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Old November 22nd 06, 01:46 PM posted to alt.child-support,alt.support.divorce
Phil
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That's because you don't understand Hitlery's philosophy: "it takes a
village".



Reductio ad Hitlerum, took you long enough but you didnt disappoint.

So you dont like community responsibility, lets talk personal
responsibility.

Dont screw people you dont intend to spend the rest of your life with,
if you do: YOU DO SO AT YOUR OWN RISK.


So you're in favor of banning abortion, unilateral adoption and legal
abandonment or are you simply parroting the feminist chant?

Once you have children staying
together to provide for them is more important than spending time with
your buddies, or buying a ton of crap then arguing about money. Dont
have children with someone that doesnt agree with that. Failure to
follow this advice is entirly YOUR OWN DAMN FAULT.


Applicable to both parents.


Dont come whining because you couldnt come to an agreement with your
ex about the child support, thus forcing a judge to make a decision
based on a tiny amount of information.


When the outcome is nearly guaranteed to favor the mother, what impetus
does she have to "come to an agreement" since she can hardly lose?

And dont be suprised when those
of us that were sexually responsible and made our first marriage work
have more sympathy for your kids than you.


Sexual responsiblity somehow makes a marriage work?
Not sure I follow whatever line you are casting but nonetheless, it only
takes ONE to make a divorce and primarily it is the wife that is most
likely to do so. Not because of abuse, unfaithfulness or any of the many
other reasons given by feminsts but for reasons that touch on emotion,
like "not in touch with my feelings" and such nonsense.
So when you attempt to chastise men for failing to make their marriage
work, you should be chastising women for taking the easy way out instead
of making it work.


Bed, Made, Lie

And by the way, it does take a village, but one of the points that
Mrs.
Clinton is unlikley to ever understand is that part of the villiagers
responsibilty is to bitch slap those members that try and avoid
personal responsibility.


It does NOT take a village. It takes two parents. The idea that parents
should not jointly raise children is a recent invention and judging by
current society, it isn't a good one.
Somehow I cannot imagine you'd hold women to the same standards that you
suppose men should follow.
Phil #3


Ghostwriter