CS related licene suspension question...

"Pamela" wrote in message
news

"The Dave©" wrote in message
...
Pamela wrote:
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and
steals his way through life.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake
him up. More I think about it, the more I like it.

We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps, ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children
ought to be taught the same lesson.

Differentiate "won't pay" and "can't pay". For those who are trying,
it just makes the problem worse. The kids are the ones who end up
suffering the most. Supposedly, we're trying to avoid that.

--
Whose cruel idea was it to put an 's' in the word lisp?


I am referring to those who can and won't. Seems to me a person who
doesn't
pay for years and years, but works and lives reasonably well has decided
he
won't.

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat, if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...

"Bob Whiteside" wrote in message
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"Pamela" wrote in message
hlink.net...
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's
license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter
whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and steals his way
through life.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake him
up.
More I think about it, the more I like it.

We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps,
ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children ought to be
taught the same lesson.

I got a huge lesson in what children think about these types of legal
proceedings against fathers from my daughter. Her mother tried to tell
her
all the bad stuff happening to her dad was created by the state. My
daughter was very direct in telling her mom, the reason the state is
taking
those actions against dad is because you ask them to do it. The mothers
who
hide behind the state's legal processes just don't get how much the
children
understand about the process.



I got a huge lesson in what children think about these things from my
daughter. Read the post " A child's plaintive cry". It was written by my
16 year old daughter. Certainly your ex had to ask the state to do it, but
why was she forced to ask the state to do it? Did you not pay any child
support? Why not? Isn't the responsiblity for your children as much yours
as hers? When my ex left I went to work doing things I hated because I
needed the work to pay for food and the roof over my children's heads. I
didn't think about it. I didn't question it. I just did it. It was the
morally responsible thing to do. It certainly wasn't the state's
responsibility to take care of my children. It was mine. And, it was his.
He chose not to shoulder that responsibility. Why does anyone feel
justified in not taking care of their own children?

Pamela

"Bob Whiteside" wrote in message
hlink.net...

"Pamela" wrote in message
hlink.net...
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's
license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter
whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and steals his way
through life.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake him
up.
More I think about it, the more I like it.

We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps,
ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children ought to be
taught the same lesson.

I got a huge lesson in what children think about these types of legal
proceedings against fathers from my daughter. Her mother tried to tell
her
all the bad stuff happening to her dad was created by the state. My
daughter was very direct in telling her mom, the reason the state is
taking
those actions against dad is because you ask them to do it. The mothers
who
hide behind the state's legal processes just don't get how much the
children
understand about the process.



I got a huge lesson in what children think about these things from my
daughter. Read the post " A child's plaintive cry". It was written by my
16 year old daughter. Certainly your ex had to ask the state to do it, but
why was she forced to ask the state to do it? Did you not pay any child
support? Why not? Isn't the responsiblity for your children as much yours
as hers? When my ex left I went to work doing things I hated because I
needed the work to pay for food and the roof over my children's heads. I
didn't think about it. I didn't question it. I just did it. It was the
morally responsible thing to do. It certainly wasn't the state's
responsibility to take care of my children. It was mine. And, it was his.
He chose not to shoulder that responsibility. Why does anyone feel
justified in not taking care of their own children?

Pamela

"Bob Whiteside" wrote in message
hlink.net...

"Pamela" wrote in message
hlink.net...
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's
license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter
whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and steals his way
through life.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake him
up.
More I think about it, the more I like it.

We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps,
ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children ought to be
taught the same lesson.

I got a huge lesson in what children think about these types of legal
proceedings against fathers from my daughter. Her mother tried to tell
her
all the bad stuff happening to her dad was created by the state. My
daughter was very direct in telling her mom, the reason the state is
taking
those actions against dad is because you ask them to do it. The mothers
who
hide behind the state's legal processes just don't get how much the
children
understand about the process.



I got a huge lesson in what children think about these things from my
daughter. Read the post " A child's plaintive cry". It was written by my
16 year old daughter. Certainly your ex had to ask the state to do it, but
why was she forced to ask the state to do it? Did you not pay any child
support? Why not? Isn't the responsiblity for your children as much yours
as hers? When my ex left I went to work doing things I hated because I
needed the work to pay for food and the roof over my children's heads. I
didn't think about it. I didn't question it. I just did it. It was the
morally responsible thing to do. It certainly wasn't the state's
responsibility to take care of my children. It was mine. And, it was his.
He chose not to shoulder that responsibility. Why does anyone feel
justified in not taking care of their own children?

Pamela

"Bob Whiteside" wrote in message
hlink.net...

"Pamela" wrote in message
hlink.net...
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's
license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter
whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and steals his way
through life.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake him
up.
More I think about it, the more I like it.

We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps,
ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children ought to be
taught the same lesson.

I got a huge lesson in what children think about these types of legal
proceedings against fathers from my daughter. Her mother tried to tell
her
all the bad stuff happening to her dad was created by the state. My
daughter was very direct in telling her mom, the reason the state is
taking
those actions against dad is because you ask them to do it. The mothers
who
hide behind the state's legal processes just don't get how much the
children
understand about the process.



I got a huge lesson in what children think about these things from my
daughter. Read the post " A child's plaintive cry". It was written by my
16 year old daughter. Certainly your ex had to ask the state to do it, but
why was she forced to ask the state to do it? Did you not pay any child
support? Why not? Isn't the responsiblity for your children as much yours
as hers? When my ex left I went to work doing things I hated because I
needed the work to pay for food and the roof over my children's heads. I
didn't think about it. I didn't question it. I just did it. It was the
morally responsible thing to do. It certainly wasn't the state's
responsibility to take care of my children. It was mine. And, it was his.
He chose not to shoulder that responsibility. Why does anyone feel
justified in not taking care of their own children?

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
news

"The Dave©" wrote in message
...
Pamela wrote:
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and
steals his way through life.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake
him up. More I think about it, the more I like it.

We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps, ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children
ought to be taught the same lesson.

Differentiate "won't pay" and "can't pay". For those who are trying,
it just makes the problem worse. The kids are the ones who end up
suffering the most. Supposedly, we're trying to avoid that.

--
Whose cruel idea was it to put an 's' in the word lisp?


I am referring to those who can and won't. Seems to me a person who
doesn't
pay for years and years, but works and lives reasonably well has decided
he
won't.

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat, if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
news

"The Dave©" wrote in message
...
Pamela wrote:
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and
steals his way through life.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake
him up. More I think about it, the more I like it.

We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps, ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children
ought to be taught the same lesson.

Differentiate "won't pay" and "can't pay". For those who are trying,
it just makes the problem worse. The kids are the ones who end up
suffering the most. Supposedly, we're trying to avoid that.

--
Whose cruel idea was it to put an 's' in the word lisp?


I am referring to those who can and won't. Seems to me a person who
doesn't
pay for years and years, but works and lives reasonably well has decided
he
won't.

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat, if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
news

"The Dave©" wrote in message
...
Pamela wrote:
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and
steals his way through life.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake
him up. More I think about it, the more I like it.

We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps, ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children
ought to be taught the same lesson.

Differentiate "won't pay" and "can't pay". For those who are trying,
it just makes the problem worse. The kids are the ones who end up
suffering the most. Supposedly, we're trying to avoid that.

--
Whose cruel idea was it to put an 's' in the word lisp?


I am referring to those who can and won't. Seems to me a person who
doesn't
pay for years and years, but works and lives reasonably well has decided
he
won't.

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat, if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
news

"The Dave©" wrote in message
...
Pamela wrote:
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and
steals his way through life.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake
him up. More I think about it, the more I like it.

We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps, ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children
ought to be taught the same lesson.

Differentiate "won't pay" and "can't pay". For those who are trying,
it just makes the problem worse. The kids are the ones who end up
suffering the most. Supposedly, we're trying to avoid that.

--
Whose cruel idea was it to put an 's' in the word lisp?


I am referring to those who can and won't. Seems to me a person who
doesn't
pay for years and years, but works and lives reasonably well has decided
he
won't.

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat, if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

"Pamela" wrote in message
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And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat,
if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

I asked first.