child support some one explain

Child support is to help the children then why dont they make the CP
show where the money goes with receipts, not the rent or food or house
hold things, but stuff that helps the k9ids be better cared for .
I pay 405.00 out of 705.00 SSID I cant work I am 100% disabled
unemployable , my kkids mom works as a nurse and makes damn good money
but she is gready and always wants more I was told in court by the
judge and her attorney to get a second job , why cant she afterall
she is never home with the kids even when she is off, the kids wear
second hand cloths shoes that dont fit get up in the morning and never
have breakfast come home with no one there and I mean never she has a
new boyfriend that hits the kids and when I report it I get threatened
with jail for filing a false report but my son writes a letter and
sends it to the judge the govoner and the peolice department and they
never do any thing . She was in Florida and was told to get parenting
classess but moved to Georgia and stiil abused the kids but you think
they went after her Hell no but they did come after me for an increase
in child support and be damn if she didnt get it hoew far do you think
289 will go trust me it doesnt and that is a month.
I still agree with support but I thiunk that the States should be
fair some where along the way how much blood do we as NCPs have to
give? I am fresh out , but she does have plenty as I seem to be the
only one to pay money and hart breaks while she has a house car job
friends every thing and I wasnt the one that left the home she did and
it was all over her old boy friend who by the way is the father of one
of the children and not me but I still get to pay for him WTF is that?
you know I see it in here all the time as to how the DEADBEAT DAD
helped but you got it wronge in my case , but I am and have been
helping for the last 16 years for another man now how is it fair ?
EXPLAIN THAT I am sick and tired of hearing CP cry about how they got
it so bad but I want to know how the hell do they think we can give if
you take away every thing we have, we dont have anywhere to go no
friends because we dont have any money to go any where, just so she
can look good at her job . Mine is a nurse and I guess some one can
say she doesnt make that much money but we all know she does, smokeing
pot drinking beer with her friends and supporting her boyfriend
feeding him with my money for the kids, and the kids have to go on
reduced lunch and come home to no one in the house, SOME ONE PLEAST
EXPLAIN HPOW THAT IS FAIR and good for the kids.
I think the Cps should have to show where that money goes and not the
rent hell the mom and bo live there too why should the kids have to
pay for it, by doing with out . after all the child support is for the
best intrest of the children isnt it well wher are the courts going
to make some one show it to the NCP you know mabye we woyuld not mind
paying it so much if we could know that it was going to the kids and
not as spouce support
any pone ever think of that , we dont live togather because of her I
didnt leave she did at the request of her then bo father to the child
so why me why do I have to pay for his sperm? EXPLAIN THAT!!!!!!!!!!!

"hobo4430" wrote
Child support is to help the children then why dont they make the CP
show where the money goes with receipts,
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Cuz she whined, "That's too haaaard," and the judge said, "I know, hon.
Don't worry. I won't make you do it."
(They just put "best interest of the child" in there to make it sound
better.)

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"hobo4430" wrote
Child support is to help the children then why dont they make the CP
show where the money goes with receipts,

Because nobody is forcing the state to account for all the funds they
collect!

hobo4430 wrote:
Child support is to help the children then why dont they make the CP
show where the money goes with receipts, not the rent or food or house
hold things, but stuff that helps the k9ids be better cared for .
I pay 405.00 out of 705.00 SSID I cant work I am 100% disabled
unemployable , my kkids mom works as a nurse and makes damn good money
but she is gready and always wants more I was told in court by the
judge and her attorney to get a second job , why cant she afterall
she is never home with the kids even when she is off, the kids wear
second hand cloths shoes that dont fit get up in the morning and never
have breakfast come home with no one there and I mean never she has a
new boyfriend that hits the kids and when I report it I get threatened
with jail for filing a false report but my son writes a letter and
sends it to the judge the govoner and the peolice department and they
never do any thing . She was in Florida and was told to get parenting
classess but moved to Georgia and stiil abused the kids but you think
they went after her Hell no but they did come after me for an increase
in child support and be damn if she didnt get it hoew far do you think
289 will go trust me it doesnt and that is a month.
I still agree with support but I thiunk that the States should be
fair some where along the way how much blood do we as NCPs have to
give? I am fresh out , but she does have plenty as I seem to be the
only one to pay money and hart breaks while she has a house car job
friends every thing and I wasnt the one that left the home she did and
it was all over her old boy friend who by the way is the father of one
of the children and not me but I still get to pay for him WTF is that?
you know I see it in here all the time as to how the DEADBEAT DAD
helped but you got it wronge in my case , but I am and have been
helping for the last 16 years for another man now how is it fair ?
EXPLAIN THAT I am sick and tired of hearing CP cry about how they got
it so bad but I want to know how the hell do they think we can give if
you take away every thing we have, we dont have anywhere to go no
friends because we dont have any money to go any where, just so she
can look good at her job . Mine is a nurse and I guess some one can
say she doesnt make that much money but we all know she does, smokeing
pot drinking beer with her friends and supporting her boyfriend
feeding him with my money for the kids, and the kids have to go on
reduced lunch and come home to no one in the house, SOME ONE PLEAST
EXPLAIN HPOW THAT IS FAIR and good for the kids.
I think the Cps should have to show where that money goes and not the
rent hell the mom and bo live there too why should the kids have to
pay for it, by doing with out . after all the child support is for the
best intrest of the children isnt it well wher are the courts going
to make some one show it to the NCP you know mabye we woyuld not mind
paying it so much if we could know that it was going to the kids and
not as spouce support
any pone ever think of that , we dont live togather because of her I
didnt leave she did at the request of her then bo father to the child
so why me why do I have to pay for his sperm? EXPLAIN THAT!!!!!!!!!!!
I'd be careful what you ask for. If she showed recipts for everything she
buy's for the child, your amount would increase. It costs a lot more than 405.
00 to raise a kid.

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I'd be careful what you ask for. If she showed recipts for everything she
buy's for the child, your amount would increase. It costs a lot more than
405.
00 to raise a kid.

405 x 2 = 810

DB wrote:
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I'd be careful what you ask for. If she showed recipts for everything she
buy's for the child, your amount would increase. It costs a lot more than
405.
00 to raise a kid.

405 x 2 = 810
$810.00- are you raising your kid in the projects?

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I'd be careful what you ask for. If she showed recipts for everything
she
buy's for the child, your amount would increase. It costs a lot more
than
405.
00 to raise a kid.

405 x 2 = 810
$810.00- are you raising your kid in the projects?

Are you saying basic needs like food & clothing cost more than $800 per
month?

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DB wrote:
"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in

I'd be careful what you ask for. If she showed recipts for everything
she
buy's for the child, your amount would increase. It costs a lot more
than
405.
00 to raise a kid.

405 x 2 = 810
$810.00- are you raising your kid in the projects?

Are you saying basic needs like food & clothing cost more than $800 per
month?

She is saying it hasn't occurred to her yet that *she* is supposed to
contribute the other $405. She still thinks all of the $810 is free
money being supplied to her.
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And she needs new clothes, and her hair done, and her rent paid, and the
utilities, too. It's all just sooooo
hard on a single parent.

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"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in

I'd be careful what you ask for. If she showed recipts for everything
she
buy's for the child, your amount would increase. It costs a lot more
than
405.
00 to raise a kid.

405 x 2 = 810
$810.00- are you raising your kid in the projects?

Are you saying basic needs like food & clothing cost more than $800 per
month?

She is saying it hasn't occurred to her yet that *she* is supposed to
contribute the other $405. She still thinks all of the $810 is free
money being supplied to her.

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utilities, too. It's all just sooooo
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Honestly, how do you possibly spend 810 or even 405USD a month on a
child
unless they have very special needs.

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DB wrote:
"Illiana via FamilyKB.com" u38194@uwe wrote in

I'd be careful what you ask for. If she showed recipts for
everything
she
buy's for the child, your amount would increase. It costs a lot more
than
405.
00 to raise a kid.

405 x 2 = 810
$810.00- are you raising your kid in the projects?

Are you saying basic needs like food & clothing cost more than $800 per
month?

She is saying it hasn't occurred to her yet that *she* is supposed to
contribute the other $405. She still thinks all of the $810 is free
money being supplied to her.
=====
And she needs new clothes, and her hair done, and her rent paid, and the
utilities, too. It's all just sooooo
hard on a single parent.

There's a simple answer to her problem...give the father custody.
===
OMG no! Then she'd have to pay him!