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For those that care to know
My daughter has mantained residential custody of her baby.The judge refused the
emergency petition for the father to take the baby from our home. My daughter has admitted to the judge she has made bad choices and mistakes since the father left her, and admits he has continually emotionally abused her , adding to the severity of her mental and emotional health, and that she has never and will never do anything to hurt her child . Our behavioral therapist supported her in court, that she has been working with our family for three years and our home is a safe nurturing environment for the baby. As I have known in my heart to be the truth as well. There will still be a custody conference (arbitration hearing) in mid January.Hopfully My daughter and her ex can agree upon something that works for the both of them at that time. Meanwhile my granddaughter slept snug as a bug in her nursery last night ! I am happy that this has helped reasure my daughter that she is not a bad mom and that she can and will be o.k. Thank you to everyone that listened and showed support to our family. Bev |
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"Bebelestrnge0721" wrote in message ... My daughter has mantained residential custody of her baby.The judge refused the emergency petition for the father to take the baby from our home. snippage Congrats! Good luck with future hearings. Bev, brace yourself for more....and be strong! (((Bev and family)))) V |
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From: "V" Date: 11/18/2004 8:20 AM Eastern Standard Time Message-id: "Bebelestrnge0721" wrote in message ... My daughter has mantained residential custody of her baby.The judge refused the emergency petition for the father to take the baby from our home. snippage Congrats! Good luck with future hearings. Bev, brace yourself for more....and be strong! (((Bev and family)))) V Thanks Vicky, Yes, my daughter has a lawer who will see her through this ! Bev |
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"Bebelestrnge0721" wrote in message ... Subject: For those that care to know From: (Karen O'Mara) Date: 11/18/2004 12:25 PM Eastern Standard Time Message-id: (Bebelestrnge0721) wrote in message ... My daughter has mantained residential custody of her baby.The judge refused the emergency petition for the father to take the baby from our home. My daughter has admitted to the judge she has made bad choices and mistakes since the father left her, and admits he has continually emotionally abused her , adding to the severity of her mental and emotional health, and that she has never and will never do anything to hurt her child . Our behavioral therapist supported her in court, that she has been working with our family for three years and our home is a safe nurturing environment for the baby. As I have known in my heart to be the truth as well. There will still be a custody conference (arbitration hearing) in mid January.Hopfully My daughter and her ex can agree upon something that works for the both of them at that time. Meanwhile my granddaughter slept snug as a bug in her nursery last night ! I am happy that this has helped reasure my daughter that she is not a bad mom and that she can and will be o.k. Thank you to everyone that listened and showed support to our family. Bev Keep us posted. I have been thinking about you. I hope the father of the baby will remain sincere and help out and I hope your daughter seizes the opportunities to be the best mother she can be. You hang in there, too. You are a very caring person and probably a target because of that. Karen Thanks Karen, I would love nothing more than for them both to get thier heads outta their butts, and do what is right for the baby. I can only respond to what I see from each of them , I have seen my daughter struggling while he runs around in his 2000 car with light effects and a stereo system you can hear down the block with his friends and girlfriends( three) since the breakup, while claiming he can not afford to buy shoes for his child? He bailed and left her holding all the emotional and financial support of this baby. It is what happens most of the time with teenage boys that make babies, He is just a heat seeking missile and my daughter got burnt. Teen boys do not make babies........teen girls do. Teen girls have the AAA (abort, abandon, adopt) choices WRT prgancy...teen boys do not. The teen mother should be responsible for the consequences of her sole and uniltaeral choices. Your misandrist BS shows through all to clearly. |
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Subject: For those that care to know
From: "P.Fritz" Date: 11/18/2004 5:13 PM Eastern Standard Time Message-id: "Bebelestrnge0721" wrote in message ... Subject: For those that care to know From: (Karen O'Mara) Date: 11/18/2004 12:25 PM Eastern Standard Time Message-id: (Bebelestrnge0721) wrote in message ... My daughter has mantained residential custody of her baby.The judge refused the emergency petition for the father to take the baby from our home. My daughter has admitted to the judge she has made bad choices and mistakes since the father left her, and admits he has continually emotionally abused her , adding to the severity of her mental and emotional health, and that she has never and will never do anything to hurt her child . Our behavioral therapist supported her in court, that she has been working with our family for three years and our home is a safe nurturing environment for the baby. As I have known in my heart to be the truth as well. There will still be a custody conference (arbitration hearing) in mid January.Hopfully My daughter and her ex can agree upon something that works for the both of them at that time. Meanwhile my granddaughter slept snug as a bug in her nursery last night ! I am happy that this has helped reasure my daughter that she is not a bad mom and that she can and will be o.k. Thank you to everyone that listened and showed support to our family. Bev Keep us posted. I have been thinking about you. I hope the father of the baby will remain sincere and help out and I hope your daughter seizes the opportunities to be the best mother she can be. You hang in there, too. You are a very caring person and probably a target because of that. Karen Thanks Karen, I would love nothing more than for them both to get thier heads outta their butts, and do what is right for the baby. I can only respond to what I see from each of them , I have seen my daughter struggling while he runs around in his 2000 car with light effects and a stereo system you can hear down the block with his friends and girlfriends( three) since the breakup, while claiming he can not afford to buy shoes for his child? He bailed and left her holding all the emotional and financial support of this baby. It is what happens most of the time with teenage boys that make babies, He is just a heat seeking missile and my daughter got burnt. Teen boys do not make babies........teen girls do. What planet you on ? Teen girls have the AAA (abort, abandon, adopt) choices WRT prgancy...teen boys do not. I believe teen boys also have the option of abandon, and adopt, and for all the teen boys that walk away from the girls they helped to make pregnant telling them to go get an abortion, find it quite convenient as well ? I think there are too many girls and boys alike that use abortion as a form of birth control. And an easy way out of the consequences of thier irresponsible behavior. The teen mother should be responsible for the consequences of her sole and uniltaeral choices. I am laughing now ! Your misandrist BS shows through all to clearly. No sir not true ! I don't hate men......I'm not attracted to them. When I see a man or woman neglecting thier childrens needs I hate them equally. You seem to be the one that has the problem . |
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"P.Fritz" wrote in message ... "Bebelestrnge0721" wrote in message ... Subject: For those that care to know From: (Karen O'Mara) Date: 11/18/2004 12:25 PM Eastern Standard Time Message-id: (Bebelestrnge0721) wrote in message ... My daughter has mantained residential custody of her baby.The judge refused the emergency petition for the father to take the baby from our home. My daughter has admitted to the judge she has made bad choices and mistakes since the father left her, and admits he has continually emotionally abused her , adding to the severity of her mental and emotional health, and that she has never and will never do anything to hurt her child . Our behavioral therapist supported her in court, that she has been working with our family for three years and our home is a safe nurturing environment for the baby. As I have known in my heart to be the truth as well. There will still be a custody conference (arbitration hearing) in mid January.Hopfully My daughter and her ex can agree upon something that works for the both of them at that time. Meanwhile my granddaughter slept snug as a bug in her nursery last night ! I am happy that this has helped reasure my daughter that she is not a bad mom and that she can and will be o.k. Thank you to everyone that listened and showed support to our family. Bev Keep us posted. I have been thinking about you. I hope the father of the baby will remain sincere and help out and I hope your daughter seizes the opportunities to be the best mother she can be. You hang in there, too. You are a very caring person and probably a target because of that. Karen Thanks Karen, I would love nothing more than for them both to get thier heads outta their butts, and do what is right for the baby. I can only respond to what I see from each of them , I have seen my daughter struggling while he runs around in his 2000 car with light effects and a stereo system you can hear down the block with his friends and girlfriends( three) since the breakup, while claiming he can not afford to buy shoes for his child? He bailed and left her holding all the emotional and financial support of this baby. It is what happens most of the time with teenage boys that make babies, He is just a heat seeking missile and my daughter got burnt. Teen boys do not make babies........teen girls do. Teen girls have the AAA (abort, abandon, adopt) choices WRT prgancy...teen boys do not. The teen mother should be responsible for the consequences of her sole and uniltaeral choices. Your misandrist BS shows through all to clearly. I'm afraid I have to disagree with you Paul, it takes 2 to make a baby and he's just as responsible. Fact of the matter is, she chose to have the baby yes, but he's still liable for the consequences for having unprotected sex with her. Christine |
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"Bebelestrnge0721" wrote in message ... Subject: For those that care to know From: (Karen O'Mara) Date: 11/18/2004 12:25 PM Eastern Standard Time Message-id: (Bebelestrnge0721) wrote in message ... My daughter has mantained residential custody of her baby.The judge refused the emergency petition for the father to take the baby from our home. My daughter has admitted to the judge she has made bad choices and mistakes since the father left her, and admits he has continually emotionally abused her , adding to the severity of her mental and emotional health, and that she has never and will never do anything to hurt her child . Our behavioral therapist supported her in court, that she has been working with our family for three years and our home is a safe nurturing environment for the baby. As I have known in my heart to be the truth as well. There will still be a custody conference (arbitration hearing) in mid January.Hopfully My daughter and her ex can agree upon something that works for the both of them at that time. Meanwhile my granddaughter slept snug as a bug in her nursery last night ! I am happy that this has helped reasure my daughter that she is not a bad mom and that she can and will be o.k. Thank you to everyone that listened and showed support to our family. Bev Keep us posted. I have been thinking about you. I hope the father of the baby will remain sincere and help out and I hope your daughter seizes the opportunities to be the best mother she can be. You hang in there, too. You are a very caring person and probably a target because of that. Karen Thanks Karen, I would love nothing more than for them both to get thier heads outta their butts, and do what is right for the baby. I can only respond to what I see from each of them , I have seen my daughter struggling while he runs around in his 2000 car with light effects and a stereo system you can hear down the block with his friends and girlfriends( three) since the breakup, while claiming he can not afford to buy shoes for his child? He bailed and left her holding all the emotional and financial support of this baby. It is what happens most of the time with teenage boys that make babies, He is just a heat seeking missile and my daughter got burnt. Bev that is the most sexist thing I have heard in sometime. You should be ashamed of yourself for putting all the blame on the boy for the pregnancy! Your daughter should have been thinking of HERSELF and been on a form of birthcontrol or insisted he use a condom. Yeah, yeah, I know nothing is 100% percent and I just bet she used something and it didn't work. Regardless, it is NOT just his fault. She had sex too. T |
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"Bebelestrnge0721" wrote in message ... Subject: For those that care to know From: "V" Date: 11/18/2004 8:20 AM Eastern Standard Time Message-id: "Bebelestrnge0721" wrote in message ... My daughter has mantained residential custody of her baby.The judge refused the emergency petition for the father to take the baby from our home. snippage Congrats! Good luck with future hearings. Bev, brace yourself for more....and be strong! (((Bev and family)))) V Thanks Vicky, Yes, my daughter has a lawer who will see her through this ! Bev Your welcome! I am glad she has legal representation. V |
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