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child support review objection
"Chris" wrote in message ... -- [Any man that's good enough to support a child is good enough to have custody of such child] "Gini" wrote in message news:bYp0j.2823$Jy1.2029@trndny02... "Chris" wrote "Rob" wrote ........................... Some women really just irk me, well and to be fair...lol some men are just as bad if not worse! (I see it go both ways - people just need to grow up and take care of their children and not just walk away!) I could never walk away from my children for any reason, even if I find out they are not mine biologically they are mine in heart. I will post later tonight as to what happened in court today. Robert So tell me, how does it feel getting FREE money from someone else? == $230. a month is fair and reasonable, and FREE! The NCP could save the $230 by living in the area and parenting their own children 50% of the time, Chris. Chris. |
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child support review objection
teachrmama wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote in message et... Chris wrote: Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim that they are being "FAIR". Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their children. As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up later in the week. She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is here, just spend a few hours after school Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad? chuckle (tongue in cheek) I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters" she insisted she had to give him in person. -- Sarah Gray |
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child support review objection
"Sarah Gray" wrote teachrmama wrote: "Sarah Gray" wrote Chris wrote: Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim that they are being "FAIR". Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their children. As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up later in the week. She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is here, just spend a few hours after school Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad? chuckle (tongue in cheek) I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters" she insisted she had to give him in person. == Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his butt in gear. Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I had to prompt my ex when we lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time. No different after the split. |
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child support review objection
"Gini" wrote in message news:1T71j.1741$281.117@trndny06... "Sarah Gray" wrote teachrmama wrote: "Sarah Gray" wrote Chris wrote: Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim that they are being "FAIR". Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their children. As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up later in the week. She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is here, just spend a few hours after school Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad? chuckle (tongue in cheek) I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters" she insisted she had to give him in person. == Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his butt in gear. Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I had to prompt my ex when we lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time. I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact they have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My husband is such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he commented that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his alcoholic relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him that they were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed to act. It was his alcoholic relatives that were acting inapproporiately. chuckle |
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child support review objection
Gini wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote teachrmama wrote: "Sarah Gray" wrote Chris wrote: Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim that they are being "FAIR". Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their children. As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up later in the week. She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is here, just spend a few hours after school Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad? chuckle (tongue in cheek) I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters" she insisted she had to give him in person. == Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his butt in gear. Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I had to prompt my ex when we lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time. No different after the split. I told him. He is upset that I have not mailed anything, but she has been insistent on saving stuff to give to him in person. The thing is, he insists that he wants to be this great dad, and that it's killing him that he "had" to move. But it's not as if there is a shortage of $9 an hour jobs here. And, frankly, if I were in his position, I would have already been doing what I could to have visited her a number of times already. I suggested renting a car and said that I would help with gas, and he came up with the above response (he doesn't have a car of his own). -- Sarah Gray |
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child support review objection
teachrmama wrote:
"Gini" wrote in message news:1T71j.1741$281.117@trndny06... "Sarah Gray" wrote teachrmama wrote: "Sarah Gray" wrote Chris wrote: Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim that they are being "FAIR". Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their children. As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up later in the week. She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is here, just spend a few hours after school Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad? chuckle (tongue in cheek) I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters" she insisted she had to give him in person. == Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his butt in gear. Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I had to prompt my ex when we lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time. I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact they have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My husband is such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he commented that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his alcoholic relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him that they were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed to act. It was his alcoholic relatives that were acting inapproporiately. chuckle I think the term my ex used (and I appropriated) was "monkey on crack". It's so true, though...kids are crazy -- Sarah Gray |
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child support review objection
"teachrmama" wrote "Gini" wrote "Sarah Gray" wrote ....................................... I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters" she insisted she had to give him in person. == Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his butt in gear. Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I had to prompt my ex when we lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time. I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact they have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My husband is such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he commented that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his alcoholic relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him that they were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed to act. It was his alcoholic relatives that were acting inapproporiately. chuckle === Hehe--they can be pretty dense, eh? I remember my middle son sitting on the hood of our car with his suitcase waiting for his dad to arrive. After a while I called his dad and told him to get moving. It just didn't occur to him while he was sipping his third cup of coffee that the boy was sitting in the driveway waiting...waiting....(Now, if that were Moon, she would have been typing a letter to her ex [cc the court, of course] that the court had not authorized a change in the visitation schedule and that 24 hour's written notice was required for such change.) |
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child support review objection
"Sarah Gray" wrote in message ... teachrmama wrote: "Gini" wrote in message news:1T71j.1741$281.117@trndny06... "Sarah Gray" wrote teachrmama wrote: "Sarah Gray" wrote Chris wrote: Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim that they are being "FAIR". Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their children. As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up later in the week. She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is here, just spend a few hours after school Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad? chuckle (tongue in cheek) I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters" she insisted she had to give him in person. == Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his butt in gear. Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I had to prompt my ex when we lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time. I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact they have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My husband is such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he commented that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his alcoholic relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him that they were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed to act. It was his alcoholic relatives that were acting inapproporiately. chuckle I think the term my ex used (and I appropriated) was "monkey on crack". It's so true, though...kids are crazy chuckle That can certainly describe it at times. |
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child support review objection
"Gini" wrote in message news:bA81j.6698$ht1.4377@trndny01... "teachrmama" wrote "Gini" wrote "Sarah Gray" wrote ...................................... I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters" she insisted she had to give him in person. == Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his butt in gear. Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I had to prompt my ex when we lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time. I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact they have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My husband is such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he commented that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his alcoholic relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him that they were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed to act. It was his alcoholic relatives that were acting inapproporiately. chuckle === Hehe--they can be pretty dense, eh? I remember my middle son sitting on the hood of our car with his suitcase waiting for his dad to arrive. After a while I called his dad and told him to get moving. It just didn't occur to him while he was sipping his third cup of coffee that the boy was sitting in the driveway waiting...waiting....(Now, if that were Moon, she would have been typing a letter to her ex [cc the court, of course] that the court had not authorized a change in the visitation schedule and that 24 hour's written notice was required for such change.) Yep, I'm sure she would have. But that path has not led her to where she wanted to go, has it? |
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child support review objection
"Sarah Gray" wrote in message ... Gini wrote: "Sarah Gray" wrote teachrmama wrote: "Sarah Gray" wrote Chris wrote: Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim that they are being "FAIR". Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their children. As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up later in the week. She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is here, just spend a few hours after school Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad? chuckle (tongue in cheek) I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters" she insisted she had to give him in person. == Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his butt in gear. Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I had to prompt my ex when we lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time. No different after the split. I told him. He is upset that I have not mailed anything, but she has been insistent on saving stuff to give to him in person. The thing is, he insists that he wants to be this great dad, and that it's killing him that he "had" to move. But it's not as if there is a shortage of $9 an hour jobs here. And, frankly, if I were in his position, I would have already been doing what I could to have visited her a number of times already. I suggested renting a car and said that I would help with gas, and he came up with the above response (he doesn't have a car of his own). It doesn't sound as if he has quite developed the knack of taking responsibility for his own choices yet. Do you have a video camera? Maybe seeing a video ov his daughter would motivate him to come up more often. |
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