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[Didi]

Hey there -- many new names and faces along with some old ones, I see.

Sad to read that some issues here never change. Oh well -- that
beating-your-head-against-the-wall thing never did much for me.

Matt is doing *great*. His business had flown so well that he was bought
out and offered a consultant position by the buyers. He has a *wonderful*
woman in his life, and because they have taken things very slowly, they are
close to making a commitment that will last.

I have visited Peter's grave -- a long way from my home. Pink granite
headstone! His daughters chose that, and I know that he wouldn't have
wanted it any other way. It's sad that a man cannot rest in peace and will
apparently forever be criticized here.

Mo "disappeared" because she had a horrible accident where she was yanked
off of a high ladder by an angry man who didn't want her to shut off his
cable. She spent 30+ days in a coma and has been recuperating ever since.
Sorry, though, Lorian -- she didn't do anything sinister forcing her to run
and hide.

As for me, many exciting things have happened in my life. Mike and I are
very happily married, and we are presently moving our family to another
state for a great job opportunity. (Before anyone asks, my ex and his wife
are also moving to this state for their own personal and professional
interests, so my children will not miss a beat when it comes to being with
their father. I wouldn't have allowed otherwise.) I will get my "dream"
house when we move which will be nice. I have made a successful home
business for myself -- between that, my children and their activities, and
my many social obligations (charitable type groups, etc.), I have not had as
much time for my on-line interests though I obviously check in (and read)
from time to time.
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[Rolly The Pervert]

"Didi" > wrote in message
. net...
> Hey there -- many new names and faces along with some old ones, I see.


Hey DiDi, glad all is going well for you. Say hi to matt.

[Joelle]

Hey Didi- good to hear from you!

>I have visited Peter's grave -- a long way from my home. Pink granite
>headstone!

My husband's headstone has pink granite.

>It's sad that a man cannot rest in peace and will
>apparently forever be criticized here.

Yea but that criticism means even less to him now than it did when he was alive
(which wasn't much)

>Mo "disappeared" because she had a horrible accident where she was yanked
>off of a high ladder by an angry man who didn't want her to shut off his
>cable

That's horrible!

>she spent 30+ days in a coma and has been recuperating ever since.

I hope she's doing well. Send her my best.

>s for me, many exciting things have happened in my life. Mike and I are
>very happily married, and we are presently moving our family to another
>state for a great job opportunity.

Best of luck to all of you

Joelle

[Didi]

Tom wrote:

> Hey DiDi, glad all is going well for you. Say hi to matt.

Thanks, Tom. I hope that things are better for you and that your health is
stabilizing. I think that I read that you are engaged or married now --
good luck to you and hug that little boy of yours!

Matt and I missed our annual get-together this year as both of our schedules
are really busy. I will, though, pass on all of the "hellos"!
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous
"Rolly The Pervert" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Didi" > wrote in message
> . net...
> > Hey there -- many new names and faces along with some old ones, I see.
>
>
>

[Didi]

> Hey Didi- good to hear from you!

Hi, Joelle! I've been reading about your dating endeavors! What fun that
fast intro game sounds like! I am very excited to hear that you have come
to a place in your life where you are ready to meet people like this. I
know that you still miss your husband, but it shows progress in your
grieving process. <I would stay away, though, from the man who is showing a
little too much interest in your daughter. Men like that always gave me the
creeps>

> My husband's headstone has pink granite.

I just thought that it was sweet and oh so "Peter" to let his girls decide.
His widow has moved on with her life and remarried already. I've lost touch
with his girls -- to be honest, it was the tug of war between his 1st and
2nd wives that I couldn't stand. "You're *my* friend!" "No -- you're *my*
friend!" I wanted to scream -- "I'm not EITHER of your friends -- I am
Peter's friend!!" Anyway, in order to keep in touch with the girls, I had
to get through the women, and I eventually gave up. I know that Peter had a
tremendous amount of respect for their stepdad, so I trust that they will be
well taken care of.

> Yea but that criticism means even less to him now than it did when he was
alive (which wasn't much)

How true! I'm just sure that he is laughing down from heaven right now --
relishing in the fact that he torments Lorian to this day.....

> That's horrible!

It is terrible, and I"m not sure how happy she'll be about my sharing this
fact, but I can't stand the insinuations that she has slinked off due to
some indiscretion.

> Best of luck to all of you

Thanks, Joelle -- the best to you, too! The next time you're in Madison,
we'll have to meet for lunch!
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[Didi]

bri wrote:

> ***Sigh...same here!!!

It's just plain sad, IMO.

> ***Wonderful!!

He and Renee are very cute together. They compliment each other really
well.

> ***I'm sure Peter LOVES the headstone! I miss him!

Me, too.

> ***Please Please Please let Mo know that if she needs someone who
"understands" to talk with to send me an email. I'm still recuping from my
head injury....and probably will for a while.

To be honest, I have kind of lost track of her since the accident. Her
brother took over with her children and home, and she was recuperating last
we talked. If anyone talks to her still, tell her to contact me, please.

> ***I am happy that the move is going well. I'll be in las vegas come the
end of next month. My son is really excited about the move. I've been
calling school districts all morning and realtors. We're gonna rent for the
first year so we have plenty of time to find a house we want to buy. Now is
just the never ending PACKING!! UGH!!!

Good luck to you guys! I'm kind of spoiled -- Mike's new job is moving us
and is doing all of the packing, too! ;) All I have to do is make
margaritas and point to what I want where (yeah, right, like I'll do
*that*!). The hardest part has been the selling of our home. Not too many
people in the market for a big house like ours right now..... <cross your
fingers, though, b/c it looks as though we might have it sold -- we'll know
tomorrow>
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[Dennis Here]

Didi wrote in message ...
>Hey there -- many new names and faces along with some old ones, I see.


Hi Didi, good to see you dropping in.

>
>As for me, many exciting things have happened in my life. Mike and I are
>very happily married, and we are presently moving our family to another
>state for a great job opportunity. (Before anyone asks, my ex and his wife
>are also moving to this state for their own personal and professional
>interests, so my children will not miss a beat when it comes to being with
>their father. I wouldn't have allowed otherwise.) I will get my "dream"
>house when we move which will be nice. I have made a successful home
>business for myself -- between that, my children and their activities, and
>my many social obligations (charitable type groups, etc.), I have not had
as
>much time for my on-line interests though I obviously check in (and read)
>from time to time.


I am really pleased for you. Isn't life just great all the time and even
better when things are going so well?

Dennis

[Didi]

> Hi Didi, good to see you dropping in.

Hi, Dennis! I try to drop in from time-to-time and keep up with things, but
it is difficult at times.

> I am really pleased for you. Isn't life just great all the time and even
better when things are going so well?

Well, I'm honest enough to say that things aren't great *all* the time.....
One of the things that Mike is hoping is that when we move, I hold off on
some of the charitable work for a little while. I get involved in so many
projects at one time, and it gets to be too much. For the most part,
though, life is pretty darn good!

I hope that you and Freddie enjoyed your trip to the US. If you're ever
back here, you'd better look us up!
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[Didi]

Dolores wrote:

>Bet baby Gillian (or was it Julian) is pretty big now.

I'm sorry that I missed this the first time around!

Jillian is 3 years old right now! Amazing, isn't it?!? She is just a doll!
She has her daddy's sense of humor, blonde hair, and brown eyes, but she has
my fire and spunk along with my Latin temper! ;) Quite the combination!

Seems like just yesterday that you all were supporting me through her
pregnancy.....
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

Did that jab at me feel good Didi? Still feel the need to pick on me huh?
How petty. And who is criticizing Peterd? As far as I am concerned I
believe that he is resting in peace on the other side. You are playing the
victim pretty well there Didi. You're the one who hates victims as I
recall. And you're right, some issues here never change, you're still lying
your ass off smiling on the outside, crying on the inside.

Didi wrote:
> Hey there -- many new names and faces along with some old ones, I see.
>
> Sad to read that some issues here never change. Oh well -- that
> beating-your-head-against-the-wall thing never did much for me.
>
> Matt is doing *great*. His business had flown so well that he was
> bought out and offered a consultant position by the buyers. He has a
> *wonderful* woman in his life, and because they have taken things
> very slowly, they are close to making a commitment that will last.
>
> I have visited Peter's grave -- a long way from my home. Pink granite
> headstone! His daughters chose that, and I know that he wouldn't have
> wanted it any other way. It's sad that a man cannot rest in peace
> and will apparently forever be criticized here.
>
> Mo "disappeared" because she had a horrible accident where she was
> yanked off of a high ladder by an angry man who didn't want her to
> shut off his cable. She spent 30+ days in a coma and has been
> recuperating ever since. Sorry, though, Lorian -- she didn't do
> anything sinister forcing her to run and hide.
>
> As for me, many exciting things have happened in my life. Mike and I
> are very happily married, and we are presently moving our family to
> another state for a great job opportunity. (Before anyone asks, my
> ex and his wife are also moving to this state for their own personal
> and professional interests, so my children will not miss a beat when
> it comes to being with their father. I wouldn't have allowed
> otherwise.) I will get my "dream" house when we move which will be
> nice. I have made a successful home business for myself -- between
> that, my children and their activities, and my many social
> obligations (charitable type groups, etc.), I have not had as much
> time for my on-line interests though I obviously check in (and read)
> from time to time.

[turtledove]

> wrote in message
. net...
> Didi wrote:
> > How true! I'm just sure that he is laughing down from heaven right
> > now -- relishing in the fact that he torments Lorian to this day.....
>
> that's a pretty ugly idea of the afterlife.
>
>
> > It is terrible, and I"m not sure how happy she'll be about my sharing
> > this fact, but I can't stand the insinuations that she has slinked
> > off due to some indiscretion.
>
> Well, actually, there you go demonizing me for fun and kicks. I was not
the
> one who started that train of thought. When Maureen disappeared suddenly,
> leaving her home empty without telling the neighbors and leaving her
> contracting business and corporation registration and web page
registration
> and telephone disconnected and not being there as planned when Dennis came
> all the way from Ireland to visit, it looked suspicious to the rest of the
> group. You have no evidence to point the finger at me so lay off.
>
> >> Best of luck to all of you
> >
> > Thanks, Joelle -- the best to you, too! The next time you're in
> > Madison, we'll have to meet for lunch!
>
> Did you know there is another Mike Jakubowski in Wild Rose, Wisconsin?
>
>
ANd you wonder why people follow you on the usenet and 'harass' you. Was
that another threat towards Didi again Lorian?

You should be ashamed.

eegads.....

am I next again?

*b

[Lisa aka Surfer]

> wrote in message news:lJ5Ua.124921$OZ2.25271@rwcrnsc54...
> Did that jab at me feel good Didi? Still feel the need to pick on me huh?
> How petty. And who is criticizing Peterd? As far as I am concerned I
> believe that he is resting in peace on the other side. You are playing
the
> victim pretty well there Didi. You're the one who hates victims as I
> recall. And you're right, some issues here never change, you're still
lying
> your ass off smiling on the outside, crying on the inside.
>

you really are pathetic

[Lisa aka Surfer]

"Didi" > wrote in message
. net...
> Hey there -- many new names and faces along with some old ones, I see.
>
> Sad to read that some issues here never change. Oh well -- that
> beating-your-head-against-the-wall thing never did much for me.
>
> Matt is doing *great*. His business had flown so well that he was bought
> out and offered a consultant position by the buyers. He has a *wonderful*
> woman in his life, and because they have taken things very slowly, they
are
> close to making a commitment that will last.
>
> I have visited Peter's grave -- a long way from my home. Pink granite
> headstone! His daughters chose that, and I know that he wouldn't have
> wanted it any other way. It's sad that a man cannot rest in peace and
will
> apparently forever be criticized here.
>
> Mo "disappeared" because she had a horrible accident where she was yanked
> off of a high ladder by an angry man who didn't want her to shut off his
> cable. She spent 30+ days in a coma and has been recuperating ever since.
> Sorry, though, Lorian -- she didn't do anything sinister forcing her to
run
> and hide.
>
> As for me, many exciting things have happened in my life. Mike and I are
> very happily married, and we are presently moving our family to another
> state for a great job opportunity. (Before anyone asks, my ex and his
wife
> are also moving to this state for their own personal and professional
> interests, so my children will not miss a beat when it comes to being with
> their father. I wouldn't have allowed otherwise.) I will get my "dream"
> house when we move which will be nice. I have made a successful home
> business for myself -- between that, my children and their activities, and
> my many social obligations (charitable type groups, etc.), I have not had
as
> much time for my on-line interests though I obviously check in (and read)
> from time to time.
> --
> Didi
> Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
> "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
> Anonymous
>

Hey there Didi!!!!

So great to see you drop in, I'm so glad to hear how well things are going.
The excitement just never ends hey? I certainly understand how busy things
can get for you.

Everthing here is going quite well also. I'm feeling pretty good, my son
just turned 9! Amazing. We have a wonderful man in our lives, and he's a
keeper. So all in all,,,,,,life is good.

Thanks for the Update on Mo,,,,I haven't talked to her in a long time, but
still have her email somewhere I think. I'll give it a try. Best of all
for me is the clarifications, I sure was having a hard time believing the
crap that was suggested.

And now I know where it came from. No surprises.

By the way,,,,,we have Pink granite circle shape for my Mom. It's a lovely
choice.

Be well doll....I'm so glad that you popped in :)

Lisa


>

[Didi]

Lorian wrote:

> Did you know there is another Mike Jakubowski in Wild Rose, Wisconsin?

Darlin', there are "Jakubowski's" all over the globe! If you think that I'm
gonna feel in the least bit threatened by your crippled, sexually confused
self b/c you found another "Jakubowski" in the state of WI, you will be
sadly disappointed!! ;)

You don't intimidate me at all, and you'd be best to ignore me along with
everyone else that doesn't support your victimized self.
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[Paul Fritz]

"turtledove" > wrote in message
om...
>
> > wrote in message
> . net...
> > Didi wrote:
> > > How true! I'm just sure that he is laughing down from heaven right
> > > now -- relishing in the fact that he torments Lorian to this day.....
> >
> > that's a pretty ugly idea of the afterlife.
> >
> >
> > > It is terrible, and I"m not sure how happy she'll be about my sharing
> > > this fact, but I can't stand the insinuations that she has slinked
> > > off due to some indiscretion.
> >
> > Well, actually, there you go demonizing me for fun and kicks. I was not
> the
> > one who started that train of thought. When Maureen disappeared
suddenly,
> > leaving her home empty without telling the neighbors and leaving her
> > contracting business and corporation registration and web page
> registration
> > and telephone disconnected and not being there as planned when Dennis
came
> > all the way from Ireland to visit, it looked suspicious to the rest of
the
> > group. You have no evidence to point the finger at me so lay off.
> >
> > >> Best of luck to all of you
> > >
> > > Thanks, Joelle -- the best to you, too! The next time you're in
> > > Madison, we'll have to meet for lunch!
> >
> > Did you know there is another Mike Jakubowski in Wild Rose, Wisconsin?
> >
> >
> ANd you wonder why people follow you on the usenet and 'harass' you. Was
> that another threat towards Didi again Lorian?
>
> You should be ashamed.
>
> eegads.....
>
> am I next again?

It is more proof as to who the REAL abuser is.

>
> *b
>
>

[Didi]

Paul wrote:

> It is more proof as to who the REAL abuser is.

Oh, there are many stories that would curl your toes about the things that
Lorian has done to people from this ng, in their real lives, because she
didn't like what they typed to or about her.

She has never intimidated me, though, and that ****es her off.

Oh well..... I've always thought that she had a crush on me, frankly. ;)
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[Didi]

bri wrote:

> am I next again?

You've probably already gotten the hurt e-mail that says something about how
she thought that you were her friend and how could you betray her like this
by sticking up for the evil Didi.......

As I said before, some things never change.....
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[Paul Fritz]

I m well aware of the many abuses of looney against people that disagree
with her. She is the perpetual victim and lives for her victimhood.

"Didi" > wrote in message
news:ot9Ua.142442$ye4.99715@sccrnsc01...
> Paul wrote:
>
> > It is more proof as to who the REAL abuser is.
>
> Oh, there are many stories that would curl your toes about the things that
> Lorian has done to people from this ng, in their real lives, because she
> didn't like what they typed to or about her.
>
> She has never intimidated me, though, and that ****es her off.
>
> Oh well..... I've always thought that she had a crush on me, frankly. ;)
> --
> Didi
> Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
> "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
> Anonymous
>
>

[Rolly The Pervert]

"Didi" > wrote in message
news:Ox9Ua.143368$Ph3.18182@sccrnsc04...
> bri wrote:
>
> > am I next again?
>
> You've probably already gotten the hurt e-mail that says something about
how
> she thought that you were her friend and how could you betray her like
this
> by sticking up for the evil Didi.......
>
> As I said before, some things never change.....

that was yesterday, and it's the Evil Tom, and it got posted right here :)

Heh
> --
> Didi
> Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
> "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
> Anonymous
>
>

[Rolly The Pervert]

"Didi" > wrote in message
news:Bv9Ua.143348$Ph3.18616@sccrnsc04...
> Lorian wrote:
>
> >And you're right, some issues here never change, you're still lying your
> ass off smiling on the outside, crying on the inside.
>
> LOL -- you keep on telling yourself *whatever* you need to, Lorian.
>

I think the deviant "wants" you :)
> --
> Didi
> Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
> "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
> Anonymous
> > wrote in message
news:lJ5Ua.124921$OZ2.25271@rwcrnsc54...
> > Did that jab at me feel good Didi? Still feel the need to pick on me
huh?
> > How petty. And who is criticizing Peterd? As far as I am concerned I
> > believe that he is resting in peace on the other side. You are playing
> the
> > victim pretty well there Didi. You're the one who hates victims as I
> > recall. >
> > Didi wrote:
> > > Hey there -- many new names and faces along with some old ones, I see.
> > >
> > > Sad to read that some issues here never change. Oh well -- that
> > > beating-your-head-against-the-wall thing never did much for me.
> > >
> > > Matt is doing *great*. His business had flown so well that he was
> > > bought out and offered a consultant position by the buyers. He has a
> > > *wonderful* woman in his life, and because they have taken things
> > > very slowly, they are close to making a commitment that will last.
> > >
> > > I have visited Peter's grave -- a long way from my home. Pink granite
> > > headstone! His daughters chose that, and I know that he wouldn't have
> > > wanted it any other way. It's sad that a man cannot rest in peace
> > > and will apparently forever be criticized here.
> > >
> > > Mo "disappeared" because she had a horrible accident where she was
> > > yanked off of a high ladder by an angry man who didn't want her to
> > > shut off his cable. She spent 30+ days in a coma and has been
> > > recuperating ever since. Sorry, though, Lorian -- she didn't do
> > > anything sinister forcing her to run and hide.
> > >
> > > As for me, many exciting things have happened in my life. Mike and I
> > > are very happily married, and we are presently moving our family to
> > > another state for a great job opportunity. (Before anyone asks, my
> > > ex and his wife are also moving to this state for their own personal
> > > and professional interests, so my children will not miss a beat when
> > > it comes to being with their father. I wouldn't have allowed
> > > otherwise.) I will get my "dream" house when we move which will be
> > > nice. I have made a successful home business for myself -- between
> > > that, my children and their activities, and my many social
> > > obligations (charitable type groups, etc.), I have not had as much
> > > time for my on-line interests though I obviously check in (and read)
> > > from time to time.
> >
> >
> >
> >
>
>

[Paul Fritz]

"Rolly The Pervert" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Didi" > wrote in message
> news:Bv9Ua.143348$Ph3.18616@sccrnsc04...
> > Lorian wrote:
> >
> > >And you're right, some issues here never change, you're still lying
your
> > ass off smiling on the outside, crying on the inside.
> >
> > LOL -- you keep on telling yourself *whatever* you need to, Lorian.
> >
>
> I think the deviant "wants" you :)

Run away Run away............ <snicker>


> > --
> > Didi
> > Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
> > "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
> > Anonymous
> > > wrote in message
> news:lJ5Ua.124921$OZ2.25271@rwcrnsc54...
> > > Did that jab at me feel good Didi? Still feel the need to pick on me
> huh?
> > > How petty. And who is criticizing Peterd? As far as I am concerned I
> > > believe that he is resting in peace on the other side. You are
playing
> > the
> > > victim pretty well there Didi. You're the one who hates victims as I
> > > recall. >
> > > Didi wrote:
> > > > Hey there -- many new names and faces along with some old ones, I
see.
> > > >
> > > > Sad to read that some issues here never change. Oh well -- that
> > > > beating-your-head-against-the-wall thing never did much for me.
> > > >
> > > > Matt is doing *great*. His business had flown so well that he was
> > > > bought out and offered a consultant position by the buyers. He has
a
> > > > *wonderful* woman in his life, and because they have taken things
> > > > very slowly, they are close to making a commitment that will last.
> > > >
> > > > I have visited Peter's grave -- a long way from my home. Pink
granite
> > > > headstone! His daughters chose that, and I know that he wouldn't
have
> > > > wanted it any other way. It's sad that a man cannot rest in peace
> > > > and will apparently forever be criticized here.
> > > >
> > > > Mo "disappeared" because she had a horrible accident where she was
> > > > yanked off of a high ladder by an angry man who didn't want her to
> > > > shut off his cable. She spent 30+ days in a coma and has been
> > > > recuperating ever since. Sorry, though, Lorian -- she didn't do
> > > > anything sinister forcing her to run and hide.
> > > >
> > > > As for me, many exciting things have happened in my life. Mike and
I
> > > > are very happily married, and we are presently moving our family to
> > > > another state for a great job opportunity. (Before anyone asks, my
> > > > ex and his wife are also moving to this state for their own personal
> > > > and professional interests, so my children will not miss a beat when
> > > > it comes to being with their father. I wouldn't have allowed
> > > > otherwise.) I will get my "dream" house when we move which will be
> > > > nice. I have made a successful home business for myself -- between
> > > > that, my children and their activities, and my many social
> > > > obligations (charitable type groups, etc.), I have not had as much
> > > > time for my on-line interests though I obviously check in (and read)
> > > > from time to time.
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> >
> >
>
>

[Lisa aka Surfer]

"Rolly The Pervert" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Didi" > wrote in message
> news:Bv9Ua.143348$Ph3.18616@sccrnsc04...
> > Lorian wrote:
> >
> > >And you're right, some issues here never change, you're still lying
your
> > ass off smiling on the outside, crying on the inside.
> >
> > LOL -- you keep on telling yourself *whatever* you need to, Lorian.
> >
>
> I think the deviant "wants" you :)
> > --

She is gay you know, no wait, she's bi,,,right, she'll go for anything now.

[Didi]

Laura wrote:

> Hello Didi, nice to see you're doing well.

Hi Laura!

>Good luck with the move. Will your husband still be able to see his
daughter much?

That'll be the only unfortunate part of this whole move -- we'll have to
change (i.e. cut back a little) on how much we see her. There was no way
around it, though, and *hopefully* her mother will cooperate with us so that
we can fly her out every month for visitation along with our regular
extended holiday break visit, every other spring break as well as all summer
long. If we can all stay focused on what's important -- my stepdaughter --
we can sit down with her school schedule and choose the 3-day w/e's every
month.

> We're about to move as well, about 6 hours north to a prettier, less
> densely populated, snowier, cleaner, nicer part of the country. I've
> never left the DC area so it's scary for me, but it's a good move for
> us.

Doh! I forgot that you lived in the DC area! We took a driving trip out
east in April to see friends along the way -- including DC! :( I'd have
loved to have met up with you and your boys!

>For other reasons I was just granted legal custody of my boys and the judge
also changed the visitation arrangement to accommodate the move. The boys
have been in therapy to deal with some of the stuff I wrote to you about a
couple of years ago (which have not only continued but worsened
considerably if you can believe it) and it's been good for them. He's not
an "oh you poor thing" therapist but more of an "ok, so that's the
situation, how will you deal with it" kind of
therapist. They may *be* victims but they're not going to develop a
"victim mentality."

The best thing that you can do for your sons is continue to discourage the
"victim mentality". I, too, am a survivor of childhood abuse (sexual and
physical) -- I am no ones victim.

I am sorry that your sons have had to go through what they have. They are
lucky to have a mom like you!
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[Didi]

Lisa wrote:
> She is gay you know, no wait, she's bi,,,right, she'll go for anything
now.

She's confused right now......
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[turtledove]

"Didi" > wrote in message
news:ot9Ua.142442$ye4.99715@sccrnsc01...
> Paul wrote:
>
> > It is more proof as to who the REAL abuser is.
>
> Oh, there are many stories that would curl your toes about the things that
> Lorian has done to people from this ng, in their real lives, because she
> didn't like what they typed to or about her.
>
> She has never intimidated me, though, and that ****es her off.
>
> Oh well..... I've always thought that she had a crush on me, frankly. ;)
> --
> Didi
> Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
> "Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
> Anonymous
>
>

If you can, please post some of what she's done so others can be fairly
warned (aka me)

Thanks,
*bri

[Didi]

Bri wrote:

> If you can, please post some of what she's done so others can be fairly
warned (aka me)

Hmmm...where to begin?

Robbin: Lorian contacted Robbin's work and reported her b/c she was
accessing the ng on her work Internet access, and Lorian didn't like what
Robbin had to say (something about personal responsibility, no doubt).
Robbin got into a lot of trouble -- not b/c she was using the work Internet
account but b/c Lorian *kept* calling and complaining and basically
disrupting their environment with her bs complaints.

Peter: Lorian did the same thing to Peter (contacted his work), but when
she didn't get the response that she had hoped for, she took it further and
actually allegedly contacted the FBI stating that he was threatening her and
her child. Peter's vulgarities did not get so bad towards her until after
that b/c, among other things, she insinuated (in the ng) things about his
behavior with his daughters based on a picture on his website (which she was
obsessed with going to and denied though her url would pop up routinely)
that portrayed the girls in their pajamas. She further implied other
heinous things about him and would, basically, beg for his attention --
whenever he would let up, she'd start in on him again to get the whole thing
started over again.....

Me: I posted about the Navy guy threat, but, basically, it has ****ed her
off b/c she *cannot* get a rise out of me, and she *cannot* hurt me. She
has tried, unsuccessfully to guess my location so that she can publish it
here. She has tried to get jabs at me -- like that mine and Mike's marriage
would not last (4 years and counting), that our daughter was conceived
before we were married (she cannot count, obviously) insinuating that Mike
was "forced" to marry me, making comments about Mike screwing around with
nurses at work, and continuously projecting her issues onto me -- like the
whole "laughing on the outside and crying on the inside". I tell you -- I
think that she has a crush on me.....

Mo: Lorian has posted Mo's name and address in the ng -- despite the fact
that Mo has *5* children at home to protect. She has further, LMAO, tried
to report Mo to her employer.

Tom: he can probably best answer that since I do not know about their
specific involvement in other ng's.

She has, however, turned on virtually *everyone* who has supported her for
any length of time at some point. Beware.
--
Didi
Mother of 4, Step-mother of 1
"Children, perfection, and sanity. You can only have 2 out of 3."
Anonymous

[dolores]

"Didi" > wrote in message
news:a03Ua.123820$GL4.33229@rwcrnsc53...
> Hiya, Dolores!
>
> > As for me...well, I sold my house in UK and bought one in the Wild West
of
> Ireland..Now I have views for miles and ne'er a neighbour in sight. The
> lads are in their element what with fishing, surfing, gardening and
working
> with a local farmer, there's not enough hours in the day for them....I'm
> finding it a bit harder to adjust, but apparently this is natural...
> >
> > Well tis good to hear from you, good luck with the move etc..
>
> Wow! I knew that you had wanted to move back to Ireland --
congratulations!
> I am sure that you will adjust soon. Do you have family or friends where
> you are at?

Family 45 mins away
Friends 500 miles away

At this moment in time I wish it was the reverse......

Dolores

[Dana Nava]

Ooops.. oh well, cut out all of it just to say... Wha?? Insanity I tell
you... Okay..well my motto has always been trust no one..even before the
X-files..so, no worries..and I am my own employer..so I guess if I have to
yell at myself..I will, and well..this is kind of scary guys.. *serious
stare*

Dana