Subject: what do you think?
From: (MissMissy657)
Date: 11/15/2004 12:44 AM Eastern Standard Time
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Hi I am Missy and new to this newsgroup. I have been reading your messages
and
I feel for the situation that you are in. I am a single mother of three
wonderful children. I do not receive support from their father nor do I fight
for it right now. I am very lucky to have my parents. They allowed me to move
back in with them and they are helping me out just as you are supporting your
daughter and grandchild. They way that you explained how the father acted to
me
is he really doesn't want the baby and he is only doing it out of anger that
he
has to actually support the baby. Hang in there it will work out. I know that
where I am from it takes a lot to take a baby away from a mother who has a
network of support as she does. Just fight for that baby because it sound
that
she is in ahome that wants her and loves her. Not somwhere just because.



Hello Missy Thankyou for your thoughtful words and support !!!!! We have
been through quite a bit as many parents have been. Again I could be wrong, but
I think this will prove to be a misleading tactic by the father and his parents
to avoid supporting this baby. I am appalled at thier use of this baby as a
tool for thier selfishness. It is no secret my daughter has mental health
issues, none of which means she is or has been a danger to her baby. There are
many people that suffer hormanal imbalances that with proper therapy and
medication if necessary, can lead a normal life and certainly is not a reason
to take a child away from a parent, unless of course it is proven the child is
in harms way.......which is not the case here.
I'll tell ya what.....if I were in the other shoes and felt this to be true I
would'nt be waiting no week for a hearing or let the child be in physical
custody of this person for 11 months of her life.....the sheriff and I would be
at the door immediatly! This became thier defense for thier personal desire to
not support this baby and I will do my damndest to prove it . Alls fine and
good right up to the delivery of support papers, then the father all of a
sudden cuts back his work hours, and sues for custody on the only grounds they
think will work.
Now all of a sudden the paternal grandmother is willing to quit her job and
"Raise this KID" as she so called the baby so many times. Please !
QUACKQUACK !!!!!!!!!!