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pregnant 17 year old
In article DqX7f.3498$UF4.3050@fed1read02, Chris says...
"Banty" wrote in message ... In article 85P7f.3464$UF4.2784@fed1read02, Chris says... "Jamie Clark" wrote in message ... Tori, Don't get into it with this thread...it's been going on way way way too long, and nothing you say will change his mind. And vice versa. I notice that your foray into the step parents group didn't amount to much, Chris. Are you at all serious about getting any insights about your situation here on USENET? Anywhere? Yes. I am just unwilling to blindly accept whatever advice comes my way. Do you? That's not what's being proposed. You didn't even present your story there, even though someone noted your angry tone and asked you to. Instead, you argued with people's wording and made your cryptic statements about people being married to kids and even pets. You're not about communication at all. Just channelling agression and seeking validation. This way of operating is worthless to you and everyone around you. Banty |
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In article , Nan says...
On Wed, 26 Oct 2005 20:00:38 -0700, "Chris" wrote: I'm guessing not. He's only interested in arguing with everyone that doesn't see things his way. Little surprise his marriage is "hanging by a thread". Translation: Don't argue with your wife. Shut up and just agree with her. I think you're deliberately being obtuse. Nobody has said you should shut up and agree with your wife. If you believe anyone has, you haven't read the thread very thoroughly. Nan I think he equates not totally getting his way, with total capitulation. No room in that thinking for compromise or working anything out between two people. Banty |
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On Wed, 26 Oct 2005 21:13:44 -0700, "Chris" wrote:
"Nan" wrote in message .. . On Wed, 26 Oct 2005 20:00:38 -0700, "Chris" wrote: "Nan" wrote in message .. . On 26 Oct 2005 10:47:26 -0700, Banty wrote: In article 85P7f.3464$UF4.2784@fed1read02, Chris says... "Jamie Clark" wrote in message ... Tori, Don't get into it with this thread...it's been going on way way way too long, and nothing you say will change his mind. And vice versa. I notice that your foray into the step parents group didn't amount to much, Chris. Are you at all serious about getting any insights about your situation here on USENET? Anywhere? I'm guessing not. He's only interested in arguing with everyone that doesn't see things his way. Little surprise his marriage is "hanging by a thread". Translation: Don't argue with your wife. Shut up and just agree with her. I think you're deliberately being obtuse. Nobody has said you should shut up and agree with your wife. If you believe anyone has, you haven't read the thread very thoroughly. Either I argue (disagree) with her or I agree (thus nothing more need be said). Your above statement infers that my marriage is in peril because I argue with my wife. Is this incorrect? No, your marriage is in peril because you have your set-in-stone ideas and expect your wife to capitulate. Everyone has suggested trying to meet somewhere in the middle, but you see that as losing. You're a lost cause, Chris. I'm not even going to try to communicate with you anymore. Nan |
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On 27 Oct 2005 06:13:12 -0700, Banty wrote:
In article , Nan says... On Wed, 26 Oct 2005 20:00:38 -0700, "Chris" wrote: I'm guessing not. He's only interested in arguing with everyone that doesn't see things his way. Little surprise his marriage is "hanging by a thread". Translation: Don't argue with your wife. Shut up and just agree with her. I think you're deliberately being obtuse. Nobody has said you should shut up and agree with your wife. If you believe anyone has, you haven't read the thread very thoroughly. Nan I think he equates not totally getting his way, with total capitulation. No room in that thinking for compromise or working anything out between two people. Exactly. His thinking is of those 2 extremes and it's not working. Big Surprise. Nan |
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"Nan" wrote in message ... On Wed, 26 Oct 2005 21:13:44 -0700, "Chris" wrote: "Nan" wrote in message .. . On Wed, 26 Oct 2005 20:00:38 -0700, "Chris" wrote: "Nan" wrote in message .. . On 26 Oct 2005 10:47:26 -0700, Banty wrote: In article 85P7f.3464$UF4.2784@fed1read02, Chris says... "Jamie Clark" wrote in message ... Tori, Don't get into it with this thread...it's been going on way way way too long, and nothing you say will change his mind. And vice versa. I notice that your foray into the step parents group didn't amount to much, Chris. Are you at all serious about getting any insights about your situation here on USENET? Anywhere? I'm guessing not. He's only interested in arguing with everyone that doesn't see things his way. Little surprise his marriage is "hanging by a thread". Translation: Don't argue with your wife. Shut up and just agree with her. I think you're deliberately being obtuse. Nobody has said you should shut up and agree with your wife. If you believe anyone has, you haven't read the thread very thoroughly. Either I argue (disagree) with her or I agree (thus nothing more need be said). Your above statement infers that my marriage is in peril because I argue with my wife. Is this incorrect? No, your marriage is in peril because you have your set-in-stone ideas and expect your wife to capitulate. I don't "expect" my wife to do anything. I only hope that she will continue to be a wife. If I don't disagree (argue) with her, then I agree with her. Agreeing (not arguing) constitutes shutting up (not arguing) and doing what she says (agreeing with her). Whatever could I (or would I need) say if I am in agreement? Either way, I agree or I do NOT agree. There is no third option. Everyone has suggested trying to meet somewhere in the middle, but you see that as losing. Perhaps "everyone" here is suggesting I do whatever it takes to "save the marriage". Only problem is, there is something that actually takes precendence over saving one's marriage. You're a lost cause, Chris. Thank you for your opinon. I'm not even going to try to communicate with you anymore. Nan |
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"Banty" wrote in message ... In article DqX7f.3498$UF4.3050@fed1read02, Chris says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article 85P7f.3464$UF4.2784@fed1read02, Chris says... "Jamie Clark" wrote in message ... Tori, Don't get into it with this thread...it's been going on way way way too long, and nothing you say will change his mind. And vice versa. I notice that your foray into the step parents group didn't amount to much, Chris. Are you at all serious about getting any insights about your situation here on USENET? Anywhere? Yes. I am just unwilling to blindly accept whatever advice comes my way. Do you? That's not what's being proposed. You didn't even present your story there, even though someone noted your angry tone and asked you to. I thought that my "story" was clearly stated in my OP. Am I wrong? Instead, you argued with people's wording and made your cryptic statements about people being married to kids and even pets. Part of the concept of marriage is the position of one's spouse. When somone/something else takes first place in that person's life, their spouse has been replaced. You're not about communication at all. Just channelling agression and seeking validation. This way of operating is worthless to you and everyone around you. Your opinion based on assumptions is noted. Banty |
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In article 1hh8f.3575$UF4.2261@fed1read02, Chris says...
"Banty" wrote in message ... In article DqX7f.3498$UF4.3050@fed1read02, Chris says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article 85P7f.3464$UF4.2784@fed1read02, Chris says... "Jamie Clark" wrote in message ... Tori, Don't get into it with this thread...it's been going on way way way too long, and nothing you say will change his mind. And vice versa. I notice that your foray into the step parents group didn't amount to much, Chris. Are you at all serious about getting any insights about your situation here on USENET? Anywhere? Yes. I am just unwilling to blindly accept whatever advice comes my way. Do you? That's not what's being proposed. You didn't even present your story there, even though someone noted your angry tone and asked you to. I thought that my "story" was clearly stated in my OP. Am I wrong? Alt.support.step-parents won't see your original post in misc.kids.pregnancy. You need to put in a new post there. Banty |
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"Banty" wrote in message ... In article 1hh8f.3575$UF4.2261@fed1read02, Chris says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article DqX7f.3498$UF4.3050@fed1read02, Chris says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article 85P7f.3464$UF4.2784@fed1read02, Chris says... "Jamie Clark" wrote in message ... Tori, Don't get into it with this thread...it's been going on way way way too long, and nothing you say will change his mind. And vice versa. I notice that your foray into the step parents group didn't amount to much, Chris. Are you at all serious about getting any insights about your situation here on USENET? Anywhere? Yes. I am just unwilling to blindly accept whatever advice comes my way. Do you? That's not what's being proposed. You didn't even present your story there, even though someone noted your angry tone and asked you to. I thought that my "story" was clearly stated in my OP. Am I wrong? Alt.support.step-parents won't see your original post in misc.kids.pregnancy. You need to put in a new post there. For some reason, I forgot that I am not in the group where I placed my OP. Sorry. To compound things, my news server had problems last week and I lost most of the earlier messages; including the OP. Banty |
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"Banty" wrote in message ... In article 1hh8f.3575$UF4.2261@fed1read02, Chris says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article DqX7f.3498$UF4.3050@fed1read02, Chris says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article 85P7f.3464$UF4.2784@fed1read02, Chris says... "Jamie Clark" wrote in message ... Tori, Don't get into it with this thread...it's been going on way way way too long, and nothing you say will change his mind. And vice versa. I notice that your foray into the step parents group didn't amount to much, Chris. Are you at all serious about getting any insights about your situation here on USENET? Anywhere? Yes. I am just unwilling to blindly accept whatever advice comes my way. Do you? That's not what's being proposed. You didn't even present your story there, even though someone noted your angry tone and asked you to. I thought that my "story" was clearly stated in my OP. Am I wrong? Alt.support.step-parents won't see your original post in misc.kids.pregnancy. You need to put in a new post there. We are not communicating our messages. Somehow this conversation got detoured into talking about some other news group. I am making reference to my OP in this thread and this news group where the conversation has remained. Banty |
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pregnant 17 year old
In article W9t8f.3742$UF4.1023@fed1read02, Chris says...
"Banty" wrote in message ... In article 1hh8f.3575$UF4.2261@fed1read02, Chris says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article DqX7f.3498$UF4.3050@fed1read02, Chris says... "Banty" wrote in message ... In article 85P7f.3464$UF4.2784@fed1read02, Chris says... "Jamie Clark" wrote in message ... Tori, Don't get into it with this thread...it's been going on way way way too long, and nothing you say will change his mind. And vice versa. I notice that your foray into the step parents group didn't amount to much, Chris. Are you at all serious about getting any insights about your situation here on USENET? Anywhere? Yes. I am just unwilling to blindly accept whatever advice comes my way. Do you? That's not what's being proposed. You didn't even present your story there, even though someone noted your angry tone and asked you to. I thought that my "story" was clearly stated in my OP. Am I wrong? Alt.support.step-parents won't see your original post in misc.kids.pregnancy. You need to put in a new post there. We are not communicating our messages. Somehow this conversation got detoured into talking about some other news group. I am making reference to my OP in this thread and this news group where the conversation has remained. Read back. I was clearly referring to your recent posts in alt.support-step-parents (the step parenting group). Chris, you really do have some communication problems. Banty |
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