xkatx wrote:
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I would put my money down that there's an equal amount of pros and cons,
good and bad, and that's just with siblings in general, and I would bet that
it often has little to do with age difference...

Agreed - to some extent. I just wanted to see what others have
observed. I don't think there is ever a "right" or "perfect" time to
add a sib.

-L.