursing, etc.
>>
>> laurie
>> mommy to Jessica, 2.5 years
>> and Christopher, 6 months
>>
>> *This email address is now valid*
>
>When pulling him in are you cutting off his air briefly?
>
>Nikki
>

I'm not really sure. Probably for a second or so.

laurie
mommy to Jessica, 2.5 years
and Christopher, 6 months

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Alphawave
October 25th 03, 02:49 AM
Laurie says:

> I'm getting better at telling when it's
> going to happen and preventing it that way, ending a session
> immediately, etc, but there are times when I KNOW he's hungry or wants
> to nurse to sleep and he's biting as he's trying to latch on. I'm
> going crazy. Any other suggestions?

Yikes. Sorry about the biting situation, Laurie. :-( The only thing I
can offer is what worked for me. The first time Quinn bit me, I
reflexively gasped. At first he laughed, then he saw the look of horror
on my face. He pouted for a few moments, then started to cry. The same
thing happened the second time he bit (except that time I got a little
more dramatic with my gasp and look of consternation). We haven't had
another bite since, and I'm hoping we won't have to play this out again.

I hope you find something that works for you SOON! :-)

-- Alpha
alphawave at earthlink dot net

Laurie
October 25th 03, 02:56 AM
Nikki wrote in message >...
>I struggled with Hunter doing the things you describe fore about 4 weeks.
>He didn't get the messasge until I unlatched him, sat him down, and walked
>out of the room. He didn't like me leaving him at all. I also then
refused
>to nurse him for 5 minutes or so even when I knew he wanted to. 5 days of
>this and he stopped and never bit again. He was 10 months old. The
>refusing to nurse was 50% accepted (probably times he didn't really want
to)
>and 50% screaming fit. I had to do it though as I was at the end of my rope
>with the biting. Good thing he refused the bottle or I might have weaned
>him at that time ;-)
>
>--
>Nikki
>Mama to Hunter (4) and Luke (2)

Yeah, it's really difficult. Good to know it eventually stopped; thanks
nikki!

laurie
mommy to Jessica, 2.5 years
and Christopher, 6 months

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>
>

Laurie
October 25th 03, 02:56 AM
Alphawave wrote in message ...
>Laurie says:
>
>> I'm getting better at telling when it's
>> going to happen and preventing it that way, ending a session
>> immediately, etc, but there are times when I KNOW he's hungry or wants
>> to nurse to sleep and he's biting as he's trying to latch on. I'm
>> going crazy. Any other suggestions?
>
>Yikes. Sorry about the biting situation, Laurie. :-( The only thing I
>can offer is what worked for me. The first time Quinn bit me, I
>reflexively gasped. At first he laughed, then he saw the look of horror
>on my face. He pouted for a few moments, then started to cry. The same
>thing happened the second time he bit (except that time I got a little
>more dramatic with my gasp and look of consternation). We haven't had
>another bite since, and I'm hoping we won't have to play this out again.
>
>I hope you find something that works for you SOON! :-)

Me too. :) Thanks Alpha!

laurie
mommy to Jessica, 2.5 years
and Christopher, 6 months

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>
>-- Alpha
>alphawave at earthlink dot net

Hope
October 25th 03, 06:46 AM
On Fri, 24 Oct 2003 04:05:02 GMT, "Laurie" >
wrote:

>I know this is a fairly FAQ, but I've done all the normal suggested things
>and am still having problems. For about 10 days now, Christopher has been
>biting me like mad. It hurts. A lot. He has 2 bottom teeth. I've tried
>saying "NO!" loudly and putting him down, he always laughs. I've tried
>pulling him in towards me, which works best to get him off less painfully,
>but it doesn't stop him from biting. I'm getting better at telling when it's
>going to happen and preventing it that way, ending a session immediately,
>etc, but there are times when I KNOW he's hungry or wants to nurse to sleep
>and he's biting as he's trying to latch on. I'm going crazy. Any other
>suggestions? I've also tried offering chew toys before nursing, etc.
>
>laurie
>mommy to Jessica, 2.5 years
>and Christopher, 6 months
>
>*This email address is now valid*

I so feel your pain! my daughter is 10 months old and has cut her
first 4 teeth in the last week. She is biting me and I'm reading all
the advice you get with great interest.

Hope

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