This is sick.
It just shows that the CSE gives not a damn for a man, even to the
extent of making him pay money to a corpse. To even have the simple
COURTESY of asking the judge for a quick five minute hearing is not only
absurd, but inhumane as well.
I've been talking to Gini on this list about child support and when they
are considered gifts, and it seems that unless you have a CP who's
honest or a list of checks, all that money was ****ed away for nothing.
This is wrong and needs to stop.
We need a political action group. ANCPR might be a good start, but it's
not enough. All of us have to get involved in the political system,
executive, legislative, and judicial. Politicians and judges, as well
as the bureaucrats, must be made aware that you can poke a dog only so
long before he bites.
And to those who say it's in the name of the children? "It's in the
name of the children, it's in the name of the children, shut up and pay
your child support, it's in the name of the children." Would you let
them slit your throat if it was in the name of the children? Beat you?
Make you stand out on the street as a prostitute so the CP can get more
money. CSE cannot hide its crimes and it breaking up the family behind
the children. They can not look at the parent with one hand out, but
blame impotency when it comes to enforcing custody and parenting time.
Children deserve more than a paycheck; they deserve two families, and
they certainly aren't getting them through the current system.
I'd like to see ANCPR or somebody else put together an action list that
needs to be done before the next election, something that we can bring
to politicians and say we want action on this. We need a system that
makes it clear that child support is a LAST resort, not a first one, and
only after the NCP is unwilling or unable to take their children for
half of the year.
And as far as the lawyers and the bureaucrats that will oppose us and
bring out that dog of abused women, I just would say kiss off and ****
off, get the hell out of our way. We're going to do something, and that
something starts now.
I say this as the son of a true deadbeat father, one who refused to pay
his child support time and time again. Now those who refuse to help out
their children should be held accountable and made to pay, but there is
a big difference between a "dead beat" and a "beat dead" parent.
Sorry, I'll get off my political soapbox right now, but we need action.