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George Giesler
July 30th 06, 12:15 PM
You're a confused critter ain't ya Butch --

Remember what Doug taught you now- can't be more kids secretly abused than
the population of children.

You koo-koo's crack me up - so your daddy porked ya - give it a rest aready.


"0:->" > wrote in message
news:EdadnQNOjb5hqlHZnZ2dnUVZ_rWdnZ2d@scnresearch. com...
> ... say my worthy opponents.
>
> http://www.aacap.org/page.ww?section=Facts+for+Families&name=Child+Sexual+Abuse
>
> Child Sexual Abuse
>
> No. 9; Updated July 2004
>
> Child sexual abuse has been reported up to 80,000 times a year, but the
> number of unreported instances is far greater, because the children are
> afraid to tell anyone what has happened, and the legal procedure for
> validating an episode is difficult. The problem should be identified, the
> abuse stopped, and the child should receive professional help. The
> long-term emotional and psychological damage of sexual abuse can be
> devastating to the child.
>
> Child sexual abuse can take place within the family, by a parent,
> step-parent, sibling or other relative; or outside the home, for example,
> by a friend, neighbor, child care person, teacher, or stranger. When
> sexual abuse has occurred, a child can develop a variety of distressing
> feelings, thoughts and behaviors.
>
> No child is psychologically prepared to cope with repeated sexual
> stimulation. Even a two or three year old, who cannot know the sexual
> activity is wrong, will develop problems resulting from the inability to
> cope with the overstimulation.
>
> The child of five or older who knows and cares for the abuser becomes
> trapped between affection or loyalty for the person, and the sense that
> the sexual activities are terribly wrong. If the child tries to break away
> from the sexual relationship, the abuser may threaten the child with
> violence or loss of love. When sexual abuse occurs within the family, the
> child may fear the anger, jealousy or shame of other family members, or be
> afraid the family will break up if the secret is told.
>
> A child who is the victim of prolonged sexual abuse usually develops low
> self-esteem, a feeling of worthlessness and an abnormal or distorted view
> of sex. The child may become withdrawn and mistrustful of adults, and can
> become suicidal.
>
> Some children who have been sexually abused have difficulty relating to
> others except on sexual terms. Some sexually abused children become child
> abusers or prostitutes, or have other serious problems when they reach
> adulthood.
>
> Often there are no obvious physical signs of child sexual abuse. Some
> signs can only be detected on physical exam by a physician.
>
> Sexually abused children may develop the following:
>
> * unusual interest in or avoidance of all things of a sexual nature
> * sleep problems or nightmares
> * depression or withdrawal from friends or family
> * seductiveness
> * statements that their bodies are dirty or damaged, or fear that
> there is something wrong with them in the genital area
> * refusal to go to school
> * delinquency/conduct problems
> * secretiveness
> * aspects of sexual molestation in drawings, games, fantasies
> * unusual aggressiveness, or
> * suicidal behavior
>
> Child sexual abusers can make the child extremely fearful of telling, and
> only when a special effort has helped the child to feel safe, can the
> child talk freely. If a child says that he or she has been molested,
> parents should try to remain calm and reassure the child that what
> happened was not their fault. Parents should seek a medical examination
> and psychiatric consultation.
>
>
> --
> "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what
> to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb
> contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else)

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July 30th 06, 02:32 PM
George Giesler wrote:
> You're a confused critter ain't ya Butch --
>
> Remember what Doug taught you now- can't be more kids secretly abused than
> the population of children.

You and he seem to be confused as to "numbers of children" vs "numbers
of reports of abuse."

Most reports of abuse concerning A child include many more than single
instances of abuse.

And many reports are multiples about the same child or family of children.

Three, four, up to ten calls on a single child is not terribly uncommon.
>
> You koo-koo's crack me up - so your daddy porked ya - give it a rest aready.

You seem extraordinarily focused on anal imagery, Mikey.

Come from ridin' that scooter with your blond bitch too many miles?

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>
>
> "0:->" > wrote in message
> news:EdadnQNOjb5hqlHZnZ2dnUVZ_rWdnZ2d@scnresearch. com...
>> ... say my worthy opponents.
>>
>> http://www.aacap.org/page.ww?section=Facts+for+Families&name=Child+Sexual+Abuse
>>
>> Child Sexual Abuse
>>
>> No. 9; Updated July 2004
>>
>> Child sexual abuse has been reported up to 80,000 times a year, but the
>> number of unreported instances is far greater, because the children are
>> afraid to tell anyone what has happened, and the legal procedure for
>> validating an episode is difficult. The problem should be identified, the
>> abuse stopped, and the child should receive professional help. The
>> long-term emotional and psychological damage of sexual abuse can be
>> devastating to the child.
>>
>> Child sexual abuse can take place within the family, by a parent,
>> step-parent, sibling or other relative; or outside the home, for example,
>> by a friend, neighbor, child care person, teacher, or stranger. When
>> sexual abuse has occurred, a child can develop a variety of distressing
>> feelings, thoughts and behaviors.
>>
>> No child is psychologically prepared to cope with repeated sexual
>> stimulation. Even a two or three year old, who cannot know the sexual
>> activity is wrong, will develop problems resulting from the inability to
>> cope with the overstimulation.
>>
>> The child of five or older who knows and cares for the abuser becomes
>> trapped between affection or loyalty for the person, and the sense that
>> the sexual activities are terribly wrong. If the child tries to break away
>> from the sexual relationship, the abuser may threaten the child with
>> violence or loss of love. When sexual abuse occurs within the family, the
>> child may fear the anger, jealousy or shame of other family members, or be
>> afraid the family will break up if the secret is told.
>>
>> A child who is the victim of prolonged sexual abuse usually develops low
>> self-esteem, a feeling of worthlessness and an abnormal or distorted view
>> of sex. The child may become withdrawn and mistrustful of adults, and can
>> become suicidal.
>>
>> Some children who have been sexually abused have difficulty relating to
>> others except on sexual terms. Some sexually abused children become child
>> abusers or prostitutes, or have other serious problems when they reach
>> adulthood.
>>
>> Often there are no obvious physical signs of child sexual abuse. Some
>> signs can only be detected on physical exam by a physician.
>>
>> Sexually abused children may develop the following:
>>
>> * unusual interest in or avoidance of all things of a sexual nature
>> * sleep problems or nightmares
>> * depression or withdrawal from friends or family
>> * seductiveness
>> * statements that their bodies are dirty or damaged, or fear that
>> there is something wrong with them in the genital area
>> * refusal to go to school
>> * delinquency/conduct problems
>> * secretiveness
>> * aspects of sexual molestation in drawings, games, fantasies
>> * unusual aggressiveness, or
>> * suicidal behavior
>>
>> Child sexual abusers can make the child extremely fearful of telling, and
>> only when a special effort has helped the child to feel safe, can the
>> child talk freely. If a child says that he or she has been molested,
>> parents should try to remain calm and reassure the child that what
>> happened was not their fault. Parents should seek a medical examination
>> and psychiatric consultation.
>>
>>
>> --
>> "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what
>> to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb
>> contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else)
>
>


--
"Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what
to have for lunch. Liberty is a well armed lamb
contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin (or someone else)