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  #61  
Old January 21st 05, 10:54 PM
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"Kari" wrote in message
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Mandy Smith wrote:

Kari, you don't know me first of all,




Typical crybaby copout--"you don't know me". Is there
some law that says that I have to know something about
you in order to see that you CHOSE to make an illegitimate
child?


secondly I'm not a breeder.


Yes, you are. You made a mistake and now are looking for
a walking wallet to clean up your mess. It sounds like
the taxpayers already gave you plenty of handouts. And
you are proud of that?


I only
have one child, you probably have none. Is this the way you treat someone
that needs help ?




Need help my ass!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah I don't have any kids.
But guess what? ALL the financial aid for colleges are
geared toward irresponsible idiots like you who can't
be bothered with BC. The financial aid office had the
chutzpah to tell me that I'd have to go out and get
knocked up just to get any financial aid.


You have a very cold, evil, and dark soul, I recommend
professional help for your lack of humanity.



Yeah, the breeders' answer to everything. Medicate anyone who
disagrees with them. Even Ritalin has become the lazy breeders'
answer for child-rearing.

Just remember, no one took your hand and made you barge in here.

Now, don't you have a kid to ignore?


Oh, I see the problem, Kari is all mad about financial aid not assisting her.
Gee, I thought it was all about the bad childhood.
Tsk.
V

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Old January 21st 05, 11:10 PM
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"Mandy Smith" wrote in message
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Alot of the people on here are terribly mean, I wish there were more kind
hearted people around. It makes me feel very ashamed of my fellow
Americans.


What would the kind hearted people do, Mandy? Agree that you deserved lots
of money for bringing a child into the world that you couldn't afford to
take care of, and chosing to raise her anyway? O have a few questions for
you:

What have you done, in all thes last 15 years, to make this man a part of
your daughter's life? (Besides seeking child support, that is) Have you
sent photos and letters describing her life and activities? Have you
offered to share custody with him? Have you told him that you will forego
the money--that you just want your daughter to have a loving, nurturing
relationship with her father? What have you done that might help him want
to be part of her life? After all, a relationship with her father is more
important than money, isn't it?

You mention in your original post that you have been to court several times.
Why several? Has a paternity test ever been done? Do you have a court
order for child support? If so, why did you need to go back to court
several times? Has he *ever* been served with papers that declasre him to
be the father and stipulate an amount to be paid? Does he know where you
are, or were you just a passing lust interest? Have you even spoken to him
since your daughterwas born?


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Old January 21st 05, 11:17 PM
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"Mandy Smith" wrote in message
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Kari, you don't know me first of all, secondly I'm not a breeder. I only
have one child, you probably have none. Is this the way you treat someone
that needs help ? You have a very cold, evil, and dark soul, I recommend
professional help for your lack of humanity.


It doesn't sound as if you are looking for help, Mandy. It sounds as if you
are looking for money. So, what have you done these last 15 years in the
way of training, etc, to better you lot in life? Have you attended college
to get a degree? Gone to a trade or professional training school? People on
government assistance, as you seem to be, get all kinds of help getting into
training programs. Maybe, instead of looking for the pot of gold at the end
of the Michael F. O'Shaughnessy rainbow, you would be better off finding
ways to increase your employability. And that would be an excellent example
for your daughter, too.


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Old January 21st 05, 11:22 PM
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"Kari" wrote in message
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Tsorton wrote:
On Fri, 21 Jan 2005 08:39:26 -0800, "tom c"
wrote:


"DaKitty" wrote in message
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I can believe that abut you. You do come across as someone who likes to
use

people.

Just like the original poster, used him for cash, used him as an unwanted
sperm donor and wants to use a childfree newsgroup to do her homework.


Yea, I do feel bad for the husband.
It's okay, he can always come to our group and get some support...
later.


Looking to husband steal?

Tom C



/snork

Nah, what decent guy would go for a stretched out ****, prolapsed
uterus, udder hanging up to her knees and pair of crotchfuit thrown in
to make entire package 'simply irresistible'?




That would surely gross out DH. Plus, I don't think he
would be too turned on by this knuckle-dragging cave dweller
troll.



Madia, wondering why Da****ly took Kari's post so personal....




Breeders always take things personal when a CFer shows
them a different point of view.



Kari


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Kari Levstik


Too bad your parent's bred.......and what the hell's a "CF"? **** Farter?


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Old January 21st 05, 11:30 PM
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Mandy Smith wrote:
Hello,

I was involved for a time with a man by the name of Michael F.
O'Shaughnessy when I live in Central New York(I lived in

Morrisville, NY).
He was very handsome, and a smooth talker, we used to talk alot, and

seemed
to have nice times together with me and my aged mother(I came from a

single
parent family). Anyway, when he decided to not wear a condom, as

expected 9
months later I gave birth to beautiful baby girl. Then that's when

the
trouble started, when he found out I was pregnant he became enraged.

Then he
got a U-haul (when I was at a friends house) and moved all of his

stuff out
on me. My daughter Sarah is 15 years old now, and has not seen ONE

RED CENT
of support from her father Mike. I know he has alot of money too.

When I
was with him he used to wear the finest clothes, and he worked two

jobs, I
saw some of his paychecks and they were always around $700-800.00 a

week.
You would think making over a grand a week he could share with my

daughter
and I, but no he does nothing ! I have been to family court several

times
to try to get him to provide for his daughter. They Judges always

rule in my
favor, but then I never get any payments from that jerk Michael F.
O'Shaughnessy.

I will describe how he looks now: He has curly black hair, he is

very tall
too(over 6 feet tall), he is a White Man(Irish, but he said he's not

?),
also he told me he was from a place called Massena. That's in Canada

I
believe. Anyway, I work myself to the bone, making only about

$300.00 a
week, I get food stamps too and partial rental assistance too from

the
State. But life is really painful for us, he doesn't care though. As

soon as
he made a child, he was off and running. If this is any help, the

last place
I heard he was is, Santa Barbara,CA Solvay,NY(possibly staying with

a girl
named Valerie) New Orleans, LA & Las Vegas. Thanks for listening to

me
gripe. Please respond directly to me on the newsgroup. I don't use my

normal
email address here. Thanks do much for your help. And other women

here's
some free advice: "STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM MICHAEL FRED

O'SHAUGHNESSY " !
It's the best advice I can give any other woman, so he won't ruin

your life
too. Take care and thanks ahead of time for any help you can

provide.


Thanks,
Mandy S.


What's really amazing is how you went from giving "birth to a beautiful
baby girl", to complaining about having your life ruined...all in two
paragraphs.

If you switched emotions on Michael Fred O'Shaugnessy the way you
switch them in you email, no wonder he "dined-and-dashed your
schizophrenic ass."

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Old January 21st 05, 11:52 PM
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teachrmama wrote:
After all, a relationship with her father is more important than
money, isn't it?


What a ridiculous notion! Oh, no, money is the *only* factor in
raising happy and healthy kids. The government tells us so all the
time, and we know the government wouldn't lie to us.

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Old January 22nd 05, 12:14 AM
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posted on Thu, 20 Jan 2005 18:29:28 -0500, Mandy Smith
wrote:

Hello,

I was involved for a time with a man by the name of Michael F.
O'Shaughnessy when I live in Central New York(I lived in Morrisville, NY).
He was very handsome, and a smooth talker, we used to talk alot, and seemed
to have nice times together with me and my aged mother(I came from a single
parent family).

Um, well for a start, do you know that is actually his real
name? Do you have anything like positive ID on him?
Drivers license number, passport number, credit card
numbers, photos, and so on?

The fact that he was "handsome" and a "smooth talker" means
nothing. Most con men are. Most psychopaths are.
Otherwise neither would be successful.

Anyway, when he decided to not wear a condom, as expected 9
months later I gave birth to beautiful baby girl.


Not only his decision, you obviously agreed to it. And for
that matter, what kept you from using a diaphragm, taking
oral contraceptives, or using other birth control methods.

For that matter, once you found you were pregnant, what was
to stop you having an abortion?

Then that's when the
trouble started, when he found out I was pregnant he became enraged. Then he
got a U-haul (when I was at a friends house) and moved all of his stuff out
on me. My daughter Sarah is 15 years old now, and has not seen ONE RED CENT
of support from her father Mike.


When he ran away when he found you were pregnant, what else
did you expect?

I know he has alot of money too. When I
was with him he used to wear the finest clothes, and he worked two jobs, I
saw some of his paychecks and they were always around $700-800.00 a week.
You would think making over a grand a week he could share with my daughter
and I, but no he does nothing ! I have been to family court several times
to try to get him to provide for his daughter. They Judges always rule in my
favor, but then I never get any payments from that jerk Michael F.
O'Shaughnessy.


Perhaps your state [or country] didn't try hard enough to
track him at the time. Even 15 years ago it wouldn't have
been all that easy to disappear from the USA if you had the
means to promptly track him.

I will describe how he looks now: He has curly black hair, he is very tall
too(over 6 feet tall), he is a White Man(Irish, but he said he's not ?),
also he told me he was from a place called Massena. That's in Canada I
believe.


Sounds more like Austria or Italy to me.

Anyway, I work myself to the bone, making only about $300.00 a
week, I get food stamps too and partial rental assistance too from the
State. But life is really painful for us, he doesn't care though. As soon as
he made a child, he was off and running. If this is any help, the last place
I heard he was is, Santa Barbara,CA Solvay,NY(possibly staying with a girl
named Valerie) New Orleans, LA & Las Vegas. Thanks for listening to me
gripe. Please respond directly to me on the newsgroup. I don't use my normal
email address here. Thanks do much for your help. And other women here's
some free advice: "STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM MICHAEL FRED O'SHAUGHNESSY " !
It's the best advice I can give any other woman, so he won't ruin your life
too. Take care and thanks ahead of time for any help you can provide.


Um, am not sure that any of us can help much Mandy. 15
years is a long time ago if you have no more information
than you have given us so far.

Didn't it ever occur to you to try to verify his identity
before you trusted him that much? If he had a car, in many
states at that time it wouldn't have been that difficult to
get a look at the registration certificate or check out the
license plate number? Or get a look at his social security
number?

Yeah, I know that some people such as
might consider me and others on alt.support.childfree, might
consider us excessively suspicious, but I wouldn't let him
or anyone else even into my house unless had some sort of a
track on them.

Identity fraud is far too easy, especially these days.

Regards,
"nilkids"

Thanks,
Mandy S.


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Old January 22nd 05, 12:19 AM
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In article 1106334344.ab33067d2cdf8cd6e07b6fc68ab1af45@teran ews, Mandy Smith
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Alot of the people on here are terribly mean, I wish there were more kind
hearted people around. It makes me feel very ashamed of my fellow Americans.

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You are calling others mean? You are the one who started this thread by calling
your child's father "deadbeat asshole" and posting his name and other personals
about him on a public forum! You claimed he got you pregnant by not wearing a
condom but you used no birth control. How does that make it more his
responsibility? How is it that you do not believe you should care for the child
you chose to conceive and bring into the world when you could not afford to
provide for said child? I realize it is quite a shock to discover that some
people do not pander to mothers and even expect them to be held accountable for
their irresponsibility. You just got a reality check and it didn't even phase
you. You have expressed more desire for money than concern for your child's own
well-being. It just hasn't occurred to you that *you* are no less a deadbeat
than the child's father because you don't want to foot the bill either. You want
him and the state (my tax dollars) to pay you for the decisions you willingly
and intentionally made. This is no more about deadbeat fathers than it is about
deadbeat mothers and a small child who everyone whines about having to provide
for. Sheesh! Go back to school and make yourself worthy of that child and quit
pretending to be a victim. The only victim is the child for whom neither parent
cares to provide. You're ashamed of Americans for not falling for your sob
story? Fine. But, many strong women have happily provided for their children
without help from the other parent or the state. Your sense of entitlement and
righteousness is an embarrassment to those women (and there are more than a few
of us here). Surprise.
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Old January 22nd 05, 12:49 AM
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Little girl, you better shut your mouth and leave it alone if you know
what's good for you. This man means nothing to you, you only want a
check from him. Why do you think he'd choose you and your brat over a
good life in the Carribean anyway ? He already belongs to other
women, they won't take kindly to you spreading his personal business
all over the internet either. Get out while you can, he left you, but
we'll find you. Keep running your mouth bitch, and you'll see what
happens. ****ing welfare parasite bitch.

 




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