question about spacing of male siblings

-L. wrote:

I think there is some point where the gap is so large (5,6,7 years)
that the second sib is almost like an only child, because the elder
sibs are in school all day and with a SAHM, the baby gets all the
attention during the day.

Yes, my #3 is much like that. I actually think
it's kind of nice in many ways.

I don't want to wait that long, simply because I will be too old.

Well, that pretty much trumps other arguments, eh?

Best wishes,
Ericka