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Thoughts on impending loss
Hi again folks,
I have some more thoughts that I want to share, because it feels good to do so. At the same time, I feel bad about bringing everyone down... Surreal days: It's a very strange time for us now, knowing that we're losing this baby, and waiting for it to happen (either on its own, or as scheduled on Wednesday). It's especially strange (and difficult) when the baby kicks, but also dealing with all the discomforts of pregnancy. It's like, what's the point? It's one thing to take it all in stride (and waddle) when you're looking forward to a good outcome. Now, I just mostly try not to focus on my body. Love: DH and I were talking last night about how we love that baby, and how odd it is to love someone that we haven't met and won't ever get to know. But, we decided, that's what parental love is. You don't love your kids for who they are, you just love them. As you get to know them, you come to love who they are, but that's different. Names: We decided that we will name this baby. We tend to give our kids "code names" or "project names" before they are born. Silly names that we wouldn't ever seriously stick someone with, but that we can use instead of "the baby". Toby was Ebenezer before he was born. Actually, with Toby, we didn't always explain that it was a joke. Some folks were worried that we were serious. :-) This time around, the code name for a girl is nice, just not one that we think someone would want to live with. The one for a boy is silly. If this baby is a girl, she'll have the code name. If it's a boy, he'll have another name that we like but which we think is too common, with the code name as a middle name. I'll post the name when it's all over. -- Emily mom to Toby 5/1/02 #2 EDD 7/19/04 |
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