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Carlson LaVonne September 26th 05 10:31 PM

What is Spanking?
 
Merriam Webster's Collegiate Dictionary, 10th edition, defines spanking
as: "to strike, especially on the buttocks, with and open hand."

Striking an adult, anywhere on his or her body, for any reason other
than refusing criminal apprehension or in self defense, is legally
defined as physical assault.

Why do people fight to defend their so-called right to physically
assault their children? Is it because children are not protected from
physical assault in the US? Is it because children cannot fight back
until they are much older? Is it simply a repeat of how spankers were
parented? Is it a lack of not knowing better? I'm curious.

Why do parents feel the need to physically assault their children? And
why do so many individuals who aren't parents feel the need to defend
the practice?

And before one individual answers, this has nothing to do with
reasonable force.

LaVonne


Doan September 27th 05 03:16 AM


So did your parents "assault" you, LaVonne? ;-)

Doan

On Mon, 26 Sep 2005, Carlson LaVonne wrote:

Merriam Webster's Collegiate Dictionary, 10th edition, defines spanking
as: "to strike, especially on the buttocks, with and open hand."

Striking an adult, anywhere on his or her body, for any reason other
than refusing criminal apprehension or in self defense, is legally
defined as physical assault.

Why do people fight to defend their so-called right to physically
assault their children? Is it because children are not protected from
physical assault in the US? Is it because children cannot fight back
until they are much older? Is it simply a repeat of how spankers were
parented? Is it a lack of not knowing better? I'm curious.

Why do parents feel the need to physically assault their children? And
why do so many individuals who aren't parents feel the need to defend
the practice?

And before one individual answers, this has nothing to do with
reasonable force.

LaVonne




[email protected] September 27th 05 03:44 AM

,,,,,snip................

Dancing hysterical monkey speaks again. Miracle.

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Doan September 27th 05 04:08 AM


Little "never-spanked" boy lies again. ;-)

Doan

On 26 Sep 2005 wrote:

,,,,,snip................

Dancing hysterical monkey speaks again. Miracle.

0:-




Carlson LaVonne September 29th 05 01:23 AM

Kane,

As a result of Doan's years of badgering, lying, and harrassment
techniques I have him in a kill-file and haven't read his posts in months.

Rather than respond with a thoughtful and intelligent post, it appears
that he simply responded again as he always has. No loss to me that
he's in my kill-file.

LaVonne

wrote:

,,,,,snip................

Dancing hysterical monkey speaks again. Miracle.

0:-



[email protected] September 29th 05 04:09 AM


Carlson LaVonne wrote:
Kane,

As a result of Doan's years of badgering, lying, and harrassment
techniques I have him in a kill-file and haven't read his posts in months.

Rather than respond with a thoughtful and intelligent post, it appears
that he simply responded again as he always has. No loss to me that
he's in my kill-file.

LaVonne


You aren't entertained, as I am, by the screeching of hysterical
dancing monkeys?

Oh well, I guess you watched him for many more years than I.

I suppose it could wear thin, like his arguments.

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Doan September 29th 05 07:20 PM


Poor LaVonne! ;-) She got caught lying when she claimed to have posted
"numerous times" studies where the non-cp alternatives were proven to
be better than spanking under the same statistical analysis. She is
now looking for an excuse to avoid me and hoping that her little puppy,
Kane0 will do the dirty works for her. Come on, Kane0. LaVonne is
counting on you. ;-)

Doan


On Wed, 28 Sep 2005, Carlson LaVonne wrote:

Kane,

As a result of Doan's years of badgering, lying, and harrassment
techniques I have him in a kill-file and haven't read his posts in months.

Rather than respond with a thoughtful and intelligent post, it appears
that he simply responded again as he always has. No loss to me that
he's in my kill-file.

LaVonne

wrote:

,,,,,snip................

Dancing hysterical monkey speaks again. Miracle.

0:-





Carlson LaVonne September 30th 05 03:19 AM

Trust me, Kane. Doan's entertainment value for me wore out a long time
ago. First I tried to take him seriously. Then it became apparent that
his posts contained no debating points. And still later his posts
appeared to be nothing more than a malicious intent to block honest
debate. At that point, I placed him in my killfile, because I had
better things to do with my time than read or respond to anything he had
to say.

I find your responses to him humorous, however!

LaVonne

wrote:

Carlson LaVonne wrote:

Kane,

As a result of Doan's years of badgering, lying, and harrassment
techniques I have him in a kill-file and haven't read his posts in months.

Rather than respond with a thoughtful and intelligent post, it appears
that he simply responded again as he always has. No loss to me that
he's in my kill-file.

LaVonne



You aren't entertained, as I am, by the screeching of hysterical
dancing monkeys?

Oh well, I guess you watched him for many more years than I.

I suppose it could wear thin, like his arguments.

0:-



Doan September 30th 05 04:44 AM

On Thu, 29 Sep 2005, Carlson LaVonne wrote:

Trust me, Kane. Doan's entertainment value for me wore out a long time
ago. First I tried to take him seriously. Then it became apparent that
his posts contained no debating points. And still later his posts
appeared to be nothing more than a malicious intent to block honest
debate. At that point, I placed him in my killfile, because I had
better things to do with my time than read or respond to anything he had
to say.

IOW, he caught me lying and I just couldn't face him. ;-)

I find your responses to him humorous, however!

IOW, thank you for doing the dirty works for me, my little puppy. ;-)

Doan



RebekahGirl October 6th 05 01:44 AM

What is Spanking?
 


i believe that the need to do this, is based in a fundamentalist skewed
veiw of what it means to train up a child, to these people , kids are
born totally EVIL and they see it as a mandate by God to beat to the
point of bruising, in order to cleanse the EVIL out of the kid. ROloff
believed this:

http://www.whyaretheydead.net/misc/Factnet/HALPERIN.CSJ.


quote:
A more dramatic case is that of the Rebehak Home operated by Lester
Roloff. According to the charges, residents were paddled and whipped
for misbehavior. Roloff claimed that "such discipline was meant to save
their souls. . .There's nothing wrong with handcuffing a girl to keep
her from going to hell" (Striker, 1984, p. 98).



Roloffs was the place to dump your messed up kid (that you messed up),
and know that Roloff SOLD you your dignity back, they firmly believed
that there was NO good in us, and they were OUT to get it out of us,
none gave us a counselor we were not offered any real help, but forced
to comply to authority and somehow go back out of there from a veyr
toxic cult system back into the sick and ill family system that created
us...



latr
Bryony
Roloff Rebekah CultMindControl Survivor



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