Should I suggest next visits?

[Andrew]

Hey, addressed to anyone who has any thoughts (and knows my story) but I was
thinking about Kate in particular as she had some advice on handling meeting
with wife/ex wife. Should I introduce the idea of arranging the next visit
now? I am of a mind to as I feel its safe, it gives daughter chance to see
both parents (and vice versa) and of course it gives me a bit of a break to
get my salsa technique right. Any advice I will probably pick up, so wired
on good vibes tonight doubt I am going to sleep though have to to wake wife
up early for a meeting she has tomorrow. Have suggested we all hit the new
Mexican restaurant tomorrow (wife's step mum invited too). Hmm, better
dredge up the old herbal Nytols later on and see if I can get some sack
time.

Life's good guys, live it. Play the hand your given and enjoy as much as you
can, its a crime not to.

Andrew

[Tiffany]

Andrew > wrote in message
...
> Hey, addressed to anyone who has any thoughts (and knows my story) but I
was
> thinking about Kate in particular as she had some advice on handling
meeting
> with wife/ex wife. Should I introduce the idea of arranging the next visit
> now? I am of a mind to as I feel its safe, it gives daughter chance to see
> both parents (and vice versa) and of course it gives me a bit of a break
to
> get my salsa technique right. Any advice I will probably pick up, so wired
> on good vibes tonight doubt I am going to sleep though have to to wake
wife
> up early for a meeting she has tomorrow. Have suggested we all hit the new
> Mexican restaurant tomorrow (wife's step mum invited too). Hmm, better
> dredge up the old herbal Nytols later on and see if I can get some sack
> time.
>
> Life's good guys, live it. Play the hand your given and enjoy as much as
you
> can, its a crime not to.
>
> Andrew
>
>

Sure talk to her about it. See what she has in mind for visits or if she is
just going to wing it. Let her know she can have the kid pretty much any
time (atleast now that she isn't in school).

T

[Andrew]

<'Kate> wrote in message ...
> On Mon, 5 Jan 2004 23:37:45 +0000 (UTC), "Andrew"
> >
> >Hey, addressed to anyone who has any thoughts (and knows my story) but I
was
> >thinking about Kate in particular as she had some advice on handling
meeting
> >with wife/ex wife. Should I introduce the idea of arranging the next
visit
> >now? I am of a mind to as I feel its safe, it gives daughter chance to
see
> >both parents (and vice versa) and of course it gives me a bit of a break
to
> >get my salsa technique right. Any advice I will probably pick up, so
wired
> >on good vibes tonight doubt I am going to sleep though have to to wake
wife
> >up early for a meeting she has tomorrow. Have suggested we all hit the
new
> >Mexican restaurant tomorrow (wife's step mum invited too). Hmm, better
> >dredge up the old herbal Nytols later on and see if I can get some sack
> >time.
> >
> >Life's good guys, live it. Play the hand your given and enjoy as much as
you
> >can, its a crime not to.
> >
> >Andrew
>
> A. Take it slow.
> B. Ask her if she wants to talk about it. You don't want her to feel
> like you're pushing.
>
> 'Kate
>

Thanks Kate (and Tiffany),

Did just slowly suggest if she wanted to talk about it anytime was cool. She
had a business meeting yesterday for most of morning and after it said she
was too tired to talk about anything serious. No problemo. Took daughter,
mum and mums step mum to the new Mexican restaurant. Great meal. She decided
she did not want to spend final night with daughter and I as she could not
be sure she would not break down when time came to take daughter back to
school (first day of new term was today). OK, No problemo. She will have
left the country now, along the way yesterday she did mention she would like
to see daughter over summer but it depended on her fund situation. Kid is
OK, was excited about going back to school and says she is going to tell all
her friends about her holiday in Sweden. Incredibly warm today and
yesterday for the time of year (apropos of absolutely nothing!)

Andrew

[Tiffany]

Andrew > wrote in message
...
>
> <'Kate> wrote in message
...
> > On Mon, 5 Jan 2004 23:37:45 +0000 (UTC), "Andrew"
> > >
> > >Hey, addressed to anyone who has any thoughts (and knows my story) but
I
> was
> > >thinking about Kate in particular as she had some advice on handling
> meeting
> > >with wife/ex wife. Should I introduce the idea of arranging the next
> visit
> > >now? I am of a mind to as I feel its safe, it gives daughter chance to
> see
> > >both parents (and vice versa) and of course it gives me a bit of a
break
> to
> > >get my salsa technique right. Any advice I will probably pick up, so
> wired
> > >on good vibes tonight doubt I am going to sleep though have to to wake
> wife
> > >up early for a meeting she has tomorrow. Have suggested we all hit the
> new
> > >Mexican restaurant tomorrow (wife's step mum invited too). Hmm, better
> > >dredge up the old herbal Nytols later on and see if I can get some sack
> > >time.
> > >
> > >Life's good guys, live it. Play the hand your given and enjoy as much
as
> you
> > >can, its a crime not to.
> > >
> > >Andrew
> >
> > A. Take it slow.
> > B. Ask her if she wants to talk about it. You don't want her to feel
> > like you're pushing.
> >
> > 'Kate
> >
>
> Thanks Kate (and Tiffany),
>
> Did just slowly suggest if she wanted to talk about it anytime was cool.
She
> had a business meeting yesterday for most of morning and after it said she
> was too tired to talk about anything serious. No problemo. Took daughter,
> mum and mums step mum to the new Mexican restaurant. Great meal. She
decided
> she did not want to spend final night with daughter and I as she could not
> be sure she would not break down when time came to take daughter back to
> school (first day of new term was today). OK, No problemo. She will have
> left the country now, along the way yesterday she did mention she would
like
> to see daughter over summer but it depended on her fund situation. Kid is
> OK, was excited about going back to school and says she is going to tell
all
> her friends about her holiday in Sweden. Incredibly warm today and
> yesterday for the time of year (apropos of absolutely nothing!)
>
> Andrew
>
>

Good.... seems things are going as well as they can between you two. Now go
rub happiness around. ;)

T

[Andrew]

"Tiffany" > wrote in message
...
>
> Andrew > wrote in message
> ...
> >
> > <'Kate> wrote in message
> ...
> > > On Mon, 5 Jan 2004 23:37:45 +0000 (UTC), "Andrew"
> > > >
> > > >Hey, addressed to anyone who has any thoughts (and knows my story)
but
> I
> > was
> > > >thinking about Kate in particular as she had some advice on handling
> > meeting
> > > >with wife/ex wife. Should I introduce the idea of arranging the next
> > visit
> > > >now? I am of a mind to as I feel its safe, it gives daughter chance
to
> > see
> > > >both parents (and vice versa) and of course it gives me a bit of a
> break
> > to
> > > >get my salsa technique right. Any advice I will probably pick up, so
> > wired
> > > >on good vibes tonight doubt I am going to sleep though have to to
wake
> > wife
> > > >up early for a meeting she has tomorrow. Have suggested we all hit
the
> > new
> > > >Mexican restaurant tomorrow (wife's step mum invited too). Hmm,
better
> > > >dredge up the old herbal Nytols later on and see if I can get some
sack
> > > >time.
> > > >
> > > >Life's good guys, live it. Play the hand your given and enjoy as much
> as
> > you
> > > >can, its a crime not to.
> > > >
> > > >Andrew
> > >
> > > A. Take it slow.
> > > B. Ask her if she wants to talk about it. You don't want her to feel
> > > like you're pushing.
> > >
> > > 'Kate
> > >
> >
> > Thanks Kate (and Tiffany),
> >
> > Did just slowly suggest if she wanted to talk about it anytime was cool.
> She
> > had a business meeting yesterday for most of morning and after it said
she
> > was too tired to talk about anything serious. No problemo. Took
daughter,
> > mum and mums step mum to the new Mexican restaurant. Great meal. She
> decided
> > she did not want to spend final night with daughter and I as she could
not
> > be sure she would not break down when time came to take daughter back to
> > school (first day of new term was today). OK, No problemo. She will have
> > left the country now, along the way yesterday she did mention she would
> like
> > to see daughter over summer but it depended on her fund situation. Kid
is
> > OK, was excited about going back to school and says she is going to tell
> all
> > her friends about her holiday in Sweden. Incredibly warm today and
> > yesterday for the time of year (apropos of absolutely nothing!)
> >
> > Andrew
> >
> >
>
> Good.... seems things are going as well as they can between you two. Now
go
> rub happiness around. ;)
>
> T
>
>

Don't get me started on that LOL.

Andrew