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turtledove
October 17th 03, 03:50 AM
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

Orlando sends his best!

hugs,
*bri


<'Kate> wrote in message ...
> I'm not the designated postee of the FAQ nor am I trying to take over
> the job. Ms. B will be back to posting it in November. She's currently
> on a dial-up without newsserver abilities. Meanwhile, Job hunting and
> Luke are taking up her time at the moment.
>
> Or... (from Ms. B)
> or tell them I've been kidnapped by Orlando Bloom and the two of us are
> two physically entwined for me to take the time to write.....
>
>
> Take your pick!
>
> 'Kate
>
>
>
>
>
> Welcome all you newbies!!!
>
> alt.support.single-parents
> Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) and Resource Guide
> ---------------------------------------------------
>
>
> Contents
> --------
>
> Introduction
>
> Frequently asked questions
> 1. Are non-custodial parents welcome on this group?
> 2. How can I make time to care for my family while going to school or
> working full time?
> 3. How can I feed my family nutritious meals on a limited budget?
> 4. What is a good way of dealing with the everyday stress of being a
> single parent?
> 5. Is there life with teenagers or toddlers...they're one in the
> same, right?
> 6. Why do I seem to be working to pay the babysitter, or how do I
> reduce the high cost of day care?
> 7. How can I negotiate the public assistance system (food stamps,
> AFDC and medical care) without getting lost in the shuffle?
> 8. How can I get my child to mind without feeling guilty?
> 9. How can I help my children cope with divorce?
> 10. Isn't this group called alt.SUPPORT.*? Why are people so darn
> *mean* here sometimes? Why doesn't everyone here love me?
> 11. How can I get the most bang for my buck from this group?
> 12. Just who, exactly, is welcome on this group?
>
> Health and Medical References
> Groups and Organizations for Single Parents
> Web Sites for Parents
> Recommended Reading
> Other Newsgroups of Interest
> Contributors to this FAQ
>
> Introduction
> ------------
>
> Welcome to alt.support.single-parents! This group was created to
> address the unique problems that single parents face and to provide a
> forum where single parents can support each other and help with
> solutions to parenting problems. Single parenting can be a difficult
> job at times, and single parents are often overworked, underpaid,
> exhausted and generally very busy people, to say the least. This FAQ
> will attempt to address a few issues of interest to single parents.
> Hopefully it will grow as people add their ideas and comments (see
> "Contributors to this FAQ").
>
> It is understood that there are many people who have not been with us
> very long, so here is just a brief summary of some commonly accepted
> methods and observances. Practicing these will help to ensure your
> acceptance and will promote a longer stay here with your fellow single
> parents. And above all else, have fun! Our lives are tough enough as it
> is. No need to make it any harder on ourselves!
>
> Punctuation and Grammar are important. Just like in the real world,
> first impressions are important. However, we cannot see you, so our
> first impressions are made based on your posts. We'd like to hear your
> ideas. However, if you want us to take your thoughts into
> consideration, we need to be able to understand them, for example:
>
> The following post is something that most would not bother to read:
>
> PLESE HELP!
> I tink tat my ex is an ass. I wants to move away buts h'es fighen me in
> coart and makings it raelly hard for me and myh new loover.
>
> If you have spell check, it is recommended that you turn it on.
> Capital letters and end punctuation also help to make a post look neat
> and easy to read.
>
> Please snip your quotes. If someone posts a long message and you want
> to respond to that message, don't quote the whole thing!
> Quote the sentences that are relevant to the comments that you are
> going to make. After reading someone's post, most people do not want to
> read it again in its entirety when reading your reply.
>
> However, remember to quote at least some of the message that you are
> replying to. Most of the time, the reader does not remember the message
> at the beginning of the thread if it was read three days ago. If you
> choose to reply to this message without quoting it, the reader is going
> to have no idea what you are talking about.
>
> WebTV'ers, as well as AOL'ers, have a unique problem, it appears. WebTV
> does not have an "Insert Original Message" option to click on,
> necessitating that the user copy and paste from the message being
> replied to. A WebTV-specific cut/copy/paste and "quoting text" tutorial
> is found at: http://www.geocities.com/~by2000/cutcopypaste.html
>
> Some just paste the relevant text and enclose it in angle brackets or
> other marks, which is faster and works very well.
>
> Don't post in HTML. This is not a binary newsgroup. Most of us cannot
> see your pictures, and sometimes it even freezes up our systems. Also,
> try not to type in CAPITAL LETTERS. This means that you are yelling.
>
> WebTVers: Music and background pictures are lovely but take time to
> download. Please be considerate of those who pay for internet access by
> the minute and post only the text of your messages. Expect complaints
> if you post more than just text.
>
> Remember to attribute your quotes. Before you quote someone (briefly),
> make sure to let us know whom you are quoting. It is good to spell your
> names correctly. Yes, you are permitted to misspell words (don't worry-
> it happens!),
>
> Make your messages short and to the point. Many people would rather
> read short posts than long, drawn-out messages with no point. Also,
> remember to separate the message into paragraphs if you have a lot to
> say. It is much easier to read, neater looking, and less likely to be
> skipped over by another reader.
>
> Please lurk for a while to get a feel for our newsgroup. This means
> that you hang around for a little while before making your first post.
> Lurking for an hour and then posting probably won't give you a good feel
> for the group. But don't worry! You don't have to hide in the darkness
> for a whole year before you say something. Usually, it is a good idea to
> lurk for about two weeks before posting.
>
> Coming in and insulting the other posters is not a good way to start
> things off. Show us your intelligence and make a name for yourself by
> using humor, knowledge, and kindness, and your days here will be a lot
> more fun than if you make a name for yourself through hatred, control,
> and rudeness.
>
> This group is primarily about parenting. People whose main interest is
> in starting a relationship with someone might have better luck in one of
> the other newsgroups, for example the various singles, personals or
> romance newsgroups. Those who are looking for ways to get more money via
> Child Support are often pointed to a group specifically for that
> purpose, because we have found that fighting can occur for several
> months on minor little issues. We are here to help each other, and learn
> from each other, even if we don't always like each other.
>
> It also means we might disagree at times. Who here hasn't disagreed in
> some way with their former spouse about a parenting issue? In order to
> avoid long, protracted, and usually senseless in-fighting, we recommend
> (like any time one posts a Usenet article) that one stop, think, count
> to ten and think again before replying. Especially if one is angry or
> doesn't like the response they get, or see.
>
> Also, since this *is* a support group for single parents, many readers
> of this group prefer not using phrases that have a negative connotation
> such as "illegitimate children" or "broken home." All children are
> legitimate human beings, and many single parent households work very
> well!
>
> Note: this FAQ will be posted on the first day of each month.
>
> Frequently Asked Questions
> --------------------------
>
> 1. Are non-custodial parents welcome on this group?
>
> Yes! If you are a parent and you are single, then you are definitely
> a single parent and welcome on this group! Any insights you have to
> offer on solutions to the problems of single parenting are bound to help
> someone somewhere!
>
> 2. How can I make time to care for my family while going to school or
> working full time?
>
> Many single parents are very busy people, and finding time to fit
> everything in can be a challenge. Work, school and family care are the
> important things, and often other activities such as housekeeping have
> to be assigned a lower priority. You don't need to be "super mom" or
> "super dad". If the dirty dishes have to stay in the sink overnight or
> the vacuuming or laundry or grocery shopping has to wait until the
> weekend, don't worry about it. It helps to work out and stick to a
> regular schedule.
> Children, no matter how young, can be assigned simple tasks to help
> out. You may need to lower your standards a little, but be sure you
> never redo what your children have done. In this way small tasks get
> accomplished, you develop a sense of accomplishment in your children and
> increase their self-esteem (while decreasing the overall burden for
> yourself). Be sure the tasks you assign them are age appropriate and
> that you teach them how to do the task before making it their permanent
> job. Keep organized by making lists of things that need to be done.
> Post a list of grocery items on the fridge...have everyone add to it as
> the week progresses. To avoid making multiple trips, try to run as many
> errands as possible each time you go out.
>
> 3. How can I feed my family nutritious meals on a limited budget?
>
> Some single parent families have tighter budgets than other families,
> but nutrition doesn't have to suffer. In fact, some of the most
> nutritious foods like fruits, vegetables, beans and grains (the foods at
> the bottom of the "food pyramid") are among the cheapest. Frozen
> dinners can be nutritious if you shop carefully, but they tend to be
> relatively expensive.
> "Fast food" should be avoided because of high cost and poor nutritional
> value. Investigate possible alternatives to "regular" grocery shopping
> such as co-ops, food share, food banks, public assistance, etc. And
> don't forget to feed yourself! Your kids are important, but remember
> that you need to eat to maintain your health and energy level so you can
> be there for them!
>
> SHARE is a good resource for inexpensive food. Either $13 or $14
> plus two hours of volunteerism (*very* broadly defined) you get a share
> package worth approximately $30. There is no needs test- everyone is
> welcome, and you may acquire as many shares as you think you can use in
> a month. They do take food stamps. For more information and a list of
> sites near you, call 1-800-499-2506.
>
> The American Red Cross WIC program provides vouchers for certain
> important protein type foods to help alleviate the threat of low
> hematocrit in children. Assistance is based on all children under the
> age of five in the family.
>
> Many churches will have food programs as well. One recommendation is
> to check with your local Salvation Army or United Way for various
> avenues to explore.
>
> 4. What is a good way of dealing with the everyday stress of being a
> single parent?
>
> The best things you can do to deal with stress are to eat healthy,
> balanced meals (esp. lots of fruits, vegetables and complex
> carbohydrates), exercise regularly, get plenty of sleep and avoid
> alcohol and caffeine as much as possible. Try exercising with your
> kids, like playing or running with them outside, skating, bicycling,
> going for walks, etc. This way you can get some exercise and spend time
> with your family.
>
> 5. Is there life with teenagers or toddlers...they're one and the same,
> right?
>
> Children of all ages demand a great deal of attention from their
> parents. If you're a single parent, you're the one who has to provide
> for their needs, and this can be difficult with everyone else demanding
> attention also...work, school, ex's, bills, your child's school, etc.
> You still need to have a life of your own, however. Plan relaxation
> time after the kids go to bed, or rise 30 minutes before they do and
> enjoy a cup of coffee by yourself before the rush of the day starts.
> Don't be afraid to take some time for yourself now and then!
>
> 6. Why do I seem to be working to pay the babysitter, or how do
> I reduce the high cost of day care?
>
> If at all possible, try to work with other parents on childcare
> issues. Many parents, whether single or married, are very busy and may
> be willing to help each other with childcare. Talk to people and be
> creative! Babysitting co-ops are flourishing everywhere these
> days...they work on a barter system. We used poker chips as "payment"
> -- one chip for each hour. The more you watch someone else's kids the
> more chips you accumulate. I watched kids on the weekends and one
> evening a week. It gave my kids something to do and I earned chips to
> use while I worked or attended class. Another possibility might be to
> trade other skills you may have (auto repairs, computers, etc.) for
> babysitting services.
>
> 7. How can I negotiate the public assistance system (food stamps, AFDC
> and medical care) without getting lost in the shuffle?
>
> Look, you're not a "bad parent" if you need help making ends meet.
> When you apply for any type of public assistance remember to have
> *every* possible document they ask for with you at the time. Call the
> local office and ask for a list of documentation they need. Plan to
> spend most of the morning at the office. Even if your appointment is
> for 9 AM, the case worker probably won't get to you until 10 and the
> interviews can take as long as an hour. Once you jump through their
> hoops you'll be expected to show up for a case review every six months.
> You will probably have a new caseworker each time also. Most of all, be
> patient...it's only temporary and the help you can receive will reduce
> your financial stress levels by half!
>
> 8. How can I get my child to mind without feeling guilty?
>
> Single parents sometimes succumb to the urge to be "friends" with their
> children or worry that they are being too harsh with them. The
> important thing to keep in mind is that *you* are the parent and the
> authority figure in their lives. Discipline must be consistent for your
> child and for your own well being. Younger children don't need
> "reasons" behind your rules, but you may want to sit down with older
> children (school age) and make a list of "house rules" and consequences
> for the entire family...this means you too. Don't forget everyone's
> chores. Also include a "reward" for the member who follows all the
> rules each day (for young children...under age 7
> or 8) or week (for older children). Your children will have many
> friends in their lives, but you have to be their parent, especially now
> when they are adjusting to their lifestyle.
>
> 9. How can I help my children cope with divorce?
>
> Divorce can be hard on adults, but it can also be devastating for
> children. Some ideas for helping children cope with divorce:
>
> - If possible, help your children maintain a stable, loving
> relationship with *both* parents.
>
> - Establish regular, dependable visiting patterns with the
> non-custodial parent.
>
> - It does help the children if you maintain a healthy and positive
> outlook on life. Living in the past and holding resentments are not the
> best for your children (not to mention the toll it takes on you!).
>
> - The children need to know that they are loved by *both* parents,
> and it helps to frequently reassure them of this.
>
> - Never try to make your children take sides, and never try to use
> your children to hurt your ex-spouse.
>
> 10. Isn't this group called alt.SUPPORT.*? Why are people so darn
> *mean* here sometimes? Why doesn't everyone here love me?
>
> We are people who have nothing in common for the most part... except
> for one of the most challenging jobs there is. What brings us to the
> same group is one item out of a multitude of possibilities. Only one.
> That isn't always going to be conducive to us all sharing, and us all
> playing well with theirs, all of the time. We have found "support" on
> the web is most often a misnomer.
>
> Solution? Take what applies, and leave the rest behind. Participate if
> you like, but not everyone is going to love you. Remember, this is the
> 'net, not group therapy. Will you, or anyone, really be affected
> tomorrow, or in 5 years?
>
> Best advice we can give you? "Don't take the 'net so darn seriously!"
>
> 11. How can I get the most bang for my buck from this group?
>
> You get what you put into things. If one doesn't participate, but
> just sits there and reads, they're probably not going to stick around.
> It's too bad really, because there's a *lot* of good info, and feedback,
> available here. Sometimes people aren't *looking* for feedback, they're
> looking for someone to cosign their BS, and there can be a tad of a
> rumble. But if you're looking for a place to use, contribute, share, and
> receive info on single parenting, there aren't many better places.
>
> Most of the whining about demon-exes, child support, ad nauseum gets
> squished pretty quickly, and what we end up with are mostly supportive
> people sharing their experiences, and needs.
>
> 12. Just who, exactly, is welcome on this group?
>
> If you are a parent and you are single, have experience as a single
> parent, or the intricacies of being a custodial or non-custodial parent,
> then you have an understanding of the complexities of being a single
> parent and are welcome on this group! Any insights you have to offer on
> solutions to the problems of single parenting are bound to help someone
> somewhere!
>
> Health and Medical References
> -----------------------------
>
> "The AMA Family Medical Guide" (Random House) has information on
> symptoms and risks of various illnesses and injuries (and self help if
> any), prescription drugs, self diagnosis symptom charts and a wealth of
> medical information.
>
> "Gray's Anatomy" (Running Press) has detailed illustrations and
> descriptions of the various body systems (skeletal, muscular, nervous,
> vascular, digestive, etc.).
>
> "The Physician's Desk Reference" is a comprehensive resource that
> describes the purpose and side effects of many prescription drugs.
>
> "The Complete Book of Food Counts" by Corinne T. Netzer is a list of
> over 12,000 foods, showing calories, carbohydrates, protein,
> cholesterol, sodium, fat and fiber for each item.
>
> "Smart Exercise" by Covert Bailey has some very good information on
> aerobic and anaerobic exercise, diet, metabolism and related topics.
>
> Groups and Organizations for Single Parents
> -------------------------------------------
>
> Parents Without Partners
> National. 500+ chapters. Founded 1957.
> Educational organization of single parents (either divorced, separated,
> widowed or never married). Newsletter. Online chat room. Single parent
> magazine, chapter development guidelines. Membership dues $20-40.
> WRITE:
> PWP
> 1650 S. Dixie Highway, Suite 510
> Boca Raton, FL 33432
> CALL: 1-800-637-7974
> (561)391-8833
> FAX: (561)395-8557
> E-MAIL:
> WEBSITE: http://www.parentswithoutpartners.org
>
> Big Brothers/Big Sisters
> (check your phone book for the number in your area)
>
> National Congress for Fathers and Children
> 9454 Wilshire Blvd., Beverly Hills CA 90212
> 1-800-SEE-DADS
> URL: http://www.ncfc.net/
>
> Single Mothers by Choice
> P.O. Box 1642
> New York, NY 10028
> (212) 988-0993
> URL: http://mattes.home.pipeline.com/
>
>
>
>
>
>
> National Organization of Single Mothers
> National. 3 affiliated groups. Founded 1991.
> Networking system serving single mothers. Provides information and
> referrals
> to single mothers. Dues $19. Assistance in starting new groups.
> WRITE:
> NOSM
> P.O. Box 68
> Midland, NC 28107
> CALL: (704)888-KIDS
> FAX: (704)888-1752
> E-MAIL:
> WEBSITE: http://www.singlemothers.org
>
> Single Mothers By Choice
> National. 20 chapters. Founded 1981.
> Support and information to mature, single women who have chosen, or who
> are considering, single motherhood. Services include "Thinkers"
> workshops, quarterly newsletter, and membership. For a brochure and list
> of back issues of newsletter
> WRITE:
> SMC
> P.O. Box 1642 Gracie Square Station
> New York, NY 10028
> CALL: (212)988-0993
>
> National Organization of Single Mothers
> Publisher of Single MOTHER Magazine
> P.O. Box 68
> Midland, NC 28107-0068
> (704) 888-KIDS
>
> Phoenix Single Parents Association
> http://www.singleparents.org
>
> Single Parent Resource Center
> International. 7 affiliated groups. Founded 1975.
> Network of single parent self-help groups. Information and referral,
> seminars, consultation, resource library. Separate group for men and
> coed groups. Working on groups for homeless single parents and mothers
> coming out of prison. Newsletter. Guidelines and materials for starting
> parenting and teen groups.
> WRITE:
> Single Parent Resource Center
> 31 E. 28th St.
> New York, NY 10016
> CALL: (212)951-7030
> FAX: (212)951-7037
> E-MAIL:
>
> Rainbows Peer Support Group
> 1111 Tower Road Schaumburg, IL 60173
> (847) 310-1880 Fax: (847) 310-0120
> TOLL-FREE: 1-800-266-3206
> URL: http://www.rainbows.org/
>
> G I N G E R B R E A D: The charitable organization for all single
> parents and their children.
> 7 Sovereign Close,
> Sovereign Court,
> London E1W 3HW.
> Tel: 020 7488 9300
> Fax: 020 7488 9333
> Advice Line... 0800 018 4318. Open Monday through Friday 10am to 4pm
> Advice Email: .
> Fax...0171 336 8185
> E-mail:
> URL: http://www.gingerbread.org.uk/
>
>
> Web Sites for Parents
> ---------------------
> Resourse for Single Mothers
> http://www.singlerose.com
>
> The online resource for single parent families
> http://www.singleparentcentral.com
>
> The Single Parent Network
> www.makinglemonade.com
>
> The Divorce Homepage
> http://www.divorcesupport.com/
>
> Fathers' Rights and Equality Exchange (F.R.E.E.)
> http://dadsrights.org/
>
> ParentsPlace
> http://www.parentsplace.com/
>
> Parents Without Partners
> http://www.parentswithoutpartners.org
>
> Welcome to Parent Soup!
> http://www.parentsoup.com/
>
> Widowed Young
> A discussion group for people who are (or who have been) widowed under
> the age of about 45. (This is not a rigid limit.)
> http://www.topica.com/lists/widowed_young
>
> Safely Surfing the Internet: Guidelines for Parents and Children
> http://www.safekids.com/child_safety.htm#Guidelines
> and you might just wish to peruse the whole link:
> http://www.safekids.com
>
> Low and no cost childrens health insurance program in the US:
> http://www.insurekidsnow.gov/
>
> US State Medicaid Toll-Free Lines
> http://www.hcfa.gov/medicaid/obs5.htm
>
> Free prescription drugs program
> http://www.sunflower.org/~cfsdays/freedrug/htm
>
> (US) Student Financial aid
> http://www.fafsa.ed.gov
>
> US income tax forms and info
> http://www.irs.gov
>
> Know that everything you say on usenet is archived at google and so you
> should watch WATCH WHAT YOU SAY!!!
> http://www.google.com/advanced_group_search?hl=en
>
> For people who feel abused online
> http://www.haltabuse.org
>
> For child support, custody, and divorce help
> http://www.findlaw.com
>
> This is a place that gives free help with budgeting
> http://www.crown.org/tools/budgetguide.asp
> http://www.crown.org
>
>
> Recommended Reading
> -------------------
> "You Are Your Child's First Teacher"
> by Rahima Baldwin-Dancy
> ISBN: 0890879672
> Format: Paperback, 384pp
> Pub. Date: May 2000
>
> Publisher: Ten Speed Press
> Edition Description: REVISED
> Barnes & Noble Sales Rank: 26,212
>
> "The Omnipotent Child" (out of print)
> http://www.omnipotentchild.com/child-rearing_books.htm)
> ISBN: 096932717x
> Publisher: Palmer Press
>
> "Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems"
> Author: Richard Ferber,MD
> ISBN: 0671620991 (ER163)
> Format: Paperback
>
>
> "Get Out of My Life, But First Could You Drive Me and Cheryl to the
> Mall? : a Parent's Guide to the New Teenager."
> Author: WOLF, ANTHONY E.
> Publisher: Farrar Straus & Giroux; (August 1, 2002)
> ISBN: 0374528535
>
> "I Can't Get Over It: A Handbook for Trauma Survivors"
> by Aphrodite Matsakis
> ISBN: 157224058X
> Publisher: New Harbinger Pubs (2nd Edition)
>
> "Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families"
> by Laurene Krasny Brown and Marc Brown
> ISBN: 0316109967
> Publisher: Little, Brown & Company
> Pub. Date: September 1988
> Recommend Age Range: 5 to 8
>
> "How to Make Your Children Mind Without Losing Yours"
> by Dr. Kevin Lehman
> ISBN: 0800757319
> Publisher: Revell, Fleming H. Company\
> Pub. Date: September 2000
> Edition Desc: 2ND
>
> Yes, Your Teen Is Crazy!: Loving Your Kid without Losing Your Mind
> Michael J. Bradley Foreword by Carroll O'Connor
> ISBN: 0936197439
> Publisher: Harbor Press, Inc. (Gig Harbor WA)
> Pub. Date: September 2001
> Recommend Age Range: 5
>
> "How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk" Faber,
> Adele and Mazlish, Elaine
> ISBN: 0380811960
> Publisher: Morrow,William & Co
> Pub. Date: July 1999
>
> "Managing And Understanding Parental Anger"
> by Harriet and I.J. Barrish
> ISBN: 0933701411
> Publisher: Westport Publishers
> Pub. Date: April 1991
> Edition Desc: REV
>
> "Mom's House, Dad's House: Making Shared Custody Work" by Isolina
> Ricci, Ph.D
> ISBN: 0684830787
> Publisher: Simon & Schuster Trade Paperbacks
> Pub. Date: October 1997
>
> Does Wednesday Mean Mom's House or Dad's?: Parenting Together while
> Living Apart
> Marc J. Ackerman
> ISBN: 0471130486
> Publisher: Wiley, John & Sons, Incorporated
> Pub. Date: October 1996
>
>
> "Operating Instructions"
> by Anne Lamott
> ISBN: 044990928X
> Publisher: Random House, Incorporated
> Pub. Date: April 1994
> Edition Desc: REPRINT
>
> "Positive Discipline for Single Parents"
> by Jane Nelsen, Cheryl Erwin and Carol Delzer
> ISBN: 0761520112
> Publisher: Prima Communications, Inc.
> Pub. Date: July 1999
> Edition Desc: 2ND, REVISED
>
> "Redirecting Children's Behavior, Discipline That Builds
> Self Esteem"
> by Kathryn J. Kvols
> ISBN: 1884734308
> Publisher: Parenting Pr., Inc.
> Pub. Date: November 1997
> Edition Desc: Revised
>
> "Siblings Without Rivalry"
> Faber, Adele and Mazlish, Elaine
> ISBN: 0380799006
> Publisher: Morrow,William & Co
> Pub. Date: January 1998
>
>
> "Single Mothers by Choice"
> by Jane Mattes
> ISBN: 0812922468
> Publisher: Random House, Incorporated
> Pub. Date: April 1997
> Edition Desc: 1st ed
>
> "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People"
> and....
> "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families"
> by Covey, Stephen
> ISBN: 0307440850
> Publisher: St. Martin's Press, Inc.
> Pub. Date: September 1998
>
> The Complete Idiot's Guide to Single Parenting
> Sara Dulaney Gilbert
> ISBN: 0028624092
> Publisher: Hungry Minds, Incorporated
> Pub. Date: April 1998
>
> The Single Mother's Survival Guide
> Patrice Karst
> ISBN: 1580910637
> Publisher: Crossing Press, Inc., The
> Pub. Date: March 2000
>
> The Ultimate Survival Guide for the Single Father
> Thomas Hoerner Patrick David (Illustrator
> ISBN: 0967473640
> Publisher: Harbinger Press
> Pub. Date: May 2002
>
> The Complete Single Mother: Reassuring Answers to Your Most Challenging
> Concerns
> Andrea Engber Leah Lungness
> ISBN: 1580623026
> Publisher: Adams Media Corporation
> Pub. Date: February 2000
> Edition Desc: 2ND
>
> Magazine: "Going Bonkers?"
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> or call 1-800-403-8850 (in Florida 407/659-0975)
>
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> alt.child-support
> alt.dads-rights
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