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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
Hi, I have a question... Does anybody have an idea about this?
I live/work in Washington DC- I have two toddlers with a woman in NY. I earn (before taxes) 51k a year. We don't have a formal arrangements with the courts for child support. I send her 1k a month and I help out with medical expenses as they show up. Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? |
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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
You don't mention how much the mother earns. It makes a difference.
"jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... Hi, I have a question... Does anybody have an idea about this? I live/work in Washington DC- I have two toddlers with a woman in NY. I earn (before taxes) 51k a year. We don't have a formal arrangements with the courts for child support. I send her 1k a month and I help out with medical expenses as they show up. Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? |
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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
"jean paul sartre" wrote in
Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? If they find out that you can easy pay $300 per month, they'll go for more! The state gets payed a commission from the feds forevery dollar they collect, thereis no ceiling on this commission either. Don't assume any logic or common sense when it comes to C$ agencies, they are freeking insane and their self importance drives them to new heights of arrogance. Every dollar you give them, helps to support their useless existance!!!!!!!!!! |
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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
On Fri, 08 Aug 2008 14:37:37 -0700, teachrmama wrote:
You don't mention how much the mother earns. It makes a difference. "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... Hi, I have a question... Does anybody have an idea about this? I live/work in Washington DC- I have two toddlers with a woman in NY. I earn (before taxes) 51k a year. We don't have a formal arrangements with the courts for child support. I send her 1k a month and I help out with medical expenses as they show up. Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? She earns very little. She works part time and moved in with her mother. |
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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
"jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... On Fri, 08 Aug 2008 14:37:37 -0700, teachrmama wrote: You don't mention how much the mother earns. It makes a difference. "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... Hi, I have a question... Does anybody have an idea about this? I live/work in Washington DC- I have two toddlers with a woman in NY. I earn (before taxes) 51k a year. We don't have a formal arrangements with the courts for child support. I send her 1k a month and I help out with medical expenses as they show up. Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? She earns very little. She works part time and moved in with her mother. Ok. Look on alllaw.com, at the child support calculators. You will have to use the state the child lives in. It will show approximately what you would have to pay with a court order. I am not sure whether it includes child care into the calculation. |
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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
-- [Any man that's good enough to support a child is good enough to have custody of such child] .. .. "teachrmama" wrote in message ... "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... On Fri, 08 Aug 2008 14:37:37 -0700, teachrmama wrote: You don't mention how much the mother earns. It makes a difference. "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... Hi, I have a question... Does anybody have an idea about this? I live/work in Washington DC- I have two toddlers with a woman in NY. I earn (before taxes) 51k a year. We don't have a formal arrangements with the courts for child support. I send her 1k a month and I help out with medical expenses as they show up. Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? She earns very little. She works part time and moved in with her mother. Ok. Look on alllaw.com, at the child support calculators. You will have to use the state the child lives in. It will show approximately what you would have to pay with a court order. I am not sure whether it includes child care into the calculation. For what it's worth, courts NEVER order someone to pay less. In other words, they order a minimum; not a maximum. |
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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
"Chris" wrote in message ... -- [Any man that's good enough to support a child is good enough to have custody of such child] . . "teachrmama" wrote in message ... "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... On Fri, 08 Aug 2008 14:37:37 -0700, teachrmama wrote: You don't mention how much the mother earns. It makes a difference. "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... Hi, I have a question... Does anybody have an idea about this? I live/work in Washington DC- I have two toddlers with a woman in NY. I earn (before taxes) 51k a year. We don't have a formal arrangements with the courts for child support. I send her 1k a month and I help out with medical expenses as they show up. Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? She earns very little. She works part time and moved in with her mother. Ok. Look on alllaw.com, at the child support calculators. You will have to use the state the child lives in. It will show approximately what you would have to pay with a court order. I am not sure whether it includes child care into the calculation. For what it's worth, courts NEVER order someone to pay less. In other words, they order a minimum; not a maximum. Perhaps I'm unique, but I was ordered to pay less CS after the CS guidelines were implemented. The irony was I had more income than when the original CS order was made yet the modification of the CS order using the new guidelines dropped the amount paid down about $150 per month. I have to admit the above is why I don't think the CS guidelines are that unreasonable. But I did think paying CS, SS, and income taxes that took 75% of my gross income was way over the top. |
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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
"Bob W" wrote in message ... "Chris" wrote in message ... -- [Any man that's good enough to support a child is good enough to have custody of such child] . . "teachrmama" wrote in message ... "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... On Fri, 08 Aug 2008 14:37:37 -0700, teachrmama wrote: You don't mention how much the mother earns. It makes a difference. "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... Hi, I have a question... Does anybody have an idea about this? I live/work in Washington DC- I have two toddlers with a woman in NY. I earn (before taxes) 51k a year. We don't have a formal arrangements with the courts for child support. I send her 1k a month and I help out with medical expenses as they show up. Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? She earns very little. She works part time and moved in with her mother. Ok. Look on alllaw.com, at the child support calculators. You will have to use the state the child lives in. It will show approximately what you would have to pay with a court order. I am not sure whether it includes child care into the calculation. For what it's worth, courts NEVER order someone to pay less. In other words, they order a minimum; not a maximum. Perhaps I'm unique, but I was ordered to pay less CS after the CS guidelines were implemented. The irony was I had more income than when the original CS order was made yet the modification of the CS order using the new guidelines dropped the amount paid down about $150 per month. I have to admit the above is why I don't think the CS guidelines are that unreasonable. But I did think paying CS, SS, and income taxes that took 75% of my gross income was way over the top. ================= I think it probably depends on what state you are in. Some states take out way more than others. We were really rocked financially when my husband got hit with CS and arrearages, but we survived. They tried to force him to change to another insurance option at work that they thought would be more convenient for his older daughter, but would have put all of us over 2 hours from medical care. The attorneys where he worked stepped in and told them no. If we had been hit with the cost of that insurance (much more expensive), plus child care, on top of the CS order, it would have wiped us out. The CS itself was doable, even though it was far more per month than we spent on both of our daughters. |
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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
"teachrmama" wrote in message ... "Bob W" wrote in message ... "Chris" wrote in message ... -- [Any man that's good enough to support a child is good enough to have custody of such child] . . "teachrmama" wrote in message ... "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... On Fri, 08 Aug 2008 14:37:37 -0700, teachrmama wrote: You don't mention how much the mother earns. It makes a difference. "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... Hi, I have a question... Does anybody have an idea about this? I live/work in Washington DC- I have two toddlers with a woman in NY. I earn (before taxes) 51k a year. We don't have a formal arrangements with the courts for child support. I send her 1k a month and I help out with medical expenses as they show up. Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? She earns very little. She works part time and moved in with her mother. Ok. Look on alllaw.com, at the child support calculators. You will have to use the state the child lives in. It will show approximately what you would have to pay with a court order. I am not sure whether it includes child care into the calculation. For what it's worth, courts NEVER order someone to pay less. In other words, they order a minimum; not a maximum. Perhaps I'm unique, but I was ordered to pay less CS after the CS guidelines were implemented. The irony was I had more income than when the original CS order was made yet the modification of the CS order using the new guidelines dropped the amount paid down about $150 per month. I have to admit the above is why I don't think the CS guidelines are that unreasonable. But I did think paying CS, SS, and income taxes that took 75% of my gross income was way over the top. ================= I think it probably depends on what state you are in. Some states take out way more than others. We were really rocked financially when my husband got hit with CS and arrearages, but we survived. They tried to force him to change to another insurance option at work that they thought would be more convenient for his older daughter, but would have put all of us over 2 hours from medical care. The attorneys where he worked stepped in and told them no. If we had been hit with the cost of that insurance (much more expensive), plus child care, on top of the CS order, it would have wiped us out. The CS itself was doable, even though it was far more per month than we spent on both of our daughters. I was just making a point about how the CS guidelines helped me. Before the guidelines were in existence the judges had a free shot to screw NCP fathers. They didn't explain how they came up with the amounts ordered, what incomes they used, etc. They just flipped out a bunch of numbers. In fact, the only thing the judge in my case mentioned was the Lyin' Lenore Weitzman line of BS about how I would recover very quickly in the future. I read that to mean the judge knew she was screwing me in the short-term under the assumption I would be okay in the future. Of course, now we know the concept of men recovering financially very quickly after divorce was based on erroneous research calculations by Weitzman and her 10 year cover-up and denials of the mistakes that cost a bunch of us big dollars because the "recovery" demonstrated by her research calculations was never real. |
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Is 1k a month support 2 kids too little for 51k salary?
"Bob W" wrote in message ... "teachrmama" wrote in message ... "Bob W" wrote in message ... "Chris" wrote in message ... -- [Any man that's good enough to support a child is good enough to have custody of such child] . . "teachrmama" wrote in message ... "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... On Fri, 08 Aug 2008 14:37:37 -0700, teachrmama wrote: You don't mention how much the mother earns. It makes a difference. "jean paul sartre" wrote in message ... Hi, I have a question... Does anybody have an idea about this? I live/work in Washington DC- I have two toddlers with a woman in NY. I earn (before taxes) 51k a year. We don't have a formal arrangements with the courts for child support. I send her 1k a month and I help out with medical expenses as they show up. Last year the amount I sent her averaged to about 1300 a month. Is this too much? Too little ? What would the courts find- what is the likelyhood they would order me to increase or decrease the amount?? She earns very little. She works part time and moved in with her mother. Ok. Look on alllaw.com, at the child support calculators. You will have to use the state the child lives in. It will show approximately what you would have to pay with a court order. I am not sure whether it includes child care into the calculation. For what it's worth, courts NEVER order someone to pay less. In other words, they order a minimum; not a maximum. Perhaps I'm unique, but I was ordered to pay less CS after the CS guidelines were implemented. The irony was I had more income than when the original CS order was made yet the modification of the CS order using the new guidelines dropped the amount paid down about $150 per month. I have to admit the above is why I don't think the CS guidelines are that unreasonable. But I did think paying CS, SS, and income taxes that took 75% of my gross income was way over the top. ================= I think it probably depends on what state you are in. Some states take out way more than others. We were really rocked financially when my husband got hit with CS and arrearages, but we survived. They tried to force him to change to another insurance option at work that they thought would be more convenient for his older daughter, but would have put all of us over 2 hours from medical care. The attorneys where he worked stepped in and told them no. If we had been hit with the cost of that insurance (much more expensive), plus child care, on top of the CS order, it would have wiped us out. The CS itself was doable, even though it was far more per month than we spent on both of our daughters. I was just making a point about how the CS guidelines helped me. Before the guidelines were in existence the judges had a free shot to screw NCP fathers. They didn't explain how they came up with the amounts ordered, what incomes they used, etc. They just flipped out a bunch of numbers. In fact, the only thing the judge in my case mentioned was the Lyin' Lenore Weitzman line of BS about how I would recover very quickly in the future. I read that to mean the judge knew she was screwing me in the short-term under the assumption I would be okay in the future. Of course, now we know the concept of men recovering financially very quickly after divorce was based on erroneous research calculations by Weitzman and her 10 year cover-up and denials of the mistakes that cost a bunch of us big dollars because the "recovery" demonstrated by her research calculations was never real. I know, Bob. I wasn't criticizing you. |
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