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If women have right to choose, men should have right to denysupport-DAILOL
On Nov 15, 10:08 pm, enigma wrote:
Tom Enright wrote ups.com: So you do not support "a woman's right to choose"? Correct? Otherwise, you would support it for all people, not just half the population. of course. the man had the right to choose to keep his pants on. if a man *chooses* to have unprotected sex, he *has* made a choice. if that choice produces a child, he has no right to whine & shirk the financial responsibility for raising that child. No, I'm talking about after he has sex. Just like the woman has a right, he should too. Sometimes with equality comes responsibility. The point of this thread is why women have a right to avoid parenthood, but men do not. All that I am saying is that men and women should be equal in this regard. However, some people are clinging to centuries of stereotypes of the roles of men and women. nope, not at all. the only sure fire way to prevent pregnancy is to not have sex. the possibility of pregnancy goes with having sex. it's not rocket science. you can weasel word all you want, but it doesn't change the fact that *yes, the man made a choice* when he chose to indulge in sex. lee Fair enough. You are anti-abortion than, correct? -Tom Enright |
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If women have right to choose, men should have right to denysupport-DAILOL
On Nov 15, 9:04 pm, Rosalie B. wrote:
Tom Enright wrote: On Nov 14, 12:44 pm, Banty wrote: In article om, Tom Enright says... Wrong, there is pay and reward for slavery. A slave receives food, shelter and basic medical care. A slaveowner does not want his slave to die, as he has spent money to purchase that slave. That is why in the southern US in the 19th century Irish immigrants were often given the most dangerous jobs. You wouldn't risk a slave . Slaves cost money, the Irish are free. Leaving aside this idea that supporting one's own child has no reward (amazing...), you can think of it as a fine or payment for damages caused. Not slavery; something owed that could have been avoided. Certainly in this kind of case. Isn't that the entire point of this thread? Women have the right to avoid parenthood, shouldn't men have the same right? Men absolutely have the right to avoid parenthood. All they have to do is abstain from sex with a woman. Or use contraception. Of course, but I'm talking about after sex. The rights of men and women should be equal. What a woman decides to do with her body is her 100% her choice and 100% her responsbility. To make someone else responsible for her choices is irrational. Women can avoid parenthood in the same way - abstain from sex or use contraception. If a man and a woman have sex and the contraception fails (or the man forces the woman and she doesn't have a chance to use protection), then they both have a responsibility to the resulting child, because they were both involved in creating said child. (or the woman lies and says she is on BC or cannot get pregnant) No, their responsibilities are not equal, because their rights are not equal. Equal responsibility cannot exist with unequal rights. When men are granted equality with women than you can make that statement. The only option open to a woman at this point is to have the baby or to have an abortion. But for many women both abortion and contraception are against their religion. Since she carries the child in pregnancy (men don't have the option to do that even if they wanted to), she gets to say whether she has an abortion or not. No, the woman can have an abortion, deliver the baby and keep the child, put the child-up for adoption, raise the child on her own, expect the government to pay for the child, expect the man to pay...etc. The man's choice is gone, once he has sex with her and she conceives. It will do you no good to whine and complain about slavery. You had a chance to make a choice and you blew it. "The man's choice is gone" only because you say "it's gone." Resolving the problem is simple, just agree that men and women have equal rights and equal responsibilities. If a man chooses not to be a parent, not to have responsibility he can decide that, just as the woman can. Isn't that what "pro-choice" is all about? * -Tom Enright |
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If women have right to choose, men should have right to deny support-DAILOL
On Thu, 15 Nov 2007 17:57:58 -0800 (PST), Tom Enright wrote:
On Nov 15, 8:40 pm, toypup wrote: You don't work for the woman. You work for your boss. Your boss doesn't own you. If the woman bears your child, you need to raise your child with her. It's best done in person, but if not, you don't want to do that, you owe the money at the very least. So you do not support "a woman's right to choose"? Correct? Otherwise, you would support it for all people, not just half the population. I support a woman's right to choose. Women *ARE* half the population. I only support the right for that half, because it is her body. That's just how it is. The point of this thread is why women have a right to avoid parenthood, but men do not. All that I am saying is that men and women should be equal in this regard. However, some people are clinging to centuries of stereotypes of the roles of men and women. People are so worried about their own rights, everyone forgets the child, and it is the child's rights that are of concern. Once a child is born, s/he deserves both parents, no matter what went into the decision to have him/her. For the good of the child, both parents need to be involved, both physically, emotionally and financially. Unfortunately, if the father wants to be absent, the only way to force involvement is financially. |
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If women have right to choose, men should have right to deny support-DAILOL
In article , Rosalie B. says...
wrote: "The man's choice is gone" only because you say "it's gone." Resolving the problem is simple, just agree that men and women have equal rights and equal responsibilities. If a man chooses not to be a parent, not to have responsibility he can decide that, just as the woman can. Isn't that what "pro-choice" is all about? * No that's not it. But you are right in that pro-choice is ONLY for women. A man's choice was at the initial point of having sex. Men have the choice to have sex or not. And whatever the available choices, in *any* case, the woman have consequences to herself. What Tom wants, in the name of equality, is unequal. His wants the man with *no* consequences to himself. It can't be completely equal, because we're biological beings; we're not living on a mathematical plane. Banty |
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