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Advice needed - birthday party and 25% of invited guests have RSVP'd - what should I do about the rest
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Advice needed - birthday party and 25% of invited guests have RSVP'd - what should I do about the rest
Hey, I always call when I'm aware of an invitation, and yes, I do make
it a priority, but - on the other hand, as mom of three, I've been in the party giving shoes and it doesn't bother me to have to call other parents to check if a kid is coming, because I know that other working parents have lives as nutso as mine and many whose lives are even crazier. I don't get all huffy and assume they are just rude schlubs, since I appreciate that the parents or guardians may or may not even have SEEN the invite depending on how scattered their kids are, or hubby said he'd do it and forgot, or there is illness in the family or other distraction etc. etc. etc. Also, I know that a lot of the kids our children know come from all kinds of family arrangements where has been divorce, separation, remarriage, living with relatives or grandma and heaven knows what else, and that adds to the challenge. When a kid is shuttling back and forth between two homes, or has a single parent who struggling to raise 4 kids alone and working two jobs, its easy for RSVPs to fall into the cracks. I wouldn't penalise the kids either for what could be the failure of the adults. Ya call all the ones you haven't heard of a couple of days before the event, and its no biggie. Mary G. |
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Advice needed - birthday party and 25% of invited guests haveRSVP'd - what should I do about the rest
Mary Gordon wrote: Hey, I always call when I'm aware of an invitation, and yes, I do make it a priority, but - on the other hand, as mom of three, I've been in the party giving shoes and it doesn't bother me to have to call other parents to check if a kid is coming, because I know that other working parents have lives as nutso as mine and many whose lives are even crazier. It would bother me. I would be rather embarassed to phone because chances are that the parent DID see the invitation and for all the reasons you go on to describe, might feel quite embarassed that I have had to call them. *I* would be embarassed if someone phoned me. I don't get all huffy and assume they are just rude schlubs, since I appreciate that the parents or guardians may or may not even have SEEN the invite depending on how scattered their kids are, or hubby said he'd do it and forgot, snip lots of situations.... I think I'd jusy skip the paper invitations and phone the child's parents/carer directly. Mary Ann |
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