"Janet" wrote in

She
hardly knows this man. She doesn't even like seeing him at my house.
She is seeing a therapist for emotional issues and I'm afraid that this
will set her
back if she is forced to go visiting him.

I don't get it, you say she doesn't hardly knows the man, but has been in
therapy previously and spending time with him will set her back? Since when
does a parent's love do damage to a child?

Perhaps the reason your boyfriend was absent all these years is because you
shut him out from your daughter's life? Let me guess, you filed for C$
money just in time before her 6th birthday, so the state can legally
collect arrearages from the time of birth? Did you really think you were
going to collect a $30,000 check with no strings attached or did all your
girlfriends not tell you about that part?

If you are really serious about stopping him and you were being truthful,
then drop the CS case.
If he's really not interested, he will go away!!!!!!!!!!