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Ooop, there it is.
Head. Explode. Breed=Kid=Breeder=Asshat "Mandy Smith" wrote in message news:1106333839.1ad627b27a591591c0f99116ffbc7a34@t eranews... Kari, you don't know me first of all, secondly I'm not a breeder. I only have one child, you probably have none. Is this the way you treat someone that needs help ? You have a very cold, evil, and dark soul, I recommend professional help for your lack of humanity. "Kari" wrote in message news:ynXHd.10340$HT6.4245@trnddc04... Mandy Smith wrote: Hello, You've come to the wrong place breeder troll. You did this to yourself and deserve every bit of what you've got. I just hate being one of the people paying for your mistake. A really great solution to your self-inflicted problem is to go kill your illegitimate kid, then yourself, then **** the bodies...as Pete would say. |
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new to group. What is a deadbeat dad?
"Bradley" wrote in message ... In article 1106263808.8ec7165ddd12fb42d3dd2345f9e85bb1@teran ews, says... snip breeder whining It's amazing what you get when you Google keywords like 'free', 'child' and 'support' ain't it? -- Bradley "Xanax my ass--I need automatic weapons!" - Mytoysdammit; a.s.c. |
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I was wondering what a Deadbeat Mom is???
"Father of the Year" wrote in message ... new to group. What is a deadbeat dad? "Bradley" wrote in message ... In article 1106263808.8ec7165ddd12fb42d3dd2345f9e85bb1@teran ews, says... snip breeder whining It's amazing what you get when you Google keywords like 'free', 'child' and 'support' ain't it? -- Bradley "Xanax my ass--I need automatic weapons!" - Mytoysdammit; a.s.c. |
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Father of the Year wrote:
new to group. What is a deadbeat dad? it is usually somebody who has been flailed to a ninch of their life by being accused of being insensitive to their child's needs while in fact they are struggling to put food on the table for themselves whilest being commanded to make good sized (for their incomes) support payments. I typically refer to it as "Beat Dad Dead" in my affidavits, and yes, the ex has thrown that term around to everybody, kids included. Rambler |
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"Rambler" wrote in message ... Father of the Year wrote: new to group. What is a deadbeat dad? it is usually somebody who has been flailed to a ninch of their life by being accused of being insensitive to their child's needs while in fact they are struggling to put food on the table for themselves whilest being commanded to make good sized (for their incomes) support payments. No, not always. That sure might be the case sometimes, but other times a deadbeat parent could be just that. Sometimes a deadbeat parent just doesn't feel they need to live up to their parenting responsibilities. That's not always meaning money wise. I would consider a deadbeat parent as someone who just does nothing. I'm sorry, it doesn't take much money to spend some time with your own child and show them love and that they are, in fact, a human being. There's a lot of 'parents' - both mothers AND fathers - who just don't give a damn. It goes both ways, but it seems that you just hear about the dads more than the moms. There's selfish parents both ways, and it's not fair to say that every parent who cannot afford to support their children is a deadbeat. It does go so much further than that, because there's also lots of parents who choose not to help with their children and have more than enough means to survive well, while helping out financially with their children. Support payments are only a part of a child's needs. I typically refer to it as "Beat Dad Dead" in my affidavits, and yes, the ex has thrown that term around to everybody, kids included. I don't agree with that. I, personally, believe whatever I think and feel negatively about my ex stays to myself, or to the ears of MY friends/family without the ears of my children around. I have never once said a single negative word about my sons' father for them to hear, nor have I ever said anything negative to someone who would pass my words on to them. There are a lot of parents, as well, who do the same, and then on the other hand, there are some who have no problem insulting their child's other parent and vocalize whatever anger they may have. I do believe, in every way possible, that this is so wrong and unfair to the child, even more to the other half of that child. Rambler |
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xkatx wrote:
"Rambler" wrote in message ... Father of the Year wrote: new to group. What is a deadbeat dad? it is usually somebody who has been flailed to a ninch of their life by being accused of being insensitive to their child's needs while in fact they are struggling to put food on the table for themselves whilest being commanded to make good sized (for their incomes) support payments. No, not always. That sure might be the case sometimes, but other times a deadbeat parent could be just that. Sometimes a deadbeat parent just doesn't feel they need to live up to their parenting responsibilities. That's not always meaning money wise. I would consider a deadbeat parent as someone who just does nothing. I'm sorry, it doesn't take much money to spend some time with your own child and show them love and that they are, in fact, a human being. There's a lot of 'parents' - both mothers AND fathers - who just don't give a damn. It goes both ways, but it seems that you just hear about the dads more than the moms. There's selfish parents both ways, and it's not fair to say that every parent who cannot afford to support their children is a deadbeat. It does go so much further than that, because there's also lots of parents who choose not to help with their children and have more than enough means to survive well, while helping out financially with their children. Support payments are only a part of a child's needs. I typically refer to it as "Beat Dad Dead" in my affidavits, and yes, the ex has thrown that term around to everybody, kids included. I don't agree with that. I, personally, believe whatever I think and feel negatively about my ex stays to myself, or to the ears of MY friends/family without the ears of my children around. I have never once said a single negative word about my sons' father for them to hear, nor have I ever said anything negative to someone who would pass my words on to them. There are a lot of parents, as well, who do the same, and then on the other hand, there are some who have no problem insulting their child's other parent and vocalize whatever anger they may have. I do believe, in every way possible, that this is so wrong and unfair to the child, even more to the other half of that child. Always two sides to a coin. My ex would evidently be the opposite side of the coin to you. but leaving you and me out of it, the studies that I have heard of and read indicate that a very small minority of fathers don't pay the child support ordered when they fully have the means to. The vast majority of no-payors are those that cannot afford it due to either unemployment, health or an order being set outside of their earning potential. Those that pay what they can *are still* labeled deadbeat dads. Flip that around a second, not according to you and me, but according again to the studies I have read and heard of. The vast majority (89%?) of custody decisions go to mothers, which means the vast majority (89%) of child maintenance payors are fathers. Out of the 11% of mothers who are supposed to be paying child support, a much greater number (over 30% comes to mind) are "dead beat Mom's" than are the fathers (1 to 2%) who are "dead beat Dads," yet you don't hear the phrase "Dead Beat Mom" do you? But those are just the studies. Rambler |
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"Rambler" wrote in message ... xkatx wrote: "Rambler" wrote in message ... Father of the Year wrote: new to group. What is a deadbeat dad? it is usually somebody who has been flailed to a ninch of their life by being accused of being insensitive to their child's needs while in fact they are struggling to put food on the table for themselves whilest being commanded to make good sized (for their incomes) support payments. No, not always. That sure might be the case sometimes, but other times a deadbeat parent could be just that. Sometimes a deadbeat parent just doesn't feel they need to live up to their parenting responsibilities. That's not always meaning money wise. I would consider a deadbeat parent as someone who just does nothing. I'm sorry, it doesn't take much money to spend some time with your own child and show them love and that they are, in fact, a human being. There's a lot of 'parents' - both mothers AND fathers - who just don't give a damn. It goes both ways, but it seems that you just hear about the dads more than the moms. There's selfish parents both ways, and it's not fair to say that every parent who cannot afford to support their children is a deadbeat. It does go so much further than that, because there's also lots of parents who choose not to help with their children and have more than enough means to survive well, while helping out financially with their children. Support payments are only a part of a child's needs. I typically refer to it as "Beat Dad Dead" in my affidavits, and yes, the ex has thrown that term around to everybody, kids included. I don't agree with that. I, personally, believe whatever I think and feel negatively about my ex stays to myself, or to the ears of MY friends/family without the ears of my children around. I have never once said a single negative word about my sons' father for them to hear, nor have I ever said anything negative to someone who would pass my words on to them. There are a lot of parents, as well, who do the same, and then on the other hand, there are some who have no problem insulting their child's other parent and vocalize whatever anger they may have. I do believe, in every way possible, that this is so wrong and unfair to the child, even more to the other half of that child. Always two sides to a coin. My ex would evidently be the opposite side of the coin to you. but leaving you and me out of it, the studies that I have heard of and read indicate that a very small minority of fathers don't pay the child support ordered when they fully have the means to. The vast majority of no-payors are those that cannot afford it due to either unemployment, health or an order being set outside of their earning potential. Those that pay what they can *are still* labeled deadbeat dads. Flip that around a second, not according to you and me, but according again to the studies I have read and heard of. The vast majority (89%?) of custody decisions go to mothers, which means the vast majority (89%) of child maintenance payors are fathers. Out of the 11% of mothers who are supposed to be paying child support, a much greater number (over 30% comes to mind) are "dead beat Mom's" than are the fathers (1 to 2%) who are "dead beat Dads," yet you don't hear the phrase "Dead Beat Mom" do you?snip But those are just the studies. Rambler And they are accurate. V |
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In article , 'Kate says...
............... If I were a NCF, I would be fighting the media to get rid of the term. Most of the people working in media who are in positions of power are men. Start writing them and telling them that you will refuse to buy their sponsor's products if they continue to malign NCF's. 'Kate === What's an NCF? (Bob, should I know this?) === |
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"xkatx" wrote in because there's also lots of parents who choose not to help with their children and have more than enough means to survive well, while helping out financially with their children. Please show me anyone in America who can afford CS rates? Isn't it odd that every American screams at the top of their lungs when the gas prizes go up by just a few cents and claim they can't afford trips or vactions anymore. Imagine if their gas was hiked to $25/gallon and told they had to use this gas or go to jail? That's what it feels like for us that are working and can't afford these CS rates!!!!!! |
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"Gini" wrote in message ... In article , 'Kate says... .............. If I were a NCF, I would be fighting the media to get rid of the term. Most of the people working in media who are in positions of power are men. Start writing them and telling them that you will refuse to buy their sponsor's products if they continue to malign NCF's. 'Kate === What's an NCF? (Bob, should I know this?) === Non Custodial Father? (That's my guess) |
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