new law allows alimony to be raised when child support ends!!! California

Well, should've known they just don't know where to stop. In
California a new bill has passed that will allow the ending of child
support to be considered a "change in circumstance" for the purpose of
requesting an increase in alimony. It means that once child support
ends, the custodial parent receiving alimony can request more in the
way of "alimony" to cover their "increased" expenses...$%T$^%$^ I
guess since they couldn't get people to agree to up the age of child
support, they had to find another way around it...

http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/pub/07-08/...chaptered.html

Unbelievable. That bill is irrefutable proof that CS is just hidden
alimony otherwise there would be no basis for it.

On Oct 1, 12:24 am, wrote:
Unbelievable. That bill is irrefutable proof that CS is just hidden
alimony otherwise there would be no basis for it.

Exactly...disgusting. I sure hope the idiot who signed it gets
divorced and
ends up having to deal with the lovely bill he signed...idiot!

"whatamess" wrote in

Exactly...disgusting. I sure hope the idiot who signed it gets
divorced and
ends up having to deal with the lovely bill he signed...idiot!

As long as you allow government agencies to run your personal business,
Idiots will always have control over you!

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Unbelievable. That bill is irrefutable proof that CS is just hidden
alimony otherwise there would be no basis for it.


I wish they just lump it all together and call it lifestyle support.

Don't you just love family law. You sneeze and that is an excuse to bring
dad back to court. So now dad's will be hauled back into a long court
procedure (i.e. battle) to wrench more cash out of him... with a nice 5K -
10K lawyer bill at the end. It never ends...

"Henry" wrote in

I wish they just lump it all together and call it lifestyle support.

In America, you are guaranteed a lifestyle by the government if you produce
babies!

"DB" wrote in
et:


"Henry" wrote in

I wish they just lump it all together and call it lifestyle support.

In America, you are guaranteed a lifestyle by the government if you
produce babies!



Another problem is in family law you never get a rest. What I mean is, at
least you could expect some sort of financial relief when the child turned
18/19. And you could PLAN for it. But, this is another thing to stress dad
out... "wow... in another few years I'll be free... wait... and yet another
trial and more support... ahhhhhh".

Apparantly the people that make family law "laws" want to inflict as much
stress and aggrivation on dad as possible. It truly is brutal.

On Oct 3, 11:12 am, Henry wrote:
"DB" wrote .net:



"Henry" wrote in

I wish they just lump it all together and call it lifestyle support.

In America, you are guaranteed a lifestyle by the government if you
produce babies!

Another problem is in family law you never get a rest. What I mean is, at
least you could expect some sort of financial relief when the child turned
18/19. And you could PLAN for it. But, this is another thing to stress dad
out... "wow... in another few years I'll be free... wait... and yet another
trial and more support... ahhhhhh".

Apparantly the people that make family law "laws" want to inflict as much
stress and aggrivation on dad as possible. It truly is brutal.

I agree 100%...I joke with my husband because he didn't see anything
wrong with most of this until the crazy ex took him to court and
completely
messed up OUR lives...We joke that I could get myself some other guy,
divorce him, he could pay me child support and alimony and then
we could get back to living together without having to worry about the
crazy ex continuing to increase his payments...It's just appalling!

"whatamess" wrote in message
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On Oct 3, 11:12 am, Henry wrote:
"DB" wrote
.net:



"Henry" wrote in

I wish they just lump it all together and call it lifestyle support.

In America, you are guaranteed a lifestyle by the government if you
produce babies!

Another problem is in family law you never get a rest. What I mean is, at
least you could expect some sort of financial relief when the child
turned
18/19. And you could PLAN for it. But, this is another thing to stress
dad
out... "wow... in another few years I'll be free... wait... and yet
another
trial and more support... ahhhhhh".

Apparantly the people that make family law "laws" want to inflict as much
stress and aggrivation on dad as possible. It truly is brutal.

I agree 100%...I joke with my husband because he didn't see anything
wrong with most of this until the crazy ex took him to court and
completely
messed up OUR lives...We joke that I could get myself some other guy,
divorce him, he could pay me child support and alimony and then
we could get back to living together without having to worry about the
crazy ex continuing to increase his payments...It's just appalling!

Actually, you would get your slice of the pie from what is left after he
pays his crazy ex. It would, undoubtedly, be far, far less than he pays
her.

"whatamess" wrote in

I agree 100%...I joke with my husband because he didn't see anything
wrong with most of this until the crazy ex took him to court and
completely
messed up OUR lives...


Sad that the reality of this system will not effect most people until it's
to late.
Millions of lives are ruined on a daily basis because this is allowed to
continue without question.

Most think it's a grand idea to collect money for the children until they
are handed a bill for a quarter of their take home pay. For people living
from check to check, this is unacceptable!