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"Tracy" wrote in message
news:0788b.320583$Oz4.109093@rwcrnsc54... "Bob Whiteside" wrote in message nk.net... So now that you decided that they are "ok" - good.. because this group has been dry for a very long time and there is no reason for it. Oh, and before I forget - here's a good one for those who enjoy soapboxes. :-p http://www.bordergatewayprotocol.net.../may02-smilepo p-soapbox4.swf Tracy ~~~~~~~ http://www.hornschuch.net/tracy/ "You can't solve problems with the same type of thinking that created them." Albert Einstein *** spamguard in place! to email me: tracy at hornschuch dot net *** |
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"Tracy" wrote in message .net... "AZ Astrea" wrote in message ... warning top-posting Drew, that was my reaction also. And in the case of those 'monks', while they may not have 'spanked' it they do have nocturnal emmissions because the URGE is natural and REQUIRES release. Sometimes the urge is deemed sick and deserves punishment - as in those whose urges are for children, or physically violent rape, plus others. Do you feel those urges require release and is natural? I don't. If you believe those sick urges can be controlled, then you should understand that everyone has the capability of controlling their own sexual urges - no matter how "un-natural" it may seem. ---------------------------- I didn't see this post until today, maybe it's my news server? That's not what I meant at all. I'm not saying a guy has to 'act' on an urge, like a ped*phile taking a child. I'm saying that no matter how hard a guy suppresses the physical urge, (not the 'act'), but the actual physical release of semen from the body, the more likely it is that when the body requires the release of that semen it will find a way to release it. It's a medical fact that various fluids, (not necessarily sperm), are excreted and build up in the body and at some point it has to be released. There is nothing remotely un-natural about this and neither is it a question of "controlling their own sexual urges". As far as the 'monks' go, since they weren't allowed to masturbate, they naturally had night-time emmissions. There was no sin in this, although apparantly, there was some shame which is why the stories of the succubus and such came to be. The succubus visits men in their sleep to have sex. The men don't awaken during this but may experience it as a dream. -------------------------------------------- Let's say you are married, or in a serious relationship and living together. You've been together for many many years. The woman is diagnosed with cancer. She has surgery and starts treatment. Her treatment leaves her feeling very sick and she is tired a lot. Do you feel it is okay for the man to find someone else to go an release his urge? Do you honestly think the man would even get horny after watching the woman he loves become sick like that? "Yeah honey while you have your head in the toilet can you lift it and take care of me?" Yeah right! ----------------------------- It wouldn't be okay for me in that situation. There was a movie I saw, can't remember the name, but there was a hooker named China Blue. At one point an elderly lady hired CB to have s*x with her dying husband. It was a very poignant scene where he tells her he has no desire for her, etc and ends with them both crying, (and me), and her comforting him,(non-sexual). ------------------------------ I know a couple who is in the early 60's. When she was in her mid-50's she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She had both breast removed. Later she went back and had more tissue removed. She went through many years of treatment, and was sicker than a dog the whole time. Her husband did not cheat on her. They didn't have sex. And yes - she shares that information. In fact one of the things she loved about the man is his sex drive. Her personal sex drive is low (to none), and he matched hers. ------------------------------- Depression, illness, of course these affect the sex drive and, I don't know, maybe even slow the production of semen. A guy may have no desire to have sex or masturbate, but at some point regardless of his desire, or lack of it, enough fluids are going to build up and require release. And I'm not saying that he is going to start thinking about sex or even remember what 'caused' a night-time emmission, it doesn't require his cooperation at all. It's just going to build up, and he may not even 'feel' it, (as in get horny), due to depression or illness, until the body must rid itself of it. ---------------------------------- As it has been said before - everyone is different. People have different sex drives and what turns them on. I personally question those who feel they need it every few days. I question if they are capable of staying within a long-term relationship (marriage or otherwise), because a large amounts of sexual activity will not always happen. ------------------------------------- Yes, everyone is different. Some people have to take a daily poop. Some people only go about once a week. Some people have to eat several small meals a day and some are good with a couple of big meals. But the one constant is that at some point everyones body has to have intake and output and seminal fluid is no different. It's not a question of what turns them on, 'needing it' or being capable of long-term relationships, it's just a medical reality. I'm glad your bf is 'happier' now! ~AZ~ Tracy ~~~~~~~ http://www.hornschuch.net/tracy/ "You can't solve problems with the same type of thinking that created them." Albert Einstein *** spamguard in place! to email me: tracy at hornschuch dot net *** |
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"Tracy" wrote in message .net... "AZ Astrea" wrote in message ... warning top-posting Drew, that was my reaction also. And in the case of those 'monks', while they may not have 'spanked' it they do have nocturnal emmissions because the URGE is natural and REQUIRES release. Sometimes the urge is deemed sick and deserves punishment - as in those whose urges are for children, or physically violent rape, plus others. Do you feel those urges require release and is natural? I don't. If you believe those sick urges can be controlled, then you should understand that everyone has the capability of controlling their own sexual urges - no matter how "un-natural" it may seem. ---------------------------- I didn't see this post until today, maybe it's my news server? That's not what I meant at all. I'm not saying a guy has to 'act' on an urge, like a ped*phile taking a child. I'm saying that no matter how hard a guy suppresses the physical urge, (not the 'act'), but the actual physical release of semen from the body, the more likely it is that when the body requires the release of that semen it will find a way to release it. It's a medical fact that various fluids, (not necessarily sperm), are excreted and build up in the body and at some point it has to be released. There is nothing remotely un-natural about this and neither is it a question of "controlling their own sexual urges". As far as the 'monks' go, since they weren't allowed to masturbate, they naturally had night-time emmissions. There was no sin in this, although apparantly, there was some shame which is why the stories of the succubus and such came to be. The succubus visits men in their sleep to have sex. The men don't awaken during this but may experience it as a dream. -------------------------------------------- Let's say you are married, or in a serious relationship and living together. You've been together for many many years. The woman is diagnosed with cancer. She has surgery and starts treatment. Her treatment leaves her feeling very sick and she is tired a lot. Do you feel it is okay for the man to find someone else to go an release his urge? Do you honestly think the man would even get horny after watching the woman he loves become sick like that? "Yeah honey while you have your head in the toilet can you lift it and take care of me?" Yeah right! ----------------------------- It wouldn't be okay for me in that situation. There was a movie I saw, can't remember the name, but there was a hooker named China Blue. At one point an elderly lady hired CB to have s*x with her dying husband. It was a very poignant scene where he tells her he has no desire for her, etc and ends with them both crying, (and me), and her comforting him,(non-sexual). ------------------------------ I know a couple who is in the early 60's. When she was in her mid-50's she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She had both breast removed. Later she went back and had more tissue removed. She went through many years of treatment, and was sicker than a dog the whole time. Her husband did not cheat on her. They didn't have sex. And yes - she shares that information. In fact one of the things she loved about the man is his sex drive. Her personal sex drive is low (to none), and he matched hers. ------------------------------- Depression, illness, of course these affect the sex drive and, I don't know, maybe even slow the production of semen. A guy may have no desire to have sex or masturbate, but at some point regardless of his desire, or lack of it, enough fluids are going to build up and require release. And I'm not saying that he is going to start thinking about sex or even remember what 'caused' a night-time emmission, it doesn't require his cooperation at all. It's just going to build up, and he may not even 'feel' it, (as in get horny), due to depression or illness, until the body must rid itself of it. ---------------------------------- As it has been said before - everyone is different. People have different sex drives and what turns them on. I personally question those who feel they need it every few days. I question if they are capable of staying within a long-term relationship (marriage or otherwise), because a large amounts of sexual activity will not always happen. ------------------------------------- Yes, everyone is different. Some people have to take a daily poop. Some people only go about once a week. Some people have to eat several small meals a day and some are good with a couple of big meals. But the one constant is that at some point everyones body has to have intake and output and seminal fluid is no different. It's not a question of what turns them on, 'needing it' or being capable of long-term relationships, it's just a medical reality. I'm glad your bf is 'happier' now! ~AZ~ Tracy ~~~~~~~ http://www.hornschuch.net/tracy/ "You can't solve problems with the same type of thinking that created them." Albert Einstein *** spamguard in place! to email me: tracy at hornschuch dot net *** |
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"Tracy" wrote in message .net... "AZ Astrea" wrote in message ... warning top-posting Drew, that was my reaction also. And in the case of those 'monks', while they may not have 'spanked' it they do have nocturnal emmissions because the URGE is natural and REQUIRES release. Sometimes the urge is deemed sick and deserves punishment - as in those whose urges are for children, or physically violent rape, plus others. Do you feel those urges require release and is natural? I don't. If you believe those sick urges can be controlled, then you should understand that everyone has the capability of controlling their own sexual urges - no matter how "un-natural" it may seem. ---------------------------- I didn't see this post until today, maybe it's my news server? That's not what I meant at all. I'm not saying a guy has to 'act' on an urge, like a ped*phile taking a child. I'm saying that no matter how hard a guy suppresses the physical urge, (not the 'act'), but the actual physical release of semen from the body, the more likely it is that when the body requires the release of that semen it will find a way to release it. It's a medical fact that various fluids, (not necessarily sperm), are excreted and build up in the body and at some point it has to be released. There is nothing remotely un-natural about this and neither is it a question of "controlling their own sexual urges". As far as the 'monks' go, since they weren't allowed to masturbate, they naturally had night-time emmissions. There was no sin in this, although apparantly, there was some shame which is why the stories of the succubus and such came to be. The succubus visits men in their sleep to have sex. The men don't awaken during this but may experience it as a dream. -------------------------------------------- Let's say you are married, or in a serious relationship and living together. You've been together for many many years. The woman is diagnosed with cancer. She has surgery and starts treatment. Her treatment leaves her feeling very sick and she is tired a lot. Do you feel it is okay for the man to find someone else to go an release his urge? Do you honestly think the man would even get horny after watching the woman he loves become sick like that? "Yeah honey while you have your head in the toilet can you lift it and take care of me?" Yeah right! ----------------------------- It wouldn't be okay for me in that situation. There was a movie I saw, can't remember the name, but there was a hooker named China Blue. At one point an elderly lady hired CB to have s*x with her dying husband. It was a very poignant scene where he tells her he has no desire for her, etc and ends with them both crying, (and me), and her comforting him,(non-sexual). ------------------------------ I know a couple who is in the early 60's. When she was in her mid-50's she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She had both breast removed. Later she went back and had more tissue removed. She went through many years of treatment, and was sicker than a dog the whole time. Her husband did not cheat on her. They didn't have sex. And yes - she shares that information. In fact one of the things she loved about the man is his sex drive. Her personal sex drive is low (to none), and he matched hers. ------------------------------- Depression, illness, of course these affect the sex drive and, I don't know, maybe even slow the production of semen. A guy may have no desire to have sex or masturbate, but at some point regardless of his desire, or lack of it, enough fluids are going to build up and require release. And I'm not saying that he is going to start thinking about sex or even remember what 'caused' a night-time emmission, it doesn't require his cooperation at all. It's just going to build up, and he may not even 'feel' it, (as in get horny), due to depression or illness, until the body must rid itself of it. ---------------------------------- As it has been said before - everyone is different. People have different sex drives and what turns them on. I personally question those who feel they need it every few days. I question if they are capable of staying within a long-term relationship (marriage or otherwise), because a large amounts of sexual activity will not always happen. ------------------------------------- Yes, everyone is different. Some people have to take a daily poop. Some people only go about once a week. Some people have to eat several small meals a day and some are good with a couple of big meals. But the one constant is that at some point everyones body has to have intake and output and seminal fluid is no different. It's not a question of what turns them on, 'needing it' or being capable of long-term relationships, it's just a medical reality. I'm glad your bf is 'happier' now! ~AZ~ Tracy ~~~~~~~ http://www.hornschuch.net/tracy/ "You can't solve problems with the same type of thinking that created them." Albert Einstein *** spamguard in place! to email me: tracy at hornschuch dot net *** |
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