"Gini" wrote in message
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"teachrmama" wrote
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I certainly hope you are not teaching your children that they are
victims! Everyone needs to play the cards they are dealt, and not
liking your cards should never make you sit down and pout!
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That is the tragedy of some children of divorce. A parent's obsession
with the
minutia of "issues" tramples common sense and dignity. Fortunately,
the children come of age and
sort beyond the BS they were handed. Then mom's "too bad your dad
didn't show for your party," becomes
child's "no damn wonder he stayed away after the horrible wretch you
were to him."


I wonder if these mothers ever realize they are their own worst enemy
and caused their later situation by their earlier actions.
Phil #3