a way for you to stop the DCSE CSE,

on your withholding forms, don't claim 0 or 1, claim 2 or 3 that way your
employer take less taxes, which mean when you file your taxes you maybe able
to break even or get very little back or you may have to pay. But eh ex
won't get you tax refund at all or the ex will get very little.at least you
will have more money in your paycheck each week. bi-weekly....

I did it this year, my last refund was in the 1000.00 but this year the VA
DCSE file to receive my income refund, that is ok because my refund is 38
dollars..

my ex won't get all that money at one time.

This doesn't stop child support but just makes sure that your ex doesn't get
your tax refund if you owe arrearages. You still probably have to pay
something towards arrearages currently or if not, eventually.

If you really want to stop child support, you can move to a foreign country
if your overdue balance is below $5,000 and your passport is still good or
you can give up your rights to the child and then you are no longer legally
the parent. I know of a case who did this and the current support does
stop.

"HI HEY" wrote in message
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on your withholding forms, don't claim 0 or 1, claim 2 or 3 that way your
employer take less taxes, which mean when you file your taxes you maybe
able to break even or get very little back or you may have to pay. But eh
ex won't get you tax refund at all or the ex will get very little.at least
you will have more money in your paycheck each week. bi-weekly....

I did it this year, my last refund was in the 1000.00 but this year the VA
DCSE file to receive my income refund, that is ok because my refund is 38
dollars..

my ex won't get all that money at one time.

"flinrius" wrote in

If you really want to stop child support, you can move to a foreign
country if your overdue balance is below $5,000


What if you are an immigrant, can you just move back to your country of
origin?

G, Interesting question -- if you are a resident alien or I-9 person with a
foreign passport...you may be able to leave by yourself...not sure if the
state department has that process worked out or not.

"G" wrote in message
nk.net...

"flinrius" wrote in

If you really want to stop child support, you can move to a foreign
country if your overdue balance is below $5,000


What if you are an immigrant, can you just move back to your country of
origin?

"flinrius" wrote in
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or you can give up your rights to the child and then you
are no longer legally the parent. I know of a case who did this and
the current support does stop.


This doesn't sound right. The courts would be unable to force men into
paying child support for children conceived by flings, one-night-stands,
etc. The males would simply relinquish any rights to the child and the
mother would be the sole financial supporter. Or, are you referring to
fathers who leave the country and relinquish any rights?

This case I was referring to a case of a person I know quite well who did
give up his rights and the child support did stop. He has since paid up on
the arrearages and is paid in full. The mom wanted husband #2 / step-dad to
adopt the child. I'm not sure if this is a situation where you have to have
a new father-figure or not to give up rights to the child. I wouldn't
recommend this approach to most but this person was dealing with an extreme
situation.

"Dave the Wave" wrote in message
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"flinrius" wrote in
news
or you can give up your rights to the child and then you
are no longer legally the parent. I know of a case who did this and
the current support does stop.


This doesn't sound right. The courts would be unable to force men into
paying child support for children conceived by flings, one-night-stands,
etc. The males would simply relinquish any rights to the child and the
mother would be the sole financial supporter. Or, are you referring to
fathers who leave the country and relinquish any rights?

Dave's comment is correct. The only circumstances in which the father
can stop paying "child support" to the mother is if the mother's new husband
adopts the child.

Otherwise, the father can renounce his paternal rights all he wants, but
he still has to go on paying the mother. This is only one of many ways in
which the so-called "child support" system is grotesquely biased against
men. A central feature of the system is that it's designed to give options
to women, at the expense of men. Thus, the mother can renounce her maternal
rights, by giving up the child for adoption or even by having it killed
before it is born. However, the father has no options, except to accept the
mother's decision.



"Dave the Wave" wrote in message
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"flinrius" wrote in
news
or you can give up your rights to the child and then you
are no longer legally the parent. I know of a case who did this and
the current support does stop.


This doesn't sound right. The courts would be unable to force men into
paying child support for children conceived by flings, one-night-stands,
etc. The males would simply relinquish any rights to the child and the
mother would be the sole financial supporter. Or, are you referring to
fathers who leave the country and relinquish any rights?

Why don't you just be a man, step up, and quit trying to find ways out
of paying your support. You guys are truly a piece of work.

Please explain to me how 'paying' one's ex equates to "being a man". Is it
like a fee or a tax or something? Perhaps licenses should be issued to those
who pay; all others being unable to claim the title and punishment for those
who are making such a claim of "man" without governmental authority and
proper licensing.
Then again, consider the value of those men who want to be "daddy" while
demand someone else pay the bills but otherwise remain incognito.
Phil #3

P.S. When you reply, please leave a bit of the message to which you are
replying for clarity. It is difficult to follow a thread otherwise.


"George K" wrote in message
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Why don't you just be a man, step up, and quit trying to find ways out
of paying your support. You guys are truly a piece of work.

"George K" wrote in message
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Why don't you just be a man, step up, and quit trying to find ways out
of paying your support. You guys are truly a piece of work.

Why don't you go buy yourself a clue, since you obviously have never
found one.