i have not get childsupport over a 4 years.

i have a case worker thats doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to my husband that has risead them
he will not pay child support. ann

So your Husband is raising your kids and you still want to complain?

paper work changes nothing, the reality is you need to get on with life and
quit expecting hand outs.


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i have a case worker thats doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to my husband that has risead them
he will not pay child support. ann

wrote:
i have a case worker thats doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to my husband that has risead them
he will not pay child support. ann
you will find that the Alt. support groups are dominated by bitter new
spouces, and non-custodial parents.
Chances are they will all tell you that you made the sole choice to have the
child, so it's your sole responsibility.
If you really want the child support your ex owes then it's going to cost you
about 90.00 and a trip to your local civil court to file contempt charges,
and request a show cause hearing so your ex can explain why he can't pay his
child support.
You offered to free him of his financial and parental responsibilities to the
child so that your husband can adopt the child, but your ex wants to be a
prick. The only option left to you, if you want your child to have a "real"
father, i to try and collect. Chances are your ex will be more than willing
to sign over his rights once he see's how much that 4 years of non-payment
has accumulated.

"just_us" u40690@uwe wrote in message news:807bddbb67e26@uwe...
wrote:
i have a case worker thats doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to my husband that has risead them
he will not pay child support. ann
you will find that the Alt. support groups are dominated by bitter new
spouces, and non-custodial parents.
Chances are they will all tell you that you made the sole choice to have
the
child, so it's your sole responsibility.
If you really want the child support your ex owes then it's going to cost
you
about 90.00 and a trip to your local civil court to file contempt charges,
and request a show cause hearing so your ex can explain why he can't pay
his
child support.
You offered to free him of his financial and parental responsibilities to
the
child so that your husband can adopt the child, but your ex wants to be a
prick. The only option left to you, if you want your child to have a
"real"
father, i to try and collect. Chances are your ex will be more than
willing
to sign over his rights once he see's how much that 4 years of non-payment
has accumulated.

That's it, explain all about the extortion racket!

It's always about the money, this has nothing to do with the child!

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"just_us" u40690@uwe wrote in message news:807bddbb67e26@uwe...
wrote:
i have a case worker thats doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to my husband that has risead them
he will not pay child support. ann
you will find that the Alt. support groups are dominated by bitter new
spouces, and non-custodial parents.
Chances are they will all tell you that you made the sole choice to have
the
child, so it's your sole responsibility.
If you really want the child support your ex owes then it's going to cost
you
about 90.00 and a trip to your local civil court to file contempt
charges,
and request a show cause hearing so your ex can explain why he can't pay
his
child support.
You offered to free him of his financial and parental responsibilities to
the
child so that your husband can adopt the child, but your ex wants to be a
prick. The only option left to you, if you want your child to have a
"real"
father, i to try and collect. Chances are your ex will be more than
willing
to sign over his rights once he see's how much that 4 years of
non-payment
has accumulated.

That's it, explain all about the extortion racket!

It's always about the money, this has nothing to do with the child!


Very true. The CP's have the dollar signs in thier eyes. Never mind If the
NCP Is living In a cardboard box, they better pay that $#%^ child support!!

"just_us" u40690@uwe wrote in message news:807bddbb67e26@uwe...
wrote:
i have a case worker thats doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to my husband that has risead them
he will not pay child support. ann
you will find that the Alt. support groups are dominated by bitter new
spouces, and non-custodial parents.

Well those are the people who are greatly disadvantaged trying to fight
against the multi-headed monster consisting of CP's, biased judges, district
attorneys ,federal mandates, state statutes, bureaucratic malfesance, and
miscellaneous parasites who profit from the status quo.


Chances are they will all tell you that you made the sole choice to have
the
child, so it's your sole responsibility.

Chances are they will really tell you children need both parents and joint
custody should be the norm with liberal access between the children and both
parents.

If you really want the child support your ex owes then it's going to cost
you
about 90.00 and a trip to your local civil court to file contempt charges,
and request a show cause hearing so your ex can explain why he can't pay
his
child support.

For an intrastate order the state performs these functions at no charge.
For an interstate order CSE in two states have to work together and it
sounds like the OP's problem is related to a failure in this area.

You offered to free him of his financial and parental responsibilities to
the
child so that your husband can adopt the child, but your ex wants to be a
prick.

Another example of how the kinder, gentler sex uses blame, shame, and name
calling when they don't get what they want.

The only option left to you, if you want your child to have a "real"
father, i to try and collect. Chances are your ex will be more than
willing
to sign over his rights once he see's how much that 4 years of non-payment
has accumulated.


Signing over parental rights does not make arrearage CS go away. Why would
knowing how much is owed motivate anyone to sign away their parental rights?

On Mar 1, 12:22*am, " wrote:
i have a case worker thats *doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple *in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to *my husband that *has risead them
he *will not pay child support. ann

The problem could be his new wife is demanding that your child-support
money be spent on their new child and her.

Best solution would be to drag him back into court and have the judge
throw him in jail. You'll still not get any money, but it'll make you
feel that you've achieved something and kicked his arse.

Ino

http://inopaycs.tripod.com/

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On Mar 1, 12:22 am, " wrote:
i have a case worker thats doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to my husband that has risead them
he will not pay child support. ann

The problem could be his new wife is demanding that your child-support
money be spent on their new child and her.

Best solution would be to drag him back into court and have the judge
throw him in jail. You'll still not get any money, but it'll make you
feel that you've achieved something and kicked his arse.

Isn't the whole point of the CS system to save tax payer money?

"DB" wrote in message
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On Mar 1, 12:22 am, " wrote:
i have a case worker thats doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to my husband that has risead them
he will not pay child support. ann

The problem could be his new wife is demanding that your child-support
money be spent on their new child and her.

Best solution would be to drag him back into court and have the judge
throw him in jail. You'll still not get any money, but it'll make you
feel that you've achieved something and kicked his arse.

Isn't the whole point of the CS system to save tax payer money?

Not if they can get it from another source.. like the father. Or, if they
can't think of one, make one up outta thin air. Hell, there doesn't even
need to be an actual child involved either!

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[Any man that's good enough to support a child is good enough to have
custody of such child]

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On Mar 1, 12:22 am, " wrote:
i have a case worker thats doing everything she can i am getting very
upset the poeple in illons. that were he lives with his wife child. i
have ask him to give his rights to my husband that has risead them
he will not pay child support. ann

The problem could be his new wife is demanding that your child-support
money be spent on their new child and her.

Best solution would be to drag him back into court and have the judge
throw him in jail. You'll still not get any money, but it'll make you
feel that you've achieved something and kicked his arse.

Isn't the whole point of the CS system to save tax payer money?

LOL. I thought it was "for the children".