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Clisby wrote in
m: Lands End appears to have some nice ones, too. Sears sometimes carries Lands End clothes, so you could check there. you could, but what you'd find is that the fall/back-to-school stuff is out & the few bathing suits left are not anyones size. the website isn't much better. why yes, i *am* complaining about the abject stupidity of marketing clothing 3-6 months in advance of the seasons. i do NOT want to buy snowsuits in July, nor bathing suits in January. i'm not looking for shorts & t-shirts in March or back-to-school in June. i'm not completely omniscent. i don't *know* what size will fit my child 6 months from now. sure, i could buy size 8 shorts in January, but what if he doesn't hit a growth spurt until September? i've wasted that money on clothes that never fit when i need them. (that's hypothetical, BTW, because he fits perfectly well into the size 5 shorts he's been wearing for 3 years now. love those button elastic waists) which is another thing i've noticed. the less expensive clothes (store brands) all have regular elastic waists or no elastic, apparently sized to fit the standard American child, which means they fall off my kid. i bought Sears Toughskin 7 Slim black jeans for Boo to wear to a wedding, & without extensive remodeling, they are *way* too big in the waist, while barely reaching his ankles... seriously, i had to put 3/4" darts on both sides of the back waist band & 1/2" on each side of the front, which looks like crap. i guess their definintion of "slim" is way bigger than mine. and why are 'slim' clothes almost always 1-2" *shorter* in the inseam? thin kids are all short? lee -- Last night while sitting in my chair I pinged a host that wasn't there It wasn't there again today The host resolved to NSA. |
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"enigma" wrote in message
. .. definintion of "slim" is way bigger than mine. and why are 'slim' clothes almost always 1-2" *shorter* in the inseam? thin kids are all short? My oldest is very tall and thin (she's 13 though) and I finally found affordable jeans for her at kmart. I have had a really hard time finding jeans that fit her AND are long enough but kmart had a very large selection in their junior section. I've always found that shopping for either thin or tall is much harder than average sizes. I can't afford $40+ jeans from the more expensive places, especially when the kids will be outgrowing them within weeks/months (at one point, I had bought my daughter 2 or 3 pairs of jeans, they almost touched the floor and in about two weeks they were up to her ankles!) Marie |
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In article , Rosalie B. says...
Banty wrote: In article f905k.9863$Jx.5178@pd7urf1no, xkatx says... It's just a little annoying. I never considered my average C cup to be a huge set of boobs. Then after DD2 was born, fairly close after DD1, I found that my boobs got a little too big. The fact that she's still nursing, almost 19 months old now, doesn't seem to help with my upper end going to a more 'normal' and 'comfortable' size for me and what I think would go with the rest of my body. Oh well. Breastfeeding IS nature's own way of breast enhancement! c.f. Kelly Ripa. When Regis hired her she was pg and had a bosom. Now - not so much. I started out as a 34D as a teen. When I was nursing I was something like 38 FF and basically the only place I could get bras was Sears. I did have another problem though which was that dd#2 refused to nurse on the left breast, and 5 years later dd#3 did the same. So I was quite lopsided for awhile Yep. I went from a D to a DD. Which made bra shopping harder, for starts. Since I'm very tall, too, I need a really large back size too. At one point I thought I hit paydirt seeing the bras sold at the plus-size stores. Tons of them my nominal size. Tried them on and tried them on - got horrible fits. Problem is, *those* are made for a more rotund shape and the styles that go with that, so the straps are set wider, and the parts that go around the back are actually cut to widen quite a lot from bottom to top to fit the rolls under the arms, etc. I don't have that, and I have narrow shoulders to start with. So I'm built like my dad with wide shoulders. Shoulder width has never been a problem for me, but I also had big hips and a narrow waist (eighteen inches difference). I've never been able to buy jeans that fitted in the waist. I had deep grooves in my shoulders from bra straps. Those pads do nothing. I can't stand underwires. About 10 years ago, I decided that I would rather have my boobs sag down to my knees than wear a bra anymore. So I stopped wearing one except for places like construction sites where I didn't want to be a distraction. And the groves are mostly gone now. Unfortunately, DH watches too much "What Not to Wear" and wants me to wear a bra. He actually took me to a corsetier in D.C. to be fitted. So I do wear one sometimes to please him as I know I do look better (i.e. thinner) when I wear one. But I still would rather have boobs down to my knees. I'm not going to let my boobs hang. Unsightly *and* uncomfortable for me. I'm stuck with a couple of the most expensive brands and nabbing my size when I see it (Wacoal for some reason doesn't have my size online) and treating my bras very gently so they last. Specialty stores are few and far between, and often don't have my size either. Arrrgh. You might try sports bras - my favorite is one that was listed as an absolutely no-bounce bra for dressage riders - they were reviewed in Mike Plumb's Journal, and I bought one. It is my favorite. Sports bras are an even worse problem as the there are fewer of them and the size selection is even smaller. Plus some of the mush everything into a uniboob - OK for sports, very unattractive under clothes. Frankly, my only *sports bra* option is older regular bras. That's the end-of-life use for my everyday bras. Banty |
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In article , enigma says...
i guess their definintion of "slim" is way bigger than mine. and why are 'slim' clothes almost always 1-2" *shorter* in the inseam? thin kids are all short? Tell me about it. Likewise, until I could fit into specialty sizes of adult clothes, I was having problems with the notion that anyone who needed clothing *longer* had to be also bigger 'round. Which is part of your complaint. The other problem I had growing up is that my mom wanted to spend all the clothing dollar on Sunday clothes in the tall specialty stores, and I was to make do with pushing up sleeves, rolling up slacks to make 'capris', or adding flounces for everyday clothes. I took to the sewing machine. But there's a time limitation w.r.t. getting a whole wardrobe sewn. I even sewed jeans to get ones to fit a woman's body. Honestly. People think tall women can wear styles better, and reflect the idea that some men have that bustier must be more attractive. But clothing is *designed* for tall very very slim women, then *manufactured* for average height slim to medium and small-to-average breasted women. Plus sizes have picked up some of the remainder. But not all. Banty |
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enigma wrote:
Clisby wrote in m: Lands End appears to have some nice ones, too. Sears sometimes carries Lands End clothes, so you could check there. you could, but what you'd find is that the fall/back-to-school stuff is out & the few bathing suits left are not anyones size. the website isn't much better. why yes, i *am* complaining about the abject stupidity of marketing clothing 3-6 months in advance of the seasons. i do NOT want to buy snowsuits in July, nor bathing suits in January. i'm not looking for shorts & t-shirts in March or back-to-school in June. That's why we ended up with Speedos. I bought them at a sporting goods store that also carries athletic wear of various types. They have Speedos (and similar-type suits) year-round, and I'd rather just pay the money and save my time. Clisby i'm not completely omniscent. i don't *know* what size will fit my child 6 months from now. sure, i could buy size 8 shorts in January, but what if he doesn't hit a growth spurt until September? i've wasted that money on clothes that never fit when i need them. (that's hypothetical, BTW, because he fits perfectly well into the size 5 shorts he's been wearing for 3 years now. love those button elastic waists) which is another thing i've noticed. the less expensive clothes (store brands) all have regular elastic waists or no elastic, apparently sized to fit the standard American child, which means they fall off my kid. i bought Sears Toughskin 7 Slim black jeans for Boo to wear to a wedding, & without extensive remodeling, they are *way* too big in the waist, while barely reaching his ankles... seriously, i had to put 3/4" darts on both sides of the back waist band & 1/2" on each side of the front, which looks like crap. i guess their definintion of "slim" is way bigger than mine. and why are 'slim' clothes almost always 1-2" *shorter* in the inseam? thin kids are all short? lee |
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In article , Clisby says...
enigma wrote: Clisby wrote in m: Lands End appears to have some nice ones, too. Sears sometimes carries Lands End clothes, so you could check there. you could, but what you'd find is that the fall/back-to-school stuff is out & the few bathing suits left are not anyones size. the website isn't much better. why yes, i *am* complaining about the abject stupidity of marketing clothing 3-6 months in advance of the seasons. i do NOT want to buy snowsuits in July, nor bathing suits in January. i'm not looking for shorts & t-shirts in March or back-to-school in June. That's why we ended up with Speedos. I bought them at a sporting goods store that also carries athletic wear of various types. They have Speedos (and similar-type suits) year-round, and I'd rather just pay the money and save my time. Yep, and classic style and it lasts a long time. Good investment. BTW,the long lead time for seasonal clothes may be a bit crazy, but it does allow stuff to be picked up on sale while the weather still suits the wearing of them. I can sometimes wait for the particular catalogs which do carry tall or more well-cut clothes to post their clearance items to pick up some stuff to wear right away. Sometimes I pick up the clearance stuff that's out of season. Some things that are real basics or really in style (like white jeans in my tall size) I had better pick up at full price or they'll be GONE. The Eddie Bauer sale stuff got posted - yep, no tall white jeans in my size anymore, all snatched up already. Glad I anticipated that it would be a big item this year and having snapped it up already, but I hate that. Same thing with size 10 shoes - if they're not 8 inch heels or out of style, I'd better buy them at full price or they'll be GONE. Hate that. Banty |
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Banty wrote:
I'm not going to let my boobs hang. Unsightly *and* uncomfortable for me. Since I'm not doing anything very fast, it isn't uncomfortable for me. I wore bras 24/7 when I was having children and nursing them - a period that lasted from 1960 to 1974. The only real problem I have is that I tend to walk stooped over because my core muscles aren't strong enough to hold me upright. My sister took me to a Pilates guru in Princeton to have him analyze me, and he said that I was freezing my shoulders by walking with my hands behind my back, so I should stick my bosom out as if I had a big diamond pendant there that I wanted everyone to see (as if!!!)/ I'm stuck with a couple of the most expensive brands and nabbing my size when I see it (Wacoal for some reason doesn't have my size online) and treating my bras very gently so they last. Specialty stores are few and far between, and often don't have my size either. Arrrgh. You might try sports bras - my favorite is one that was listed as an absolutely no-bounce bra for dressage riders - they were reviewed in Mike Plumb's Journal, and I bought one. It is my favorite. Sports bras are an even worse problem as the there are fewer of them and the size selection is even smaller. Plus some of the mush everything into a uniboob - OK for sports, very unattractive under clothes. Frankly, my only *sports bra* option is older regular bras. That's the end-of-life use for my everyday bras. Since my dad was absolutely adamant that no cleavage show - not even a shadow between the breasts, I grew up having a uniboob. (And my mom and I had to severely modify bathing suits or any of the strapless evening gowns to pass his inspection. We ended up making a lot of the formal gowns.) ATM, I am one of those round people that you mention that the plus sizes are for. I wear a 42 F or 44 DDD bra, and I have to have one that hooks in front, or I can't put it on. I don't know how I used to do it. |
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"Banty" wrote in message ... In article , Rosalie B. says... Banty wrote: In article f905k.9863$Jx.5178@pd7urf1no, xkatx says... It's just a little annoying. I never considered my average C cup to be a huge set of boobs. Then after DD2 was born, fairly close after DD1, I found that my boobs got a little too big. The fact that she's still nursing, almost 19 months old now, doesn't seem to help with my upper end going to a more 'normal' and 'comfortable' size for me and what I think would go with the rest of my body. Oh well. Breastfeeding IS nature's own way of breast enhancement! c.f. Kelly Ripa. When Regis hired her she was pg and had a bosom. Now - not so much. I started out as a 34D as a teen. When I was nursing I was something like 38 FF and basically the only place I could get bras was Sears. I did have another problem though which was that dd#2 refused to nurse on the left breast, and 5 years later dd#3 did the same. So I was quite lopsided for awhile Yep. I went from a D to a DD. Which made bra shopping harder, for starts. Since I'm very tall, too, I need a really large back size too. At one point I thought I hit paydirt seeing the bras sold at the plus-size stores. Tons of them my nominal size. Tried them on and tried them on - got horrible fits. Problem is, *those* are made for a more rotund shape and the styles that go with that, so the straps are set wider, and the parts that go around the back are actually cut to widen quite a lot from bottom to top to fit the rolls under the arms, etc. I don't have that, and I have narrow shoulders to start with. So I'm built like my dad with wide shoulders. Shoulder width has never been a problem for me, but I also had big hips and a narrow waist (eighteen inches difference). I've never been able to buy jeans that fitted in the waist. I had deep grooves in my shoulders from bra straps. Those pads do nothing. I can't stand underwires. About 10 years ago, I decided that I would rather have my boobs sag down to my knees than wear a bra anymore. So I stopped wearing one except for places like construction sites where I didn't want to be a distraction. And the groves are mostly gone now. Unfortunately, DH watches too much "What Not to Wear" and wants me to wear a bra. He actually took me to a corsetier in D.C. to be fitted. So I do wear one sometimes to please him as I know I do look better (i.e. thinner) when I wear one. But I still would rather have boobs down to my knees. I'm not going to let my boobs hang. Unsightly *and* uncomfortable for me. I'm stuck with a couple of the most expensive brands and nabbing my size when I see it (Wacoal for some reason doesn't have my size online) and treating my bras very gently so they last. Specialty stores are few and far between, and often don't have my size either. Arrrgh. You might try sports bras - my favorite is one that was listed as an absolutely no-bounce bra for dressage riders - they were reviewed in Mike Plumb's Journal, and I bought one. It is my favorite. Sports bras are an even worse problem as the there are fewer of them and the size selection is even smaller. Plus some of the mush everything into a uniboob - OK for sports, very unattractive under clothes. Frankly, my only *sports bra* option is older regular bras. That's the end-of-life use for my everyday bras. Banty I've found one sports bra that I can wear and wear properly that gives me excellent support. I went to the maternity/nursing clothing store here and found an excellent sports bra for nursing moms. It wasn't so much that I needed the nursing part of the bra (DD2 still nurses, but not all the time and doesn't rely on nursing as her only, or main, source of food). I needed a proper fit after buying about 5 different sports bras that I thought fit fine when I tried them on in the store, but when I got down to actually putting them to use I had everything from popping out of the bra to the uniboob issue. When I found the nursing bra, it worked a LOT better. I don't have either problem, nor do I have major bounce. I also only use it for running and jogging, which I do 3, sometimes 4 days a week with my strollercise class. Plus I jog nightly with the girls if the weather's alright and I'm feeling up to it. When I'm not doing anything active, I wear my regular bras. I just can't feel comfortable without a bra, except while sleeping or even just bumming around the house. And I do wear nursing bras just for the support and the proper fit. I've had issues while nursing with finding a properly fitting bra that offers support. |
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"Rosalie B." wrote in message ... Banty wrote: I'm not going to let my boobs hang. Unsightly *and* uncomfortable for me. Since I'm not doing anything very fast, it isn't uncomfortable for me. I wore bras 24/7 when I was having children and nursing them - a period that lasted from 1960 to 1974. The only real problem I have is that I tend to walk stooped over because my core muscles aren't strong enough to hold me upright. My sister took me to a Pilates guru in Princeton to have him analyze me, and he said that I was freezing my shoulders by walking with my hands behind my back, so I should stick my bosom out as if I had a big diamond pendant there that I wanted everyone to see (as if!!!)/ Have you considered a breast reduction? Since my dad was absolutely adamant that no cleavage show - not even a shadow between the breasts, I grew up having a uniboob. (And my mom and I had to severely modify bathing suits or any of the strapless evening gowns to pass his inspection. We ended up making a lot of the formal gowns.) What? Why? That is so weird, having your father inspect yours and your moms breasts. ATM, I am one of those round people that you mention that the plus sizes are for. I wear a 42 F or 44 DDD bra, and I have to have one that hooks in front, or I can't put it on. I don't know how I used to do it. Hook it backwards and twist it into place! Again, you sound like a candidate for a breast reduction. I'm going to visit this lady when I have the time: http://www.thebra-lady.com/ |
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"dejablues" wrote:
"Rosalie B." wrote in message .. . Banty wrote: I'm not going to let my boobs hang. Unsightly *and* uncomfortable for me. Since I'm not doing anything very fast, it isn't uncomfortable for me. I wore bras 24/7 when I was having children and nursing them - a period that lasted from 1960 to 1974. The only real problem I have is that I tend to walk stooped over because my core muscles aren't strong enough to hold me upright. My sister took me to a Pilates guru in Princeton to have him analyze me, and he said that I was freezing my shoulders by walking with my hands behind my back, so I should stick my bosom out as if I had a big diamond pendant there that I wanted everyone to see (as if!!!)/ Have you considered a breast reduction? Yes, I've thought about it, but I want no more operations. Had too many already. Since my dad was absolutely adamant that no cleavage show - not even a shadow between the breasts, I grew up having a uniboob. (And my mom and I had to severely modify bathing suits or any of the strapless evening gowns to pass his inspection. We ended up making a lot of the formal gowns.) What? Why? That is so weird, having your father inspect yours and your moms breasts. He didn't actually inspect our breasts, just our appearance in general. Mostly when I would be dressed up to go out he would be there. He never said anything to me - I just got from my mom that he would be upset if there was cleavage. ATM, I am one of those round people that you mention that the plus sizes are for. I wear a 42 F or 44 DDD bra, and I have to have one that hooks in front, or I can't put it on. I don't know how I used to do it. Hook it backwards and twist it into place! Again, you sound like a candidate for a breast reduction. I'm going to visit this lady when I have the time: http://www.thebra-lady.com/ I don't think I ever put a bra on that way and I doubt it would be any easier because of the difficulty in getting my arms into the straps. I was taught to lean over and get the breasts into the cups first. I don't have the flexibility that I once had due to having broken 4 ribs on one side in an auto accident. And of course that wouldn't work for a long line bra like a merry widow. |
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