Working??? A rant... Sorry.

"Moon Shyne" wrote in message
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Ok - HOWEVER, it seems to me that I was more than a little concerned when
you first announced your pregnancy on this newsgroup, and there were
issues with N. back then - so now, you've gone through the 9 months of
pregnancy, you have your daughter now, and the problems in your
relationship are worse, from the sounds of it, not better.

Pretend you're your own best friend, and then re-read your posts from the
beginning of the pregnancy, and then the one to which I had responded -
and then give your best friend (that's you, btw) some advice.


I don't think she wants our advice, or our help, she wants to be able to
vent and to hear some awwww poor Kat, that's horrible. Sorry, but it ain't
happening from me. You made a choice to have a baby with this man when you
knew he was like this. Can you honestly say you thought bringing a child
into this relationship was going to make it better? That he miraculously
was going to change and be a man? Have you not learned from any of our
experiences over the last few years??? No, apparently not and I shake my
head. Seeing you go through this makes me so angry because I thought you
were smarter than this.

Christine

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"Moon Shyne" wrote in message
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Pretend you're your own best friend, and then re-read your posts from the
beginning of the pregnancy, and then the one to which I had responded -
and then give your best friend (that's you, btw) some advice.


I don't think she wants our advice, or our help, she wants to be able to
vent and to hear some awwww poor Kat, that's horrible. Sorry, but it
ain't happening from me. You made a choice to have a baby with this man
when you knew he was like this. Can you honestly say you thought bringing
a child into this relationship was going to make it better? That he
miraculously was going to change and be a man? Have you not learned from
any of our experiences over the last few years??? No, apparently not and
I shake my head. Seeing you go through this makes me so angry because I
thought you were smarter than this.

Christine


OOOOOooooooo.... NOW YER IN TRUBBBBBBBBBBBLE!

"CME" wrote in message
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"Moon Shyne" wrote in message
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Ok - HOWEVER, it seems to me that I was more than a little concerned when
you first announced your pregnancy on this newsgroup, and there were
issues with N. back then - so now, you've gone through the 9 months of
pregnancy, you have your daughter now, and the problems in your
relationship are worse, from the sounds of it, not better.

Pretend you're your own best friend, and then re-read your posts from the
beginning of the pregnancy, and then the one to which I had responded -
and then give your best friend (that's you, btw) some advice.


I don't think she wants our advice, or our help, she wants to be able to
vent and to hear some awwww poor Kat, that's horrible. Sorry, but it
ain't happening from me. You made a choice to have a baby with this man
when you knew he was like this. Can you honestly say you thought bringing
a child into this relationship was going to make it better? That he
miraculously was going to change and be a man? Have you not learned from
any of our experiences over the last few years??? No, apparently not and
I shake my head. Seeing you go through this makes me so angry because I
thought you were smarter than this.

Christine


I hear what you say but oddly, I have a friend who got pregnant and the
father (they were unmarried, he had no kids, didn't want em) was asking her
to get an abortion. Well, she said hell no, they almost broke up but he
didn't really go away. Once that baby was born, he was happy as a pig in
****. To this day, they are together and he is a good father. I am sure he
has his moments, but don't we all?

I think the big difference is that they are adults...... 30-40 yr olds. He
is more mature and knows to take care of his responsibilities. We were all
very happy to see the change in him.

T

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"CME" wrote in message
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"Moon Shyne" wrote in message
...

Ok - HOWEVER, it seems to me that I was more than a little concerned
when you first announced your pregnancy on this newsgroup, and there
were issues with N. back then - so now, you've gone through the 9 months
of pregnancy, you have your daughter now, and the problems in your
relationship are worse, from the sounds of it, not better.

Pretend you're your own best friend, and then re-read your posts from
the beginning of the pregnancy, and then the one to which I had
responded - and then give your best friend (that's you, btw) some
advice.


I don't think she wants our advice, or our help, she wants to be able to
vent and to hear some awwww poor Kat, that's horrible. Sorry, but it
ain't happening from me. You made a choice to have a baby with this man
when you knew he was like this. Can you honestly say you thought
bringing a child into this relationship was going to make it better?
That he miraculously was going to change and be a man? Have you not
learned from any of our experiences over the last few years??? No,
apparently not and I shake my head. Seeing you go through this makes me
so angry because I thought you were smarter than this.

Christine


I hear what you say but oddly, I have a friend who got pregnant and the
father (they were unmarried, he had no kids, didn't want em) was asking
her to get an abortion. Well, she said hell no, they almost broke up but
he didn't really go away. Once that baby was born, he was happy as a pig
in ****. To this day, they are together and he is a good father. I am sure
he has his moments, but don't we all?

I think the big difference is that they are adults...... 30-40 yr olds. He
is more mature and knows to take care of his responsibilities. We were all
very happy to see the change in him.

T

I hear what you're saying, I just don't have much respect for women that
have 4 different children from 4 different fathers. It's like they lack the
ability to learn from their mistakes. If and when I choose to have more
children, I will get married, and be with that person for 2-3 YEARS before I
bring another child into this world. My biggest fear is becoming a single
parent AGAIN so I don't care how much I may love someone, I will love that
baby more than subject it to another loser in my lifetime.

Christine

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"CME" wrote in message
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"Moon Shyne" wrote in message
...

Ok - HOWEVER, it seems to me that I was more than a little concerned
when you first announced your pregnancy on this newsgroup, and there
were issues with N. back then - so now, you've gone through the 9
months of pregnancy, you have your daughter now, and the problems in
your relationship are worse, from the sounds of it, not better.

Pretend you're your own best friend, and then re-read your posts from
the beginning of the pregnancy, and then the one to which I had
responded - and then give your best friend (that's you, btw) some
advice.


I don't think she wants our advice, or our help, she wants to be able to
vent and to hear some awwww poor Kat, that's horrible. Sorry, but it
ain't happening from me. You made a choice to have a baby with this man
when you knew he was like this. Can you honestly say you thought
bringing a child into this relationship was going to make it better?
That he miraculously was going to change and be a man? Have you not
learned from any of our experiences over the last few years??? No,
apparently not and I shake my head. Seeing you go through this makes me
so angry because I thought you were smarter than this.

Christine


I hear what you say but oddly, I have a friend who got pregnant and the
father (they were unmarried, he had no kids, didn't want em) was asking
her to get an abortion. Well, she said hell no, they almost broke up but
he didn't really go away. Once that baby was born, he was happy as a pig
in ****. To this day, they are together and he is a good father. I am
sure he has his moments, but don't we all?

I think the big difference is that they are adults...... 30-40 yr olds.
He is more mature and knows to take care of his responsibilities. We were
all very happy to see the change in him.

T

I hear what you're saying, I just don't have much respect for women that
have 4 different children from 4 different fathers. It's like they lack
the ability to learn from their mistakes. If and when I choose to have
more children, I will get married, and be with that person for 2-3 YEARS
before I bring another child into this world. My biggest fear is becoming
a single parent AGAIN so I don't care how much I may love someone, I will
love that baby more than subject it to another loser in my lifetime.

Christine


I just decided to not have any more kids... then I don't have to worry about
doing it alone again! Plus as it stands now, I practice absenence so I don't
even have to worry about that 1% chance of getting knocked up. lol

T

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"Moon Shyne" wrote in message
...

Ok - HOWEVER, it seems to me that I was more than a little concerned
when you first announced your pregnancy on this newsgroup, and there
were issues with N. back then - so now, you've gone through the 9
months of pregnancy, you have your daughter now, and the problems in
your relationship are worse, from the sounds of it, not better.

Pretend you're your own best friend, and then re-read your posts
from
the beginning of the pregnancy, and then the one to which I had
responded - and then give your best friend (that's you, btw) some
advice.


I don't think she wants our advice, or our help, she wants to be able
to
vent and to hear some awwww poor Kat, that's horrible. Sorry, but it
ain't happening from me. You made a choice to have a baby with this
man
when you knew he was like this. Can you honestly say you thought
bringing a child into this relationship was going to make it better?
That he miraculously was going to change and be a man? Have you not
learned from any of our experiences over the last few years??? No,
apparently not and I shake my head. Seeing you go through this makes
me
so angry because I thought you were smarter than this.

Christine


I hear what you say but oddly, I have a friend who got pregnant and
the
father (they were unmarried, he had no kids, didn't want em) was
asking
her to get an abortion. Well, she said hell no, they almost broke up
but
he didn't really go away. Once that baby was born, he was happy as a
pig
in ****. To this day, they are together and he is a good father. I am
sure he has his moments, but don't we all?

I think the big difference is that they are adults...... 30-40 yr
olds.
He is more mature and knows to take care of his responsibilities. We
were
all very happy to see the change in him.

T

I hear what you're saying, I just don't have much respect for women
that
have 4 different children from 4 different fathers. It's like they
lack
the ability to learn from their mistakes. If and when I choose to have
more children, I will get married, and be with that person for 2-3
YEARS
before I bring another child into this world. My biggest fear is
becoming
a single parent AGAIN so I don't care how much I may love someone, I
will
love that baby more than subject it to another loser in my lifetime.

Christine


I just decided to not have any more kids... then I don't have to worry
about
doing it alone again! Plus as it stands now, I practice absenence so I
don't
even have to worry about that 1% chance of getting knocked up. lol

T



You have to "practice" it???????


Sorry......couldn't resist :-)

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"Moon Shyne" wrote in message
...

Ok - HOWEVER, it seems to me that I was more than a little
concerned
when you first announced your pregnancy on this newsgroup, and
there
were issues with N. back then - so now, you've gone through the 9
months of pregnancy, you have your daughter now, and the problems
in
your relationship are worse, from the sounds of it, not better.

Pretend you're your own best friend, and then re-read your posts
from
the beginning of the pregnancy, and then the one to which I had
responded - and then give your best friend (that's you, btw) some
advice.


I don't think she wants our advice, or our help, she wants to be
able to
vent and to hear some awwww poor Kat, that's horrible. Sorry, but
it
ain't happening from me. You made a choice to have a baby with this
man
when you knew he was like this. Can you honestly say you thought
bringing a child into this relationship was going to make it better?
That he miraculously was going to change and be a man? Have you not
learned from any of our experiences over the last few years??? No,
apparently not and I shake my head. Seeing you go through this
makes me
so angry because I thought you were smarter than this.

Christine


I hear what you say but oddly, I have a friend who got pregnant and
the
father (they were unmarried, he had no kids, didn't want em) was
asking
her to get an abortion. Well, she said hell no, they almost broke up
but
he didn't really go away. Once that baby was born, he was happy as a
pig
in ****. To this day, they are together and he is a good father. I am
sure he has his moments, but don't we all?

I think the big difference is that they are adults...... 30-40 yr
olds.
He is more mature and knows to take care of his responsibilities. We
were
all very happy to see the change in him.

T

I hear what you're saying, I just don't have much respect for women
that
have 4 different children from 4 different fathers. It's like they
lack
the ability to learn from their mistakes. If and when I choose to
have
more children, I will get married, and be with that person for 2-3
YEARS
before I bring another child into this world. My biggest fear is
becoming
a single parent AGAIN so I don't care how much I may love someone, I
will
love that baby more than subject it to another loser in my lifetime.

Christine


I just decided to not have any more kids... then I don't have to worry
about
doing it alone again! Plus as it stands now, I practice absenence so I
don't
even have to worry about that 1% chance of getting knocked up. lol

T



You have to "practice" it???????


Sorry......couldn't resist :-)




lol.... I have gotten pretty good. No practice involved. But one day I will
have to practice no abstinence. lol

T