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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Betsy" wrote in message . com... In news:F_oTa.121984$N7.17176@sccrnsc03, typed: Betsy wrote: I suppose I shall discover in time, if this is going to continue. One never knows when another may begin the change needed. I have done what I can, and will let time tell the rest. I have learned, the hard way, not to invest too much of myself 'saving' other people. I share my story(ies) and what worked for me. Where I am now, is miles from where I was 12 years ago. It took 12 years to get here, but I am here. I can only act as a guide to those willing to accept guidance. No more need be said. Or rather, I will say no more. what are you talking to HIM for? I have already admitted to needing to change, Paul is in denial and clearly abusive calling me looney lorain on here all the time yet insisting that he is doing nothing wrong, don't talk to him about how hard you have it convincing me that I need to change. That ruins your credibility. Otherwise, I do take your words to heart and appreciate your efforts to help me and my son, and I love your .sig lines, they are funny. OK, first off, I am free to talk to whomever I choose. Whether you like it or not, whether my son likes it or not, whether my mother likes it or not. It's called free choice, and it's a God given gift. Secondly, I am simply letting these folks know, that while they disagree with me on whether or not you will change, I (being relatively new here) am going to try. They are trying to dissuade me, by telling me I am wasting my time. I am telling him (Paul) in essence, it's my time, I choose how to spend it. I have never meant to dissuade or otherwise tell you what to do, if that was what you got from my posts, then it was totally unintended. On the other hand, that is looney's standard operating procedure.....with constatn attempts to moderate posts and who and what should be said to whom. WRT to 'denial' LMAO............except for a few enablers on a couple of NG's and possibbly a psychobabblists or two........most people can clearly see the real source of the problem and have correctly placed the blame at looney's feet. She however......being the perpetual victim, will always find someone else to blame.......including me, who she wouldn't know if I was standing in front of her. Looney has created the problem, but now seeks to blame everyone, her family, the system, and even people on the NG. If you find it ruins my credibility, then I wasn't very credible in your eyes to begin with. Sometimes things happen that you don't like, that don't affect you directly, that aren't aimed at you, and you don't like them. Get over it, move on, don't let it bother you. If I got upset everytime on of my co-workers I respected spoke to one of my co-workers I didn't like, I would spend my entired work day upset. It's not worth it. Betsy -- Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and good with ketchup. |
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"CME" wrote in message . .. wrote in message news:FPnTa.111724$GL4.28999@rwcrnsc53... Dennis Here wrote: I'm glad there are some positives in your life, AND that you can see them. It makes such a difference, hey? I personally think you are an intelligent, insightful, strong and highly motivated person to have done all the things you've done with your life thus far. I hope you see that too. Christine I second that statement. I always have thought that about you. Why don't you go back and google my support of you for a while. *bri |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"turtledove" wrote in message . com... Since lisa says no binaries here. Email me pics of your tits please. ( is that better lisa? ) much thanks oh, and while we're at it,,,,thanks for moving from using "c" to start that 4 letter word to "k" I really hate that word It's better when you spell it with a "k" Surf you absolutely kill me.... time to clean up the computer screen again.... *bri lol,,,sorry,,,, |
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wrote in message .net...
If only all psychoes were as obvious as him. The main reason I have gotten entangled with the psychoes in my life is because they don't act like this until they have been a teddy bear for a loooooong time first. I call them ticking time bomb teddy bears, but not until long after I've fallen for [snip] I know that I've ignored the red flags that seem so obvious later. The red flags are our guardian angels. We need to sensitize our antennaes to them. Karen |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
"Lisa aka Surfer" wrote in message ... "turtledove" wrote in message . com... Since lisa says no binaries here. Email me pics of your tits please. ( is that better lisa? ) much thanks oh, and while we're at it,,,,thanks for moving from using "c" to start that 4 letter word to "k" I really hate that word It's better when you spell it with a "k" Surf you absolutely kill me.... time to clean up the computer screen again.... *bri lol,,,sorry,,,, You have a bad habit of doing that ;-) |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
Another Time Another Place wrote:
wrote ... snipping loads of stuff that others reply too so much better then I And I'm really afraid my son is going to tell my mother that I am bisexual. Damn that kid. *if* you think it is any of your mothers concern... Tell her yourself of course I don't think it's any of my mother's concern. She would flip a flying lid. She already won't come in my house because I have a child and am not married. If she knew I had dated women in the past she wouldn't let me in hers. The way my son is out there telling the police god knows what to have succesfully gotten me committed to the psych unit last week, who knows what he is telling my mother? So, I worry. I was hoping she wouldn't find out until I was famous ;-) |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
Karen O'Mara wrote:
wrote in message .net... If only all psychoes were as obvious as him. The main reason I have gotten entangled with the psychoes in my life is because they don't act like this until they have been a teddy bear for a loooooong time first. I call them ticking time bomb teddy bears, but not until long after I've fallen for [snip] I know that I've ignored the red flags that seem so obvious later. The red flags are our guardian angels. We need to sensitize our antennaes to them. Karen some psychoes are either really good at faking normal or really do care so much for me that they are dr. jekyll when they are with me and mr. hyde to other people or have been mr. hyde at times in the past and are trying really hard not to be when they are with me but after awhile the undercurrent of danger comes to the surface but by then I'm entangled. And if they have fixated on me they do not go away until they choose to go away, I can break up with them all I want and it does no good, in fact it just ****es them off and makes things worse for me. If I called 911 every time I've had to save myself they'd give me my own separate line and charge me a monthly fee. |
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help me keep my son from perpetuating the cycle of abuse (very long)
ome psychoes are either really good at faking normal or really do care so
much for me that they are dr. jekyll when they are with me and mr. hyde to other people or have been mr. hyde at times in the past and are trying eally hard not to be when they are with me but after awhile the undercurrent of danger comes to the surface but by then I'm entangled. SIgh. I know I'm just farting in the wind here, but honestly Lorian, if once or twice you meet some guy who really did "change" after you got to know him, well, once can happen to anyone, twice, it's time to start thinking twice, but if this is happening to you often or "all the time" you really do have to look at yourself. Most men are not Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde - and if the majority of the men you are attracted to are, then you have to look at yourself and why you are drawn to that sort of person. Or you may be expecting it of them and you see it when it's not there. Yea I know, I'm being oppressive and blaming the victim. I've really sort of given up on you - but maybe someone else reading this who is in the same pattern will think about it and look at what they can do to change the pattern. Joelle |
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