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Things to think of before you get married again..
"Ken Chaddock" wrote in message news:iQXWg.7926$P7.2989@edtnps89... Ken Chaddock wrote: Fred wrote: Gini wrote: "Fred" wrote ......................... I read your entire message. What it boils down to is yet another attempt to evade your responsibilities by ignoring the doctrine of informed consent. Sorry, but men can't just spread their semen hither and yon and walk away from the consequences thereof because those consequences are ... *inconvenient*. That's "inconvenient" as in financially inconvenient, because at the end of the day it's always about the money with y'all. It's disgusting, really. == Then I presume you find it equally disgusting when the mother does the same, such as abortion, baby dropoff? What's "baby dropoff"? God, you're in here, talking like you're the great know-it-all authority of child custody and parental responsibility and reproductive rights and you don't even know what child-drop-off is ? What an arse-h*%e...you didn't have much credibility but you've certainly destroyed what little you did have with this... Just for your eludication...child-drop-off is consequence free, legal abandonment of an infant child by a mother, sometimes also called "safe haven" laws or "hatchery" laws. Currently at least 37 states have "safe haven" laws with more in progress. All the mother has to do is take the child to a "safe" drop off point...she can't just throw it in a dumpster, which is what some used to do...such as a police station, fire station, welfare office, hospital or medical clinic etc. There are *NO* strings attached, in most case they aren't even allowed to ask her her name so there are absolutely NO legal consequences...note that in all but two states this provision is NOT available to the father and those two they *require* that he provide identification...for future child support no doubt... If you don't believe me...and you probably won't...there's plenty of info on the net. up to and including state statutes that you can read yourself... ...Ken Update, with a little further research I've discovered that apparently there are now 47 states with "safe haven" laws and, wonder of all wonders, a couple of them will also accept an infant from a man without asking questions...but only a couple... ...and NO Fred, this ISN'T adoption... ...Ken I'd be willing to bet that it remains that the mother can refute the abandonment by the father (claiming she never wanted to abandon the baby), retrieve the child and force the father to pay child support, a situation that is not available for the father in the reverse situation. Phil #3 |
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