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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
First, I want to acknowledge to everyone that I support CS. Anyone who
does not meet their obligation for their children should be punished according to the law. What I find very disturbing is that their are no accountability for spouses to prove that the "CS" money was actually spent on the children. I have 3 children that I love dearly and when I was married my wife got pregnant by another man while I was at work who then decided to keep the child. Obviously, I couldn't stick around for that show. The unemployed guy moves and leaches off the X. I'm paying over 2400.00/month on child support not accounting medical and some day-care expenses. When I visit my kids she gives me clothes from 2 years ago. I hardly see any new clothes. My X makes as much as I do but spends a lot also. My fear is that the money my children should be getting is spent on her other child which I am not responsible for. She is also supporting the bum that lives with her. Where is the justice? During the settlement of my divorce I offered her 100K of my equity of the house in return to make CS accountable by giving her a fix amount of 1000/month and credit card to purchase whatever the children needs and at the end of each month she pays half of the expenses. She did not take the offer. For good reasons...CS is a better deal. She doesn't have to account or itemize what she spent on the children. CS needs to be accountable! |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
wrote in First, I want to acknowledge to everyone that I support CS. Sucker! |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
Lesson to all men,
It works, turst me read the following VERY CAREFULLY. SCREW THE LAW, GO TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER. NICE CLEAN, NO ALIMONY/SOPPORT. IT TAKES TIME. HOPE IT HELPS YOU IN SAME SITUATION. Why if handled correctly the best of both worlds. Married/single 1 Happened to me (I am husband) 27 yrs ago. 2 No way baby was mine (looks and skin color), no DNA test availabLe or required. Its was found 18 yrs later to be a fact. Now best of both worlds: Married: Laundry, food and servIces renedered by ex wife. Single: No food in refrigerator "No problema". HEART MATTER No clothing shopping "No problema" HEART MATTER Why hubby you were gone all weekend "no problema" HEART MATTER No money in house "no problema" HEART MATTER No going out/annerversity etc "no problema" HEART MATTER Why did you have to buy motorcycle "no problema" HEART MATTER After 2 yrs begged for a divorce as unlivable. We went immediately to lawyer (within hours) and a no liability on my part divorce was granted. The final freedom making thing was: Foreclousure on house and car repossession due to leaving and her inability to pay. I got in the car and 15 states east made a new life and family |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
wrote in I got in the car and 15 states east made a new life and family And 15 states later you're right back in the same boat! |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
yup...u can't escape it
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
What I find very disturbing is that their are no
accountability for spouses to prove that the "CS" money was actually spent on the children. Can you imagine the buren on the court system to have to review even ercentge of these case when the NCPs start bringing legal actions, or worse if all cases need court review. |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
DB,
I learned the above years ago (more than 1/4 century now). The problem is many men work on impulse, not brain. It worked for myself, and after a couple of others worked to the hilt. Come on now, let us review. Males: Act on impulse Females: Need affection and feeling of security. No law state food content: Now have baloney and milk for food. Why its a heart thing, honey can we buy steak NO. No law state clothes, shoes worn and clothes worn. Why its a heart thing, honey can we buy new NO. So forth and so on. Its makes it unlivable, and to a point of desparation. The secret is to get judge order in signed format. Sorry it worked perfectly. |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
Think of it, stay and treat like a unwanted dog (WIFE).
All legal, there is no laws of the heart. Ever seen the other side sobbing, for something desired by wife. You don't care, you don't love me no more, why do you have to be so cruel. And to answer "Yes" to all. Ever lived your life while married as a single guy. Do it before you deicde to say it is the end, and have attorney. |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse-the answer is yes
First, I want to acknowledge to everyone that I support CS.
Why? Perhaps you should also acknowledge that you supported the final solution, Jim Crow, aparheid, and so on. Oh, with some changes to make them less objectionable, eh? Anyone who does not meet their obligation for their children should be punished according to the law. And what does this have to do with LACS? What I find very disturbing is that their are no accountability for spouses to prove that the "CS" money was actually spent on the children. Again, why? It is perhaps more of an impossibility for a women to spend all the money she is given only on children than it is for a man to actually pay this enormous sum. CS needs to be accountable! Here you go again. Like when you bitched that the train cars hauling Jews to Nazi death camps should have had benches or when you proclaimed that the separate school blacks were force to attended should have had more books. What a loser you are! |
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Is it "Child Support" or money for spouse
wrote in message oups.com... First, I want to acknowledge to everyone that I support CS. Anyone who does not meet their obligation for their children should be punished according to the law. CS has NOTHING to do with any such obligation. What I find very disturbing is that their are no accountability for spouses to prove that the "CS" money was actually spent on the children. Why should YOU care? (see below) I have 3 children that I love dearly and when I was married my wife got pregnant by another man while I was at work who then decided to keep the child. Obviously, I couldn't stick around for that show. The unemployed guy moves and leaches off the X. I'm paying over 2400.00/month on child support not accounting medical and some day-care expenses. When I visit my kids she gives me clothes from 2 years ago. I hardly see any new clothes. My X makes as much as I do but spends a lot also. My fear is that the money my children should be getting is spent on her other child which I am not responsible for. She is also supporting the bum that lives with her. Where is the justice? During the settlement of my divorce I offered her 100K of my equity of the house in return to make CS accountable by giving her a fix amount of 1000/month and credit card to purchase whatever the children needs and at the end of each month she pays half of the expenses. She did not take the offer. For good reasons...CS is a better deal. She doesn't have to account or itemize what she spent on the children. CS needs to be accountable! Hey, you're the fool who supports CS. Supporting something means accepting it just the way it is; so don't complain! |
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