wrote:

My ex-wife is *supposed* to be paying child support, but hasn't for the
last two and a half years. My sons, 7 and 5, are in my sole legal and
physical custody. At least they live comfortably and don't need to
depend upon payments from their deadbeat mom.

(So there's at least one example.)

Nope -- he asked for a woman who was actually PAYING the CS, not one who
was just NEGLECTING to pay it while the authorities turn a blind eye for
"some reason".

- Ron ^*^