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No fluid/20 week induction update
Emily wrote in message news:m1t%b.402942$I06.4380323@attbi_s01...
Going through all of the options, it seems that the course with the least risk to my health and future fertility is an induction. On Monday and Tuesday I have appointments for something to soften my cervix (don't know exactly what yet), and then the induction will be on Wednesday. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You'll be in my thoughts, with best wishes for an easy induction, a speedy recovery, and a healthy future pregnancy. -- C, mama to fifteen month old nursling |
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No fluid/20 week induction update
I'm confused...
I've known several moms who had extremely premature rupture of membranes who were kept pregnant for several weeks to bring baby to viability before allowing baby to be born to increase the chances of survival for baby...and didn't have problems with lung development. Is there something else going on with your situation? What I mean is..is there another problem that is contributing to the oligohydramnios that reduces survival rate and therefore makes the situation more drastic...or is it just the oligohydramnios that they are looking at as a diagnosis? (I'm sorry you have to experience this...I truly truly am..) Hi Elfanie, At 17weeks, the amniotic fluid was moderately decreased. At 19 weeks, it was completely good. In between, I also had a lot of bleeding. It seems that the placenta is failing -- at the moment, failing to produce enough amniotic fluid (I know the baby produces some to). Perhaps related to all this (via some sort of irritation of the uterus) I am now also leaking what little amniotic fluid there is. The issue isn't low amniotic fluid, it's *no* amniotic fluid. Even if I don't spontaneously deliver before 28 weeks or whatever, without fluid now, the baby's lungs won't develop. -- Emily mom to Toby 5/1/02 #2 EDD 7/19/04 |
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No fluid/20 week induction update
Elfanie wrote:
On Fri, 27 Feb 2004 06:14:37 GMT, Emily wrote: The baby's kidney are there. The problem seems to be with the placenta. 16-24 weeks is when the baby's lungs are developing, and without the fluid, they can't develop. I'm confused... I've known several moms who had extremely premature rupture of membranes who were kept pregnant for several weeks to bring baby to viability before allowing baby to be born to increase the chances of survival for baby...and didn't have problems with lung development. Is there something else going on with your situation? What I mean is..is there another problem that is contributing to the oligohydramnios that reduces survival rate and therefore makes the situation more drastic...or is it just the oligohydramnios that they are looking at as a diagnosis? I believe the issue with Emily's pregnancy is that her placenta is not producing amniotic fluid (or so little that it's totally insufficient to the task). This is very unlike a PROM situation, where the placenta continues to produce fluid to replace at least some, if not all, of the fluid before it leaks out. Emily has explained in detail the condition that causes this elsewhere (MTHsomething, I believe) in earlier posts. A Google search on her name and "low amniotic fluid" should easily pull up her posts where you can read the details. -- Be well, Barbara (Julian [6], Aurora [4], and Vernon's [23 mos.] mom) This week's special at the English Language Butcher Shop: Financing for "5" years -- car dealership sign Aurora reciting alphabet: S...T...U...V...DW...X....Y...Z All opinions expressed in this post are well-reasoned and insightful. Needless to say, they are not those of my Internet Service Provider, its other subscribers or lackeys. Anyone who says otherwise is itchin' for a fight. -- with apologies to Michael Feldman |
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No fluid/20 week induction update
Emily wrote in message news:m1t%b.402942$I06.4380323@attbi_s01... Hi, We saw the perinatologist this morning. She was very kind, and took lots of time with us and answered all of our questions. We took another look at the baby on the u/s and saw absolutely no fluid this time. It seems that (on top of everything else, and probably not unrelatedly) I'm leaking fluid as well. We confirmed that the chances of carrying this baby to term and having it be viable and healthy are very, very slim. We are also optimistic that the cause of the problem is unlikely to be a recurring one, so that we can hope for an unproblematic pregnancy in the future. Going through all of the options, it seems that the course with the least risk to my health and future fertility is an induction. On Monday and Tuesday I have appointments for something to soften my cervix (don't know exactly what yet), and then the induction will be on Wednesday. The baby is still wiggling and squirming, even though there's no room without any fluid. It's pushing on the uterine wall (which is actually kinda painful). The perinatologist says that it must be a strong baby to do that -- I guess good muscle tone tends to run in our family. DS has always been very strong, practically could handle his own head (strong neck) from birth, walked at 9.5 months, etc. I asked about donating milk, and the perinatologist said she would look into it for me. There's a chance that it could actually be used in the NICU at the hospital where I will deliver. Otherwise, there aren't any milk banks in my city, but I will look into sending it to one. So, I wish this could be over sooner, so I could get on with things more quickly. It's very strange to be grieving already for someone who is still alive. My department has been very supportive and accommodating, and my class is taken care of for the rest of the quarter. I should be able to teach next quarter (starting 3/29) and think that I'll enjoy being able to throw myself into my work. DS is, of course, a huge comfort. I can imagine that this would be 100x harder if it were my first pregnancy, and only harder still after previous pregnancy loss. I am very much looking forward to trying again (once my body has had a chance to recover so that I start off on the best possible footing), and to seeing lots of fluid on a ultrasound some day soon, and even more so to cuddling a newborn! Thanks again to everyone here for being so supportive. I expect I'll keep posting as I go through this experience and then fade away again until I'm pg again. Sorry. Debbie |
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No fluid/20 week induction update
Emily wrote:
|| Hi, || || We saw the perinatologist this morning. She was very kind, || and took lots of time with us and answered all of our questions. || We took another look at the baby on the u/s and saw absolutely || no fluid this time. It seems that (on top of everything else, || and probably not unrelatedly) I'm leaking fluid as well. || || We confirmed that the chances of carrying this baby to term || and having it be viable and healthy are very, very slim. We || are also optimistic that the cause of the problem is unlikely || to be a recurring one, so that we can hope for an unproblematic || pregnancy in the future. || || Going through all of the options, it seems that the course || with the least risk to my health and future fertility is || an induction. On Monday and Tuesday I have appointments for || something to soften my cervix (don't know exactly what yet), || and then the induction will be on Wednesday. || || The baby is still wiggling and squirming, even though there's || no room without any fluid. It's pushing on the uterine wall || (which is actually kinda painful). The perinatologist says || that it must be a strong baby to do that -- I guess good muscle || tone tends to run in our family. DS has always been very strong, || practically could handle his own head (strong neck) from birth, || walked at 9.5 months, etc. || || I asked about donating milk, and the perinatologist said she || would look into it for me. There's a chance that it could || actually be used in the NICU at the hospital where I will || deliver. Otherwise, there aren't any milk banks in my city, || but I will look into sending it to one. || || So, I wish this could be over sooner, so I could get on || with things more quickly. It's very strange to be grieving already || for someone who is still alive. My department has been very || supportive and accommodating, and my class is taken care of || for the rest of the quarter. I should be able to teach next || quarter (starting 3/29) and think that I'll enjoy being able || to throw myself into my work. || || DS is, of course, a huge comfort. I can imagine that this would || be 100x harder if it were my first pregnancy, and only harder || still after previous pregnancy loss. I am very much looking || forward to trying again (once my body has had a chance to recover || so that I start off on the best possible footing), and to || seeing lots of fluid on a ultrasound some day soon, and even || more so to cuddling a newborn! || || Thanks again to everyone here for being so supportive. || I expect I'll keep posting as I go through this experience || and then fade away again until I'm pg again. || || -- || Emily || mom to Toby 5/1/02 || #2 EDD 7/19/04/induction scheduled for 3/2/04 Emily, As many others have stated it is very difficult for me to convey the pain I feel for you and your family during this time. I just wanted to let you know that I am truly sorry for the hurt you are going through. (((((Emily)))))) Jenn -WAHM -DS Feb'92 -DD Feb'97 -Jellyfish due June 25/04 |
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No fluid/20 week induction update
Elfanie wrote:
I'm so sorry....I truly am. Are they thinking that you've had a leak in the bags for a while now, and that's what's caused the amniotic fluid to slowly - well, I was going to say 'go down' but from your description it appears it woudl be more accurate to say "leave"...? I mean...do they think it was due to a leak, and not due to a fetal defect? I know you say that the placenta isn't functioning optimally and you had bleeding...are they concerned at all about an abruption? And if so...are they concerned about inducing you with a threatened abruption (if that's what it is)? Are they able to see the lungs when they've done the ultrasounds checking for fluid? Have the lungs already been compromised by the lack of amniotic fluid? (usually when we have clients 'on the clock' as far as trying to make it to a delivery stage before having their babies....we shoot for the latter half of 24 weeks...) I'm sorry to ask so many questions...I know you're going through SO MUCH right now.. not long ago I spent 2 weeks at the hospital with a client who was brought in at 21 weeks with an incompetent cervix...I know how much is probably being thrown at you right now and I am NOT NOT NOT second guessing your decisions!! Just trying to understand what you're facing and what's going on with you and your baby... *offers warm hugs* Hi again Elfanie, Part of why I want to post here is so that others can learn from my situation, so I'm happy to answer questions (and if that changes, I'll just stop :-). We think that the leak is recent, but that the placenta has been misbehaving for a while. I had a high AFP reading, too, although u/s show no defects in the baby that would be related to the high AFP (NTDs) or to the low fluid (the kidneys are there, the bladder fills up). So, the high AFP is probably from placental bleeding, and the low fluid has been the placenta not keeping up for a while. The turn for the worse that we saw this week is probably a combination of the leak, and the placenta getting even less effective. We specifically asked if it's possible to use u/s to measure the development of the lungs, and the perinatologist said no, that kind of information doesn't show up. (The lungs are there, presumably -- it's all the little structures inside that need the fluid to develop, and are necessary for lung capacity.) -- Emily mom to Toby 5/1/02 #2 EDD 7/19/04 |
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No fluid/20 week induction update
Elfanie wrote:
I'm sorry....I wish there was a way they could say for 100% either way (ie. if you do X, then Y will happen).... My heart is just so heavy for you...I can't even express my sorrow enough for you and your baby. When are you planning to induce? Is there a risk to YOU of this situation? (from the bleeding..are they worried about the risk to you of carrying any longer?) Here's the question that I'm wondering (and yes, if you get tired of answering my question, then please just forgive me for asking and don't answer me!).. We know that if baby is born right now - even if it has a fully functioning placenta and was 100% healthy, it wouldn't have a chance of survival...so if born now, your baby absolutely unquestionably will not survive, 100%.. So is there a risk (other than the intense emotional anguish which I'm sure would be very difficult) of carrying the baby for another 5 weeks if baby chooses to stay in there for 5 weeks....and delivering then even if there is a 99% chance that the lungs won't be developed? In other words...is there even a 1% chance of the lungs developing properly with your condition? Or - is it 100% certain that the lungs cannot develop - it's an impossibility? Or - does continuing the pregnancy pose a risk to you (ie. placental abruptia)? Hi again, I was a little vague about this before because I didn't want folks to tell me that I should hold out for that 1% or whatever it is, but yes, it's not 100% certain that if we let things continue the baby wouldn't survive. It sounds like the two most likely outcomes are that I will miscarry on my own or that the baby will be still born (i.e., make it past 20 weeks, but then not have enough lung capacity to survive at all). I don't have any exact numbers, but those two scenarios account for most of the 100%. The next most likely thing is that the baby would survive, but with a high likelihood of all the complications that come with extreme prematurity, on top of diminshed lung capacity plus the other things that come with low amniotic fluid (mobility issues among them). The remaining few percent (and no, we didn't get any numbers, how could they know?) are the chances of a healthy baby. There's also issues of infection (and the effect that has on the baby) to throw in there, as the amniotic sac appears to be breeched. We also asked which of the three courses of action open to us (D&E, induction, continuing the pregnancy and letting nature take its course) holds the least risk to my health & future fertility. The answer was induction, and part of the reasoning was the risk of infection. Apparently D&E and induction are pretty close in risks up to 20 weeks, and after that D&E becomes riskier, to the point that they don't offer it past 20 weeks. Since I'm 20 weeks on Monday (by the u/s dating, more by LMP, but I think I ovluated late), that makes it sound like D&E is riskier to me. Plus, as I've said elsewhere, I need to hold this baby and be present in that moment. Neither are possible with D&E. -- Emily mom to Toby 5/1/02 #2 EDD 7/19/04 |
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No fluid/20 week induction update
Thanks, Elfanie. Your support means a lot.
-- Emily mom to Toby 5/1/02 #2 EDD 7/19/04 |
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No fluid/20 week induction update
Emily,
I don't post much, but I just wanted to say I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Joy "Emily" wrote in message news:m1t%b.402942$I06.4380323@attbi_s01... Hi, We saw the perinatologist this morning. She was very kind, and took lots of time with us and answered all of our questions. We took another look at the baby on the u/s and saw absolutely no fluid this time. It seems that (on top of everything else, and probably not unrelatedly) I'm leaking fluid as well. We confirmed that the chances of carrying this baby to term and having it be viable and healthy are very, very slim. We are also optimistic that the cause of the problem is unlikely to be a recurring one, so that we can hope for an unproblematic pregnancy in the future. |
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Poem for Nathan, Was Spirit Babies
Emily,
Well, my mother is a mystery writer by trade, but a good writer is a good writer, in my book. Her name is Sue Grafton. I swear, losing Nathan was almost as hard on her as it was on me. She was by my side throughout the whole thing, including the shot to stop his heart. Besides my husband, she was (and still is) my strength, my core, and my love. She was just inspired. I'm glad you liked it. -- Jamie & Taylor Earth Angel, 1/3/03 Check out Taylor Marlys -- www.MyFamily.com, User ID: Clark_guest, Password: Guest1 Become a member for free - go to Add Member to set up your own User ID and Password Handmade Baby Blankets -- www.geocities.com/digit_the_cat/Blankets.html "Emily" wrote in message news:_yJ%b.71148$4o.91529@attbi_s52... Jamie Clark wrote: Thanks Anita. Here is another one. I don't mean to be a downer or bring the group down, but this is a poem that my mom wrote for Nathan, when we lost him. Still today, 6 years later, it brings tears to my eyes. It's healing for me to get back into it a little bit. A Poem for Nathan By Nana This structure is unsound. The tiny boat you piloted has floundered, leaving you stranded in dark swells. We can see you drifting just offshore. Through our spyglass we can follow your progress kicking in the deep swimming for your life. At this distance you seem no bigger than a fish, some creature from the depths not yet of this world so rare and precious to us. Had we a net we could pull you to safety hold you curled in the palm of one hand anointing you with tears. You are everything to us. You are all that we dreamed of all that we hoped for those months ago when you first set sail. How can we tell you how shimmering you seem starlight on water so delicate, so perfect, so pure. Only the vessel is flawed making landfall unlikely. We've consulted mariners ship builders sailmakers men who have toiled on the sea for years. None of them could guarantee safe passage. We've cast our lines into the surf. There is no way to reach you except with our prayers. We can see your mast begin to tilt. We can see how battering storms have weakened your hull. You list taking on water. Winds tear at your shroud. Know, Little One, we have done all that we could. Keep faith. We will build you a new boat fashioned with sturdy planks seasoned timber canvas newly rigged to carry you through rough waters. For now we can only make you this covenant tossing you this promise to which you can cling while we labor on your behalf. Wait for us. Hold fast. You are not abandoned. We have not given up hope of harboring you among us. This structure is unsound. This vessel has floundered, but yours is a soul we cherish. We will come back for you all of us starting anew building again bringing you home safely. Jamie, that's beautiful! Is your mother a poet, or was she just inspired on this occasion? (My mother is a poet, too.) -- Emily mom to Toby 5/1/02 #2 EDD 7/19/04 |
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