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Deadbeats
"Pammie1" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... I know I hear a lot of people complain about the amount being so high. The people still don't want to pay even if the amount was low. It all boils down to, "you should have thought about it before you decided to have sex." I know as a single parent I should have thought about things too. We live and learn. Just tough out the 18+ years and learn from your past experience. If you can't handle it then turn over custody to the father or share physical custody with him. Problem solved. Just be thankful you have your child living with you from day to day and have not been reduced to vistor status. |
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"Pammie1" wrote in message lkaboutparenting.com... I know I hear a lot of people complain about the amount being so high. The people still don't want to pay even if the amount was low. It all boils down to, "you should have thought about it before you decided to have sex." I know as a single parent I should have thought about things too. We live and learn. Just tough out the 18+ years and learn from your past experience. If you can't handle it then turn over custody to the father or share physical custody with him. Problem solved. Just be thankful you have your child living with you from day to day and have not been reduced to vistor status. |
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dead beets are for canning
dead brokes have done been canned
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dead beets are for canning
dead brokes have done been canned
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dead beets are for canning
dead brokes have done been canned
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Deadbeats
Subject: Deadbeats
From: "Pammie1" Newsgroups: alt.child-support Date: Mon, 26 Jul 2004 20:04:01 Pammie writes: I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. Why did you get rid of your husband? |
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Deadbeats
Subject: Deadbeats
From: "Pammie1" Newsgroups: alt.child-support Date: Mon, 26 Jul 2004 20:04:01 Pammie writes: I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. Why did you get rid of your husband? |
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Deadbeats
Subject: Deadbeats
From: "Pammie1" Newsgroups: alt.child-support Date: Mon, 26 Jul 2004 20:04:01 Pammie writes: I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. Why did you get rid of your husband? |
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Deadbeats
I think that most of the men here really do want to support their
children (emotionally and financially). It's the system of making that happen that ****es them off. No arguments with that. It is very far from perfect but I sure haven't come up with a better system. It's the 'absolute' statements that **** ME off: CP=Always a women NCP=Always a man Custody should always be 50% (my ex can't even take care of himself, let alone a child. And he doesn't want 50% anyway.) Having a child is solely the womans idea/ability/responsibility/problem (takes two to tango, remember?) CP (who is always a woman) spends all the cs money on herself and doesn't spend a dime on the kids. Woman is evil and should be killed and thrown off a bridge. (my personal favorite) Zimm Pammie1 wrote: I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. |
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Deadbeats
I think that most of the men here really do want to support their
children (emotionally and financially). It's the system of making that happen that ****es them off. No arguments with that. It is very far from perfect but I sure haven't come up with a better system. It's the 'absolute' statements that **** ME off: CP=Always a women NCP=Always a man Custody should always be 50% (my ex can't even take care of himself, let alone a child. And he doesn't want 50% anyway.) Having a child is solely the womans idea/ability/responsibility/problem (takes two to tango, remember?) CP (who is always a woman) spends all the cs money on herself and doesn't spend a dime on the kids. Woman is evil and should be killed and thrown off a bridge. (my personal favorite) Zimm Pammie1 wrote: I am really shocked at the comments that the men are making. It is really sad that a Man would not want to provide for his own flesh and blood. I mean coming up with a plan to make extra money so he can move overseas. What is that? You, as a man had sex and made that child. You are responsible reguardless of how you may feel. I am a single mom of a 31/2 year old. Child care alone cost me $588 a month. That's not including keeping a roof over her head, food, health insurance and the list goes on. I just don't understand how a person would want to live knowing that he/she has left all the resposiblity on one person when it took 2 to make the kid/s. I feel that as long as there is child support enforcement than these men would stop having all these babies. If you don't want to pay then you don't need to play. My vote is for anyone who is all for going after deadbeat dads. |
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