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I must be the worst mother on MKP
Everyone here is so perfect! It seems you all wear your babies constantly,
co-sleep with them when you aren't wearing them, rock them for hours on end while they scream, and manage all this even with a dozen other children besides and a successful career. Those of you who don't have a career cook, bake, make your own clothes, baby products, and are basically Martha Stewart minus the criminal record. Still others of you are _always right_ or at least have an annoying way of posting which makes it appear that way to everyone who reads you, myself included. Do you ever get hormonal, overtired? What is your breaking point? Do you have one? I don't wear DD. She amuses herself a lot under a playgym. In fact, I don't even think she likes me because she cries and struggles when I pick her up sometimes. She cries herself to sleep a lot, in her own room. I tell her off when she bites me. She has cat hair in her nappy, and sometimes in her mouth. She doesn't get enough tummy-time, so she's starting to crawl upside down. She would rather watch TV, at three & a half months, than look at us. I can't/won't cook nor bake - the other mothers at my coffee group thought my scones were biscuits. I don't do sewing either. Actually, I don't do much of anything. I am frequently hormonal and irrational, and constantly contradict myself. I don't make a lot of sense most of the time, even to me. At least she's breast-fed and side-slept, so she'll have a good immune system and a nice shaped head when she starts therapy. -- Amy, Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02, & Ana born screaming 30/06/04 email: barton . souto @ clear . net . nz (join the dots!) |
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"Mum of Two" wrote in message ... Everyone here is so perfect! It seems you all wear your babies constantly, co-sleep with them when you aren't wearing them, rock them for hours on end while they scream, and manage all this even with a dozen other children besides and a successful career. Those of you who don't have a career cook, bake, make your own clothes, baby products, and are basically Martha Stewart minus the criminal record. Still others of you are _always right_ or at least have an annoying way of posting which makes it appear that way to everyone who reads you, myself included. Do you ever get hormonal, overtired? What is your breaking point? Do you have one? I know how you feel.. Honnestly! My breaking point is about 1/3 on an inch these days. I am a horrible house keeper and I dont make anything myself. I must admit I can cook anything in a box though I usualy dont Well other then normal every day meals. I did not wear my daughter and dont really plan to wear the next one unless he NEEDS to be worn. I would do almost anything to make him not be a screamer like Bonnie was Though as I have said the solution to that was to put her down.. I cant even claim the breastfeeding thing but to date Bonnie also has a perfectly shaped head to carry to therapy when she gets older Tori -- Bonnie 3/20/02 Xavier Hanging in by a rib Due 10/??/04 |
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"Mum of Two" wrote in message ... Everyone here is so perfect! It seems you all wear your babies constantly, co-sleep with them when you aren't wearing them, rock them for hours on end while they scream, and manage all this even with a dozen other children besides and a successful career. Those of you who don't have a career cook, bake, make your own clothes, baby products, and are basically Martha Stewart minus the criminal record. Still others of you are _always right_ or at least have an annoying way of posting which makes it appear that way to everyone who reads you, myself included. Do you ever get hormonal, overtired? What is your breaking point? Do you have one? I don't wear DD. She amuses herself a lot under a playgym. In fact, I don't even think she likes me because she cries and struggles when I pick her up sometimes. She cries herself to sleep a lot, in her own room. I tell her off when she bites me. She has cat hair in her nappy, and sometimes in her mouth. She doesn't get enough tummy-time, so she's starting to crawl upside down. She would rather watch TV, at three & a half months, than look at us. I can't/won't cook nor bake - the other mothers at my coffee group thought my scones were biscuits. I don't do sewing either. Actually, I don't do much of anything. I am frequently hormonal and irrational, and constantly contradict myself. I don't make a lot of sense most of the time, even to me. At least she's breast-fed and side-slept, so she'll have a good immune system and a nice shaped head when she starts therapy. No one is perfect! And just because a person co-sleeps and wears their baby all the time does not make them a better parent than someone who doesn't. All babies are different and have different needs. It sounds to me like you have a baby that is a bit more independent than most. I had one of those babies. From day one I could put her down in her bassinet (no I didn't cosleep, but she slept beside our bed for 9 months) and she would lay there quietly until she went to sleep and at 17 months I can still put her down awake and she will fall asleep by herself. My daughter never cried unless she was hungry (not even for a wet diaper) and never really needed to be held constantly. I did carry her around in her baby bjorn when she was really young and we went for walks, but she went in her stroller at times too. She is now 17 months and I'm 5 months pregnant so there is no way I carry her anymore. Every baby and mom is different. I'm sure you are a wonderful mother. Nadene |
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Mum of Two writes:
: Everyone here is so perfect! Damn right! : It seems you all wear your babies constantly, : co-sleep with them when you aren't wearing them, rock them for hours on end : while they scream, and manage all this even with a dozen other children : besides and a successful career. Oh, for a minute there, I though you were talking about me. And, uh, they don't scream. After all they're perfect, too! : Those of you who don't have a career cook, : bake, make your own clothes, baby products, and are basically Martha Stewart : minus the criminal record. Gag! : Still others of you are _always right_ or at : least have an annoying way of posting which makes it appear that way to : everyone who reads you, myself included. So you ARE talking about me after all! : Do you ever get hormonal, : overtired? What is your breaking point? Do you have one? So you know me personally, too. BTDT. There right now. : I don't wear DD. She amuses herself a lot under a playgym. In fact, I don't : even think she likes me because she cries and struggles when I pick her up : sometimes. She cries herself to sleep a lot, in her own room. I tell her off : when she bites me. She has cat hair in her nappy, and sometimes in her : mouth. She doesn't get enough tummy-time, so she's starting to crawl upside : down. She would rather watch TV, at three & a half months, than look at us. And why are you telling us this? At least she's a fast learner. : I can't/won't cook nor bake - the other mothers at my coffee group thought : my scones were biscuits. I don't do sewing either. Actually, I don't do much : of anything. I am frequently hormonal and irrational, and constantly : contradict myself. I don't make a lot of sense most of the time, even to me. Look at the bright side, at least you are consistent! : At least she's breast-fed and side-slept, so she'll have a good immune : system and a nice shaped head when she starts therapy. If this were mkb, I would say you added this last bit just so that your post would be on topic. Since it is not, I'm termnially confused. : -- : Amy, : Mum to Carlos born sleeping 20/11/02, : & Ana born screaming 30/06/04 : email: barton . souto @ clear . net . nz (join the dots!) Ya' know. You Kiwi's have a really strange sense of humor. Scratching head, Larry |
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"Mum of Two" wrote in message ... Everyone here is so perfect! It seems you all wear your babies constantly, co-sleep with them when you aren't wearing them, rock them for hours on end while they scream, and manage all this even with a dozen other children besides and a successful career. Those of you who don't have a career cook, bake, make your own clothes, baby products, and are basically Martha Stewart minus the criminal record. Still others of you are _always right_ or at least have an annoying way of posting which makes it appear that way to everyone who reads you, myself included. Do you ever get hormonal, overtired? What is your breaking point? Do you have one? People comment to me on what a gentle, considerate, even-tempered mother I am. People do not see me totally losing my temper and snarling at children at 8pm when I Just Can't Take It Anymore. People tell me what bright, outgoing children I have, and boggle at how I juggle them all, and cooking, and sewing, and homeschooling. People do not see how many hours of television a day my children watch. People do not see my living room floor, which has not been vacuumed in quite possibly 2 weeks. In fact, if someone came here, they *could* not see my living room floor, because it's too cluttered. People do see the dresses I have sewn (for $10), and compliment them. Those would of course also compliment similar dresses that cost $45 in a catalogue. But I can't afford them. My daughters like wearing dresses. Shrug. I cook. Cooking from scratch for a family of 6 costs a heck of a lot less than pre-prepared meals. This is a matter of frugality and financial survival, not perfection. I cannot wear my baby. Every time I try, I wind up at the chiropractor's office for a few hundred dollars' worth of bills not covered by insurance. I co-sleep with my youngest out of desperation for sleep.... Why, exactly, do you call such things perfection? Is it your idea of perfection? It isn't mine. It's just survival the best I know how. --angela |
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Chotii wrote:
Why, exactly, do you call such things perfection? Is it your idea of perfection? It isn't mine. It's just survival the best I know how. Amen to that. Phoebe -- yahoo address is unread; substitute mailbolt |
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Chotii wrote:
People do not see my living room floor, which has not been vacuumed in quite possibly 2 weeks. That's it? 2 weeks? Try a few months here... (Oops, maybe I should not have admitted that!) -- Anita -- |
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"Mum of Two" wrote in message ... Everyone here is so perfect! It seems you all wear your babies constantly, co-sleep with them when you aren't wearing them, rock them for hours on end while they scream, and manage all this even with a dozen other children besides and a successful career Add me to the crappy mother's club You do what makes your family happy, that's what makes you a good mommy. Denise |
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On Thu, 21 Oct 2004 02:04:23 GMT, "Chotii"
wrote: People comment to me on what a gentle, considerate, even-tempered mother I am. People do not see me totally losing my temper and snarling at children at 8pm when I Just Can't Take It Anymore. People tell me what bright, outgoing children I have, and boggle at how I juggle them all, and cooking, and sewing, and homeschooling. Ok I do not sew...and I feel so haggled much of the time. I always looked at other homeschooling mothers and wondered how in the world they have it all together...PLUS sewing and some actually have spotless homes (which to be honest is not that important to me but sometimes I wish I were better at it) So I join this homeschooling moms group and realize they are all haggled and tired, they just cover it really well ) I really enjoyed reading your post. I really understand. Except for the sewing... Marie |
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On Thu, 21 Oct 2004 03:55:45 GMT, Irrational Number
scribbled: Chotii wrote: People do not see my living room floor, which has not been vacuumed in quite possibly 2 weeks. That's it? 2 weeks? Try a few months here... (Oops, maybe I should not have admitted that!) -- Anita -- Hehe, you ladies are making me feel better about *my* floor ;-) Nan |
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