"Paul Fritz" wrote in message
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Okay......I'll start......

"HanK" wrote in message
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I think generally men make a better custodial parent/child unit then
women.

Neither gender corners the market on being a better parent


To me most men who have their children *really* want their children,
they
do
not really give a toss about CS payments (I've never had a penny in fact
still give her mother cash when she is skint), where as alot of women
seemed
to have been either dumped with kids whilst their guy goes off and
chases
something younger/prettier or got pregnant in the hope of keeping a guy
or
getting on the CS gravy boat.

Both premiises are so wrong they don't deserve further comment


To me there is simply nothing difficult about being a single parent, in
fact
in many ways I think its easier than being part of a traditional family
unit.

Unless you are the kid.........any parent that thinks that kids are as
well
or better off in a single parent home has their head where the light
doesn't
shine,

Your statement is incredibly selfish and self centered


Maybe its a financial thing, I employ a cleaner and a PA to help out in
my
life, send my child to a private school and employ people in my
buissness,
I
think in general you are either successfull or a looser and if your a
looser
you will loose whatever your circumstance.

snicker and the vast amount of people in between


One thing that has began to niggle me is the different attitude that
women
single parents face than men, especially if you are a non custodial
female,
most women think its incredably *sweet* that I look after my daughter
(nearly 5, had her on my own since she was two) and alsmost see it in
some
sort of hollywood family movie context, however, I make a point of
employing
single parents in my buissness, they are all women, and the negativity
they
face is almost humiliating.

woulldn't by chance be because of the sterotyping of their employer would
it?
Painting with such a broad brush will generally find you painted into a
corner



rant over, I cant spell and i dont care.

Rant? more like moronic pontificating


HanK


Paul F, is this OUR Paul F? lol JK Very well said my dear and thank you.

Christine