"Rob" wrote in message
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My ex-wife and I about 6 weeks ago had to go in for a child support review
hearing - as I thought she would she objected to the amount of support she
was asked to pay.

I have FULL custody of the children and she has nothing to do with them,
nor does she want anything to do with them. I gave her a break the first
3 years after the divorce. We split over 5 years ago, the first 2 years
she did not pay anything. Then the order was supposed to be $360 a month
for 3 children. I agreed to lower it to 198 a month. Now the oldest
child has graduated high school and has turned 18. Our divorce decree
does NOT address college expenses and I am expected to take care of that
myself. The review came back with $249 a month (for 2 children). She had
the nerve to tell the FOC that she was NOT going to agree to ANY child
support that she should NOT have to pay anything that she wants it dropped
completely simply because she does not see the children and doesnt have
anything to do with them (yes she admitted that right out).

Well today is the hearing in front of the Judge so we will see what
happens today, it would not surprise me to see her either locked up (for
yelling at the judge which is about normal for her) or the child support
order going even higher (on imputted income) They had a review also based
on imputted income for $340 a month based on her working FULL time which
she refuses to do! (she is more than capable of working 40 hours)

I have also submitted medical bills that she is partially responsible for
and I have to take a day off of work to take them to court as well, which
seems pointless when she only pays 18% of all uncovered medical expenses
(and I have excellent insurance and the amount she owes is around $200 and
I would lose $300 if I take a day off of work!!) So that is counter
productive to say the least. I am going to ask for $265 a month in child
support and take full responsibility for all uncovered medical bills
(which are around $100 to $150 a month - my oldest son is Autistic is
under constant medical care though I am not even sure if he is my
biological son since my ex was also sleeping with her ex-bf at the same
time (he later died from an over dose on street drugs) This would
explain why my oldest son has so many issues with his health and learning
disabilities --- BUT I dont care now, though I am planning on a paterenity
before he is 18 to find out for medical reasons. I have been raising him
for over 16 years now and I dont see the point in really getting into that
issue with the courts) Though I have thought of filing a law suit against
her if I find out he is not my son, because I had a vasectomy based on the
fact that I had 3 biological children. And the fact is that the oldest
child (my daughter) may be the only biological child. She looks way to
much like me and at that time my exwife never went anywhere during the
time she became pg with her. (we were living with family at the time and
we always had people around so it would have been a little obvious since
she was iether with me or a family member all the time.)

Some women really just irk me, well and to be fair...lol some men are
just as bad if not worse! (I see it go both ways - people just need to
grow up and take care of their children and not just walk away!) I could
never walk away from my children for any reason, even if I find out they
are not mine biologically they are mine in heart.



I will post later tonight as to what happened in court today.

Robert
well I got back from court, the judge spent most of the time trying to
explain to my ex about HOW the child support was calculted and how they came
up with the amount they had figured out.

The support order was put in for $230 a month. She still had a hissy over
that. She really expected to walk out not paying a dime. She made the
excuse that she does not see the children - saying I do NOT allow her, yet
she has NEVER called, or showed up or made any effort to see them. When I
was calling her on friday (of the week she was scheduled for visitation she
yelled saying I was harassing her!! So now I have to wait for her to
contact me to see the children, and geeee she never calls!! its been close
to a year already now and I have NOT moved in 2 years and she knows where I
live)

Robert