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  #11  
Old November 22nd 07, 04:57 AM posted to alt.child-support
teachrmama
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"Chris" wrote in message
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[Any man that's good enough to support a child is good enough to have
custody of such child]
"Gini" wrote in message
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"Chris" wrote
"Rob" wrote

...........................

Some women really just irk me, well and to be fair...lol some men are
just
as bad if not worse! (I see it go both ways - people just need to
grow
up
and take care of their children and not just walk away!) I could
never
walk
away from my children for any reason, even if I find out they are not
mine
biologically they are mine in heart.



I will post later tonight as to what happened in court today.

Robert

So tell me, how does it feel getting FREE money from someone else?

==
$230. a month is fair and reasonable,


and FREE!


The NCP could save the $230 by living in the area and parenting their own
children 50% of the time, Chris.

Chris.







  #12  
Old November 22nd 07, 05:15 AM posted to alt.child-support
Sarah Gray
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teachrmama wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote in message
et...
Chris wrote:
Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap
positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are
RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim
that they are being "FAIR".


Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their children.
As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to
spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead
will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make an
eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up later
in the week.
She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is here,
just spend a few hours after school


Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and ditching
school) or going to school and having limited time with dad? chuckle
(tongue in cheek)



I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been
looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and
"letters" she insisted she had to give him in person.

--

Sarah Gray
  #13  
Old November 22nd 07, 05:49 AM posted to alt.child-support
Gini
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"Sarah Gray" wrote
teachrmama wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote
Chris wrote:
Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap
positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are
RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim
that they are being "FAIR".


Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their
children.
As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to
spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead
will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make
an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up
later in the week.
She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is
here, just spend a few hours after school


Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and
ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad?
chuckle (tongue in cheek)


I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been
looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters"
she insisted she had to give him in person.

==
Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his
butt in gear.
Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I
had to prompt my ex when we
lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time.
No different after the split.



  #14  
Old November 22nd 07, 06:13 AM posted to alt.child-support
teachrmama
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"Gini" wrote in message
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"Sarah Gray" wrote
teachrmama wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote
Chris wrote:
Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap
positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are
RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly
proclaim
that they are being "FAIR".


Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their
children.
As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to
spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead
will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make
an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up
later in the week.
She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is
here, just spend a few hours after school

Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and
ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad?
chuckle (tongue in cheek)


I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been
looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and
"letters" she insisted she had to give him in person.

==
Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his
butt in gear.
Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I
had to prompt my ex when we
lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time.


I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact they
have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My husband is
such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he commented
that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his alcoholic
relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him that they
were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed to act. It
was his alcoholic relatives that were acting inapproporiately. chuckle


  #15  
Old November 22nd 07, 06:35 AM posted to alt.child-support
Sarah Gray
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Gini wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote
teachrmama wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote
Chris wrote:
Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap
positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are
RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly proclaim
that they are being "FAIR".


Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their
children.
As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to
spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead
will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make
an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up
later in the week.
She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is
here, just spend a few hours after school
Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and
ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad?
chuckle (tongue in cheek)

I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been
looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and "letters"
she insisted she had to give him in person.

==
Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his
butt in gear.
Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I
had to prompt my ex when we
lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time.
No different after the split.


I told him. He is upset that I have not mailed anything, but she has
been insistent on saving stuff to give to him in person. The thing is,
he insists that he wants to be this great dad, and that it's killing him
that he "had" to move. But it's not as if there is a shortage of $9 an
hour jobs here. And, frankly, if I were in his position, I would have
already been doing what I could to have visited her a number of times
already. I suggested renting a car and said that I would help with gas,
and he came up with the above response (he doesn't have a car of his own).


--

Sarah Gray
  #16  
Old November 22nd 07, 06:36 AM posted to alt.child-support
Sarah Gray
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Posts: 251
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teachrmama wrote:
"Gini" wrote in message
news:1T71j.1741$281.117@trndny06...
"Sarah Gray" wrote
teachrmama wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote
Chris wrote:
Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap
positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are
RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly
proclaim
that they are being "FAIR".


Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their
children.
As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up to
spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but instead
will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for him to make
an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad is driving up
later in the week.
She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is
here, just spend a few hours after school
Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and
ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad?
chuckle (tongue in cheek)
I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been
looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and
"letters" she insisted she had to give him in person.

==
Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get his
butt in gear.
Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I
had to prompt my ex when we
lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to time.


I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact they
have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My husband is
such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he commented
that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his alcoholic
relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him that they
were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed to act. It
was his alcoholic relatives that were acting inapproporiately. chuckle



I think the term my ex used (and I appropriated) was "monkey on crack".

It's so true, though...kids are crazy

--

Sarah Gray
  #17  
Old November 22nd 07, 06:37 AM posted to alt.child-support
Gini
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"teachrmama" wrote

"Gini" wrote
"Sarah Gray" wrote

.......................................

I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been
looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and
"letters" she insisted she had to give him in person.

==
Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get
his butt in gear.
Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I
had to prompt my ex when we
lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to
time.


I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact
they have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My
husband is such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he
commented that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his
alcoholic relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him
that they were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed
to act. It was his alcoholic relatives that were acting inapproporiately.
chuckle

===
Hehe--they can be pretty dense, eh? I remember my middle son sitting on the
hood of our car with his suitcase waiting for his dad to arrive. After a
while I called his dad
and told him to get moving. It just didn't occur to him while he was sipping
his third cup of
coffee that the boy was sitting in the driveway waiting...waiting....(Now,
if that were Moon, she
would have been typing a letter to her ex [cc the court, of course] that
the court had not authorized a change
in the visitation schedule and that 24 hour's written notice was required
for such change.)


  #18  
Old November 22nd 07, 06:46 AM posted to alt.child-support
teachrmama
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"Sarah Gray" wrote in message
...
teachrmama wrote:
"Gini" wrote in message
news:1T71j.1741$281.117@trndny06...
"Sarah Gray" wrote
teachrmama wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote
Chris wrote:
Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap
positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are
RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly
proclaim
that they are being "FAIR".


Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their
children.
As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up
to spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but
instead will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for
him to make an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad
is driving up later in the week.
She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is
here, just spend a few hours after school
Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and
ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad?
chuckle (tongue in cheek)
I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been
looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and
"letters" she insisted she had to give him in person.
==
Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get
his butt in gear.
Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids.
I had to prompt my ex when we
lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to
time.


I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact
they have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My
husband is such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he
commented that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his
alcoholic relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him
that they were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed
to act. It was his alcoholic relatives that were acting
inapproporiately. chuckle



I think the term my ex used (and I appropriated) was "monkey on crack".

It's so true, though...kids are crazy


chuckle That can certainly describe it at times.


  #19  
Old November 22nd 07, 06:48 AM posted to alt.child-support
teachrmama
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"Gini" wrote in message
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"teachrmama" wrote

"Gini" wrote
"Sarah Gray" wrote

......................................

I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been
looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and
"letters" she insisted she had to give him in person.
==
Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get
his butt in gear.
Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids.
I had to prompt my ex when we
lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to
time.


I have to agree. Sometimes they just don't understand the major impact
they have. And I'm not sayig this in any sort of negative way. My
husband is such a solution-finder. When our daughters were very young he
commented that they were acting the same way he had seen some of his
alcoholic relatives act, and he was concerned. I had to point out to him
that they were acting exactly as 1-1/2 and 2-1/2 year olds were supposed
to act. It was his alcoholic relatives that were acting
inapproporiately. chuckle

===
Hehe--they can be pretty dense, eh? I remember my middle son sitting on
the
hood of our car with his suitcase waiting for his dad to arrive. After a
while I called his dad
and told him to get moving. It just didn't occur to him while he was
sipping his third cup of
coffee that the boy was sitting in the driveway waiting...waiting....(Now,
if that were Moon, she
would have been typing a letter to her ex [cc the court, of course] that
the court had not authorized a change
in the visitation schedule and that 24 hour's written notice was required
for such change.)


Yep, I'm sure she would have. But that path has not led her to where she
wanted to go, has it?


  #20  
Old November 22nd 07, 06:50 AM posted to alt.child-support
teachrmama
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Posts: 1,905
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"Sarah Gray" wrote in message
...
Gini wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote
teachrmama wrote:
"Sarah Gray" wrote
Chris wrote:
Indeed! There exists not a SINGLE CP (mother) who is willing to swap
positions with the NCP (father). Why? Because they know that they are
RIPPING OFF the NCP. That's why! Yet they continue to foolishly
proclaim
that they are being "FAIR".


Maybe some of these CP's actually enjoy spending time with their
children.
As opposed to my ex, who told me today that he will not be coming up
to spend a few days with our daughter this weekend as planned, but
instead will be coming later next week. He says it's "not safe" for
him to make an eight-hour drive alone, so he's waiting until his dad
is driving up later in the week.
She is really disappointed that she can't stay with him while he is
here, just spend a few hours after school
Oh, but Sarah, what is more important? Spending time with dad (and
ditching school) or going to school and having limited time with dad?
chuckle (tongue in cheek)
I just hope he *does* come up next week, because she has really been
looking forward to see him. I have a folder full of pictures and
"letters" she insisted she had to give him in person.

==
Did you tell him that? There were times I had to "prompt" my ex to get
his butt in gear.
Some men just don't understand how their words/actions affect the kids. I
had to prompt my ex when we
lived together to understand the child's needs/feelings from time to
time. No different after the split.


I told him. He is upset that I have not mailed anything, but she has been
insistent on saving stuff to give to him in person. The thing is, he
insists that he wants to be this great dad, and that it's killing him that
he "had" to move. But it's not as if there is a shortage of $9 an hour
jobs here. And, frankly, if I were in his position, I would have already
been doing what I could to have visited her a number of times already. I
suggested renting a car and said that I would help with gas, and he came
up with the above response (he doesn't have a car of his own).


It doesn't sound as if he has quite developed the knack of taking
responsibility for his own choices yet. Do you have a video camera? Maybe
seeing a video ov his daughter would motivate him to come up more often.


 




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