Danny
June 18th 04, 08:42 PM
I wife sometimes I think does not care about my feelings. (Or maybe I
am just over sensitive).
She makes plans with her mom all the time and takes my daughter with
her. On a Thursday I call home at lunch to check messages. I hear a
message from my mother-in-law to my daughter saying she ant wait to
take her to the movies to see Garfield with my wife. (For the next
day).
When I get home I ask her if she was ever going to tell me of her
plans to go to the movies. She said they had planned on taking her to
the 2:25 show. I told her I would like to go and that their was a 4:50
show. (I get off at 4:30). She said fine or something like that.
Had a busy day at work, she called twice and could not get ahold of
me. Left me a message the last time that "she would see me after
work". indicating that they were going to go to the early movie.
I called her at home and asked why. She said they did not want to wait
around until I got off work. She said she would wait if it was that
important. (Indicating she was a little aggitated and did not want to
wait.) I talked to her some more about some different subject then she
says, "i'll just call you after work". (Indicating they were going to
the early movie after all.) Sg=he said we would go out to eat after
whh=en I get off. (We were going to do that before anyway)
I know this seems like nit picking but this happens all the time. I
just dont feel like anyone cares.
My wife even tells me that I let people run over me too much. Maybe
that is my problem. Any suggestions? (Even telling me if I am an
idiot?)
am just over sensitive).
She makes plans with her mom all the time and takes my daughter with
her. On a Thursday I call home at lunch to check messages. I hear a
message from my mother-in-law to my daughter saying she ant wait to
take her to the movies to see Garfield with my wife. (For the next
day).
When I get home I ask her if she was ever going to tell me of her
plans to go to the movies. She said they had planned on taking her to
the 2:25 show. I told her I would like to go and that their was a 4:50
show. (I get off at 4:30). She said fine or something like that.
Had a busy day at work, she called twice and could not get ahold of
me. Left me a message the last time that "she would see me after
work". indicating that they were going to go to the early movie.
I called her at home and asked why. She said they did not want to wait
around until I got off work. She said she would wait if it was that
important. (Indicating she was a little aggitated and did not want to
wait.) I talked to her some more about some different subject then she
says, "i'll just call you after work". (Indicating they were going to
the early movie after all.) Sg=he said we would go out to eat after
whh=en I get off. (We were going to do that before anyway)
I know this seems like nit picking but this happens all the time. I
just dont feel like anyone cares.
My wife even tells me that I let people run over me too much. Maybe
that is my problem. Any suggestions? (Even telling me if I am an
idiot?)