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obnoxious kid alert---what to do?
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hey, here's a stupid goddamn situation where i allowed myself to be mousetrapped. i was at a very small park that had only 1 water fountain with my 2 nephews. they wanted to have a drink, but there was an insolent-looking kid, about 10 or 11, who was hogging the fountain way too long. my nephews were quite unhappy with the brat (they are only 6 and 4), but though my real wish was to strangle him and leave his body in the bushes, i was reluctant to say anything, b/c i was afraid that he would reply defiantly and i couldn't raise the stakes. There are all those inconvenient laws against murder on the books. i silently waited him out, which really was much too long, and then my nephews got their water belatedly. but what DO you do if you ask or order a snotnosed kid to vacate the fountain and he impudently refuses? |
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obnoxious kid alert---what to do?
Did you try asking the "insolent-looking kid" if he/she would let your
smaller ones have a drink... or did you just judge this kid on his/her appearnce ? I've found that if you treat a child with respect he/she is often responsive. abdul rahim wrote in message om... x-no-archive: yes hey, here's a stupid goddamn situation where i allowed myself to be mousetrapped. i was at a very small park that had only 1 water fountain with my 2 nephews. they wanted to have a drink, but there was an insolent-looking kid, about 10 or 11, who was hogging the fountain way too long. my nephews were quite unhappy with the brat (they are only 6 and 4), but though my real wish was to strangle him and leave his body in the bushes, i was reluctant to say anything, b/c i was afraid that he would reply defiantly and i couldn't raise the stakes. There are all those inconvenient laws against murder on the books. i silently waited him out, which really was much too long, and then my nephews got their water belatedly. but what DO you do if you ask or order a snotnosed kid to vacate the fountain and he impudently refuses? |
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obnoxious kid alert---what to do?
You're an adult, I assume? You could've said to him "Hey, other people are
thirsty too", or "Come on, move along, let someone else have a drink". I'm not above saying "Didn't your mother teach you any manners?" You didn't say that you asked him to vacate the fountain, you waited in silence. So he won! "abdul rahim" wrote in message om... x-no-archive: yes hey, here's a stupid goddamn situation where i allowed myself to be mousetrapped. i was at a very small park that had only 1 water fountain with my 2 nephews. they wanted to have a drink, but there was an insolent-looking kid, about 10 or 11, who was hogging the fountain way too long. my nephews were quite unhappy with the brat (they are only 6 and 4), but though my real wish was to strangle him and leave his body in the bushes, i was reluctant to say anything, b/c i was afraid that he would reply defiantly and i couldn't raise the stakes. There are all those inconvenient laws against murder on the books. i silently waited him out, which really was much too long, and then my nephews got their water belatedly. but what DO you do if you ask or order a snotnosed kid to vacate the fountain and he impudently refuses? |
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obnoxious kid alert---what to do?
BTW, you might want to talk to someone about those violent thoughts of
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obnoxious kid alert---what to do?
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abdul rahim wrote: *but what DO you do if you ask or order a snotnosed kid to vacate the *fountain and he impudently refuses? Well, if I ask a child politely to finish up and let someone else have a turn, and he refuses, I look for the responsible adult. If there is no responsible adult, I would probably simply tell the child it was time to let someone else have a turn, and go up to the water fountain myself. If nothing else, I'd be able to fill my hand with water and let my kids sip from my hand. That being said, it doesn't sound like you made any attempt to move the kid. You said you didn't say anything, but rather waited him out in silence. In that case, I hardly think you have cause for such a complaint. Next time, try saying "excuse me, my boys are thirsty, would you mind letting them take a turn at the water fountain please?" It might work wonders. -- hillary israeli vmd http://www.hillary.net "uber vaccae in quattuor partes divisum est." not-so-newly minted veterinarian-at-large |
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"abdul rahim" wrote in message om... but what DO you do if you ask or order a snotnosed kid to vacate the fountain and he impudently refuses? If he was really snot-nosed, I think I would have skipped the water fountain completely. -- JennP. mom to Matthew 10/11/00 EDD #2 10/24/04 remove "no........spam" to reply |
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obnoxious kid alert---what to do?
"abdul rahim" wrote in message om... x-no-archive: yes hey, here's a stupid goddamn situation where i allowed myself to be mousetrapped. Reminds me of Ann Landers: You can't be taken advantage of without your permission. i was at a very small park that had only 1 water fountain with my 2 nephews. they wanted to have a drink, but there was an insolent-looking kid, about 10 or 11, who was hogging the fountain way too long. my nephews were quite unhappy with the brat (they are only 6 and 4), but though my real wish was to strangle him and leave his body in the bushes, i was reluctant to say anything, b/c i was afraid that he would reply defiantly and i couldn't raise the stakes. There are all those inconvenient laws against murder on the books. i silently waited him out, which really was much too long, and then my nephews got their water belatedly. but what DO you do if you ask or order a snotnosed kid to vacate the fountain and he impudently refuses? Short of talking to the kids parents (who probably weren't around) or taking physical action against the kid (which would not be good because it teaches violence to your nephews plus could get you in jail), what can you do? Nothing. What you can do though is explain to your nephews how you felt and let them say they felt. That way, they gain a valuable lesson in curtesy. Jeff |
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