Its takes one minute for someone to take your child. (yup less then that
even)
It takes 9 months to create a brother or sister. (and does not replace the
child stolen)
It takes many many many years, (even decades) getting over the fact you have
no idea where your child is, Or what happened to your child, or who ever
took your child.

Never ever do I leave a kid in a car. It would never happen to me. I have
heard to many cases of it happening. In fact was one here recently where
baby was dumped and it was lucky a passer by found it otherwise it would
have died.

Its againest the law in this state im living in, and also to you just dont
know who is really watching or following you.
I would suggest that she should be more careful. Maybe find out how many
cases have happened in the last year ?

Or you could be more forceful next time and if she refuses, you could then
shock her, (by being mean) and get another friend of yours to take baby
whilst she is inside looking at the houses. When she comes out, I bet you
one dollar she will panic and lose it !. (Unless of couse she doesn't really
care about the baby and is only using in a tug of war between her and her
ex)

BB

I know off topic but look at "I know my name is steven" or "the beaumont
children" both unlucky and in the wrong spot at the wrong time.


"nimue" wrote in message
...
I was recently in Tucson with a friend of mine and we went to check on a
rental property she owns. Her 2 year old was in the car seat, napping,
and
my friend left her there when we went to check the house. The windows
were
all down (this thanks to me -- my friend thought you could leave the
windows
up on a 70 degree day in Tucson! This is the kind of thing that worries
me
about my friend.). We were in the house about 15-20 minutes. She never
went to check on the toddler and we could not see the car from the house
unless we were in the front room. We went all over the house and the back
yard. My husband went to check on the toddler during this time. My
friend
did not know he did it. I felt VERY uncomfortable about the fact that my
friend left her kid in the car unattended and I mentioned it to her. She
dismissed my concerns, saying that it was a safe neighborhood and one she
was familiar with. She also said that she didn't like to wake up her
daughter from her nap because she was so tired. I do not have children.
I
know that I would NEVER leave my baby (if I had one) alone in a car, but
maybe I am just paranoid -- maybe, since I don't have kids, I just don't
understand. What should I do? Should I mention it again, more forcefully
this time? Am I just being paranoid? I would like to hear from some
parents on this. As for the neighborhood -- it's ok. It's not great and
not terrible -- just ok. Lord, I can tell you all that I am concerned
about
my friendship with this woman right now because I feel as if I should
mention this again way more forcibly, but I would like some advice first.
Thanks.

--
nimue

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