"Tiffany" wrote

"teachrmama" wrote
.......
It's going to be up to you to make this easy for her. The judge almost
certaily will assign him time with his chld. So you need to start talking
about all the wonderful things little girls can do with their fathers.
Talk
to him, and arrange for the 3 of you to start doing some things
together--go
out for a hamburger, go see a movie, etc. Laugh with him, talk with him.
Let HER see what a nice man he is. (You obviously did more thatn laugh
and
talk at one point in time, or she wouldn't be here) Let her see the man
you
cared enough about to create her. YOU have the power to help this happen
without trauma. Be a loving mother to your daughter and help her get to
know and love her daddy.


Great post TM! I couldn't have said it any better.
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This case appears to be a prime (and tragic) example of PAS. Given that,
the
father stands a reasonable chance of getting very liberal parenting access.
I hope
the judge sees how the mother has manipulated this child's emotions to the
point of
her needing therapy and being in fear of her father with whom she has been
denied contact.
I hope the judge sees through it all for the best interest of this little
girl.