CS related licene suspension question...

"Pamela" wrote in message
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And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat,
if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

I asked first.

"Pamela" wrote in message
link.net...

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat,
if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

I asked first.

"Pamela" wrote in message
link.net...

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat,
if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

I asked first.

"Dusty" wrote in message
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"Pamela" wrote in message
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I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's
license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter
whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and steals his way
through life.

OK, try this one for size (mind the subtle sarcasm).. NCP -can't- pay the
ordered amount because it's way more then the NCP earns (include the fact
that the economy sucks and NCP has had little luck in retaining work in
the
profession of choice). Because of the already existing restrictions
placed
upon NCP, NCP can't see the children much beyond every few months. NCP
makes just barely enough to cover -basic- expenses (food, gas, phone,
etc..), so there's very little left over for yachting excisions to the
Mediterranean with Trophy Wife/Husband #5...

How is it that the child support ordered would be far more than what the NCP
earns? When my ex left, I took jobs far outside my profession because I
needed to earn money to take care of my children. My children came before
my ego.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake him
up.
More I think about it, the more I like it.

I find the idea of license suspension hardly amusing at all. How is this
in
the best interest of any NCPs children? How does this help CSE get what
they want, that being the NCPs wallet/purse?

Taking my ex's license would not affect his children in anyway. He doesn't
pay a thing. He doesn't do a thing for them in any way.


We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps,
ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children ought to be
taught the same lesson.

The same can (and often is) said of CSE agencies that overstep their
bounds - but far too often hide from their actions with "I was only
following orders"...

I don't think that NCP's should be driven to the ground at all. I think
they should pay their fair share, that's all. Often, child support becomes
oppressive because it is so in arrears that the amount becomes overwhelming.
Why would anyone let it go that far?
My brother didn't pay child support for years. He worked off the book jobs
so his income could not be garnished. In the end, he had a huge debt. But,
he caused that to happen by his own foolishness. He not only had years of
unpaid child support to make up for, but interest, and the amount they took
was far more than the original ordered amount.

Tough lesson to learn.

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
hlink.net...
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's
license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter
whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and steals his way
through life.

OK, try this one for size (mind the subtle sarcasm).. NCP -can't- pay the
ordered amount because it's way more then the NCP earns (include the fact
that the economy sucks and NCP has had little luck in retaining work in
the
profession of choice). Because of the already existing restrictions
placed
upon NCP, NCP can't see the children much beyond every few months. NCP
makes just barely enough to cover -basic- expenses (food, gas, phone,
etc..), so there's very little left over for yachting excisions to the
Mediterranean with Trophy Wife/Husband #5...

How is it that the child support ordered would be far more than what the NCP
earns? When my ex left, I took jobs far outside my profession because I
needed to earn money to take care of my children. My children came before
my ego.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake him
up.
More I think about it, the more I like it.

I find the idea of license suspension hardly amusing at all. How is this
in
the best interest of any NCPs children? How does this help CSE get what
they want, that being the NCPs wallet/purse?

Taking my ex's license would not affect his children in anyway. He doesn't
pay a thing. He doesn't do a thing for them in any way.


We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps,
ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children ought to be
taught the same lesson.

The same can (and often is) said of CSE agencies that overstep their
bounds - but far too often hide from their actions with "I was only
following orders"...

I don't think that NCP's should be driven to the ground at all. I think
they should pay their fair share, that's all. Often, child support becomes
oppressive because it is so in arrears that the amount becomes overwhelming.
Why would anyone let it go that far?
My brother didn't pay child support for years. He worked off the book jobs
so his income could not be garnished. In the end, he had a huge debt. But,
he caused that to happen by his own foolishness. He not only had years of
unpaid child support to make up for, but interest, and the amount they took
was far more than the original ordered amount.

Tough lesson to learn.

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
hlink.net...
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's
license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter
whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and steals his way
through life.

OK, try this one for size (mind the subtle sarcasm).. NCP -can't- pay the
ordered amount because it's way more then the NCP earns (include the fact
that the economy sucks and NCP has had little luck in retaining work in
the
profession of choice). Because of the already existing restrictions
placed
upon NCP, NCP can't see the children much beyond every few months. NCP
makes just barely enough to cover -basic- expenses (food, gas, phone,
etc..), so there's very little left over for yachting excisions to the
Mediterranean with Trophy Wife/Husband #5...

How is it that the child support ordered would be far more than what the NCP
earns? When my ex left, I took jobs far outside my profession because I
needed to earn money to take care of my children. My children came before
my ego.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake him
up.
More I think about it, the more I like it.

I find the idea of license suspension hardly amusing at all. How is this
in
the best interest of any NCPs children? How does this help CSE get what
they want, that being the NCPs wallet/purse?

Taking my ex's license would not affect his children in anyway. He doesn't
pay a thing. He doesn't do a thing for them in any way.


We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps,
ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children ought to be
taught the same lesson.

The same can (and often is) said of CSE agencies that overstep their
bounds - but far too often hide from their actions with "I was only
following orders"...

I don't think that NCP's should be driven to the ground at all. I think
they should pay their fair share, that's all. Often, child support becomes
oppressive because it is so in arrears that the amount becomes overwhelming.
Why would anyone let it go that far?
My brother didn't pay child support for years. He worked off the book jobs
so his income could not be garnished. In the end, he had a huge debt. But,
he caused that to happen by his own foolishness. He not only had years of
unpaid child support to make up for, but interest, and the amount they took
was far more than the original ordered amount.

Tough lesson to learn.

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
hlink.net...
I never respond to this stuff, but you know, I don't think taking a
person's
license for failure to provide for his children is extreme.

I have an ex who has not paid child support for years, may see his
daughter
whenever he wants, makes a great income, and cheats and steals his way
through life.

OK, try this one for size (mind the subtle sarcasm).. NCP -can't- pay the
ordered amount because it's way more then the NCP earns (include the fact
that the economy sucks and NCP has had little luck in retaining work in
the
profession of choice). Because of the already existing restrictions
placed
upon NCP, NCP can't see the children much beyond every few months. NCP
makes just barely enough to cover -basic- expenses (food, gas, phone,
etc..), so there's very little left over for yachting excisions to the
Mediterranean with Trophy Wife/Husband #5...

How is it that the child support ordered would be far more than what the NCP
earns? When my ex left, I took jobs far outside my profession because I
needed to earn money to take care of my children. My children came before
my ego.

Taking his driver's license away seems a rather amusing way to wake him
up.
More I think about it, the more I like it.

I find the idea of license suspension hardly amusing at all. How is this
in
the best interest of any NCPs children? How does this help CSE get what
they want, that being the NCPs wallet/purse?

Taking my ex's license would not affect his children in anyway. He doesn't
pay a thing. He doesn't do a thing for them in any way.


We teach our children that there are consequences to what we do.
Perhaps,
ex's who disregard the health and welfare of their children ought to be
taught the same lesson.

The same can (and often is) said of CSE agencies that overstep their
bounds - but far too often hide from their actions with "I was only
following orders"...

I don't think that NCP's should be driven to the ground at all. I think
they should pay their fair share, that's all. Often, child support becomes
oppressive because it is so in arrears that the amount becomes overwhelming.
Why would anyone let it go that far?
My brother didn't pay child support for years. He worked off the book jobs
so his income could not be garnished. In the end, he had a huge debt. But,
he caused that to happen by his own foolishness. He not only had years of
unpaid child support to make up for, but interest, and the amount they took
was far more than the original ordered amount.

Tough lesson to learn.

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
link.net...

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat,
if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

I asked first.


Ok.

1. Mental illness which prevented a person from working.
2. Physical illness which prevented a person from working.

I can't think of anything else.

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
link.net...

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat,
if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

I asked first.


Ok.

1. Mental illness which prevented a person from working.
2. Physical illness which prevented a person from working.

I can't think of anything else.

Pamela

"Dusty" wrote in message
...
"Pamela" wrote in message
link.net...

And when they can't pay, what then? Is it to be "To bad, so sad, you
loose"? Or do you have some constructive opinion on the subject? It
would
be interesting to hear, since you say you have the "classic" deadbeat,
if
you have an idea to help those NCPs that are truly oppressed by CSE...



What would be a reasonable excuse, in your opinion, for not paying?

Pamela

I asked first.


Ok.

1. Mental illness which prevented a person from working.
2. Physical illness which prevented a person from working.

I can't think of anything else.

Pamela