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"Kari" wrote in message news:VrdId.18671$c%6.6202@trnddc03... Mandy Smith wrote: Kari, you don't know me first of all, Typical crybaby copout--"you don't know me". Is there some law that says that I have to know something about you in order to see that you CHOSE to make an illegitimate child? secondly I'm not a breeder. Yes, you are. You made a mistake and now are looking for a walking wallet to clean up your mess. It sounds like the taxpayers already gave you plenty of handouts. And you are proud of that? I only have one child, you probably have none. Is this the way you treat someone that needs help ? Need help my ass!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah I don't have any kids. But guess what? ALL the financial aid for colleges are geared toward irresponsible idiots like you who can't be bothered with BC. The financial aid office had the chutzpah to tell me that I'd have to go out and get knocked up just to get any financial aid. You have a very cold, evil, and dark soul, I recommend professional help for your lack of humanity. Yeah, the breeders' answer to everything. Medicate anyone who disagrees with them. Even Ritalin has become the lazy breeders' answer for child-rearing. Just remember, no one took your hand and made you barge in here. Now, don't you have a kid to ignore? Oh, I see the problem, Kari is all mad about financial aid not assisting her. Gee, I thought it was all about the bad childhood. Tsk. V -- "Black as the devil, hot as hell, pure as an angel, sweet as love." Charles Maurice de Talleyrand 1754-1838 speaking of the perfect cup of coffee. |
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"Mandy Smith" wrote in message news:1106334344.ab33067d2cdf8cd6e07b6fc68ab1af45@t eranews... Alot of the people on here are terribly mean, I wish there were more kind hearted people around. It makes me feel very ashamed of my fellow Americans. What would the kind hearted people do, Mandy? Agree that you deserved lots of money for bringing a child into the world that you couldn't afford to take care of, and chosing to raise her anyway? O have a few questions for you: What have you done, in all thes last 15 years, to make this man a part of your daughter's life? (Besides seeking child support, that is) Have you sent photos and letters describing her life and activities? Have you offered to share custody with him? Have you told him that you will forego the money--that you just want your daughter to have a loving, nurturing relationship with her father? What have you done that might help him want to be part of her life? After all, a relationship with her father is more important than money, isn't it? You mention in your original post that you have been to court several times. Why several? Has a paternity test ever been done? Do you have a court order for child support? If so, why did you need to go back to court several times? Has he *ever* been served with papers that declasre him to be the father and stipulate an amount to be paid? Does he know where you are, or were you just a passing lust interest? Have you even spoken to him since your daughterwas born? |
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"Mandy Smith" wrote in message news:1106333839.1ad627b27a591591c0f99116ffbc7a34@t eranews... Kari, you don't know me first of all, secondly I'm not a breeder. I only have one child, you probably have none. Is this the way you treat someone that needs help ? You have a very cold, evil, and dark soul, I recommend professional help for your lack of humanity. It doesn't sound as if you are looking for help, Mandy. It sounds as if you are looking for money. So, what have you done these last 15 years in the way of training, etc, to better you lot in life? Have you attended college to get a degree? Gone to a trade or professional training school? People on government assistance, as you seem to be, get all kinds of help getting into training programs. Maybe, instead of looking for the pot of gold at the end of the Michael F. O'Shaughnessy rainbow, you would be better off finding ways to increase your employability. And that would be an excellent example for your daughter, too. |
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"Kari" wrote in message news:PlbId.3563$BL3.1954@trnddc01... Tsorton wrote: On Fri, 21 Jan 2005 08:39:26 -0800, "tom c" wrote: "DaKitty" wrote in message news:gw0Id.7802$Nu.59@fed1read04... I can believe that abut you. You do come across as someone who likes to use people. Just like the original poster, used him for cash, used him as an unwanted sperm donor and wants to use a childfree newsgroup to do her homework. Yea, I do feel bad for the husband. It's okay, he can always come to our group and get some support... later. Looking to husband steal? Tom C /snork Nah, what decent guy would go for a stretched out ****, prolapsed uterus, udder hanging up to her knees and pair of crotchfuit thrown in to make entire package 'simply irresistible'? That would surely gross out DH. Plus, I don't think he would be too turned on by this knuckle-dragging cave dweller troll. Madia, wondering why Da****ly took Kari's post so personal.... Breeders always take things personal when a CFer shows them a different point of view. Kari -- Kari Levstik Too bad your parent's bred.......and what the hell's a "CF"? **** Farter? |
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Mandy Smith wrote:
Hello, I was involved for a time with a man by the name of Michael F. O'Shaughnessy when I live in Central New York(I lived in Morrisville, NY). He was very handsome, and a smooth talker, we used to talk alot, and seemed to have nice times together with me and my aged mother(I came from a single parent family). Anyway, when he decided to not wear a condom, as expected 9 months later I gave birth to beautiful baby girl. Then that's when the trouble started, when he found out I was pregnant he became enraged. Then he got a U-haul (when I was at a friends house) and moved all of his stuff out on me. My daughter Sarah is 15 years old now, and has not seen ONE RED CENT of support from her father Mike. I know he has alot of money too. When I was with him he used to wear the finest clothes, and he worked two jobs, I saw some of his paychecks and they were always around $700-800.00 a week. You would think making over a grand a week he could share with my daughter and I, but no he does nothing ! I have been to family court several times to try to get him to provide for his daughter. They Judges always rule in my favor, but then I never get any payments from that jerk Michael F. O'Shaughnessy. I will describe how he looks now: He has curly black hair, he is very tall too(over 6 feet tall), he is a White Man(Irish, but he said he's not ?), also he told me he was from a place called Massena. That's in Canada I believe. Anyway, I work myself to the bone, making only about $300.00 a week, I get food stamps too and partial rental assistance too from the State. But life is really painful for us, he doesn't care though. As soon as he made a child, he was off and running. If this is any help, the last place I heard he was is, Santa Barbara,CA Solvay,NY(possibly staying with a girl named Valerie) New Orleans, LA & Las Vegas. Thanks for listening to me gripe. Please respond directly to me on the newsgroup. I don't use my normal email address here. Thanks do much for your help. And other women here's some free advice: "STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM MICHAEL FRED O'SHAUGHNESSY " ! It's the best advice I can give any other woman, so he won't ruin your life too. Take care and thanks ahead of time for any help you can provide. Thanks, Mandy S. What's really amazing is how you went from giving "birth to a beautiful baby girl", to complaining about having your life ruined...all in two paragraphs. If you switched emotions on Michael Fred O'Shaugnessy the way you switch them in you email, no wonder he "dined-and-dashed your schizophrenic ass." |
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teachrmama wrote:
After all, a relationship with her father is more important than money, isn't it? What a ridiculous notion! Oh, no, money is the *only* factor in raising happy and healthy kids. The government tells us so all the time, and we know the government wouldn't lie to us. -- It has been determined that research causes cancer in lab rats. |
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Message-ID:1106263808.8ec7165ddd12fb42d3dd2345f9e85bb1@te ranews posted on Thu, 20 Jan 2005 18:29:28 -0500, Mandy Smith wrote: Hello, I was involved for a time with a man by the name of Michael F. O'Shaughnessy when I live in Central New York(I lived in Morrisville, NY). He was very handsome, and a smooth talker, we used to talk alot, and seemed to have nice times together with me and my aged mother(I came from a single parent family). Um, well for a start, do you know that is actually his real name? Do you have anything like positive ID on him? Drivers license number, passport number, credit card numbers, photos, and so on? The fact that he was "handsome" and a "smooth talker" means nothing. Most con men are. Most psychopaths are. Otherwise neither would be successful. Anyway, when he decided to not wear a condom, as expected 9 months later I gave birth to beautiful baby girl. Not only his decision, you obviously agreed to it. And for that matter, what kept you from using a diaphragm, taking oral contraceptives, or using other birth control methods. For that matter, once you found you were pregnant, what was to stop you having an abortion? Then that's when the trouble started, when he found out I was pregnant he became enraged. Then he got a U-haul (when I was at a friends house) and moved all of his stuff out on me. My daughter Sarah is 15 years old now, and has not seen ONE RED CENT of support from her father Mike. When he ran away when he found you were pregnant, what else did you expect? I know he has alot of money too. When I was with him he used to wear the finest clothes, and he worked two jobs, I saw some of his paychecks and they were always around $700-800.00 a week. You would think making over a grand a week he could share with my daughter and I, but no he does nothing ! I have been to family court several times to try to get him to provide for his daughter. They Judges always rule in my favor, but then I never get any payments from that jerk Michael F. O'Shaughnessy. Perhaps your state [or country] didn't try hard enough to track him at the time. Even 15 years ago it wouldn't have been all that easy to disappear from the USA if you had the means to promptly track him. I will describe how he looks now: He has curly black hair, he is very tall too(over 6 feet tall), he is a White Man(Irish, but he said he's not ?), also he told me he was from a place called Massena. That's in Canada I believe. Sounds more like Austria or Italy to me. Anyway, I work myself to the bone, making only about $300.00 a week, I get food stamps too and partial rental assistance too from the State. But life is really painful for us, he doesn't care though. As soon as he made a child, he was off and running. If this is any help, the last place I heard he was is, Santa Barbara,CA Solvay,NY(possibly staying with a girl named Valerie) New Orleans, LA & Las Vegas. Thanks for listening to me gripe. Please respond directly to me on the newsgroup. I don't use my normal email address here. Thanks do much for your help. And other women here's some free advice: "STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM MICHAEL FRED O'SHAUGHNESSY " ! It's the best advice I can give any other woman, so he won't ruin your life too. Take care and thanks ahead of time for any help you can provide. Um, am not sure that any of us can help much Mandy. 15 years is a long time ago if you have no more information than you have given us so far. Didn't it ever occur to you to try to verify his identity before you trusted him that much? If he had a car, in many states at that time it wouldn't have been that difficult to get a look at the registration certificate or check out the license plate number? Or get a look at his social security number? Yeah, I know that some people such as might consider me and others on alt.support.childfree, might consider us excessively suspicious, but I wouldn't let him or anyone else even into my house unless had some sort of a track on them. Identity fraud is far too easy, especially these days. Regards, "nilkids" Thanks, Mandy S. |
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In article 1106334344.ab33067d2cdf8cd6e07b6fc68ab1af45@teran ews, Mandy Smith
says... Alot of the people on here are terribly mean, I wish there were more kind hearted people around. It makes me feel very ashamed of my fellow Americans. ====== You are calling others mean? You are the one who started this thread by calling your child's father "deadbeat asshole" and posting his name and other personals about him on a public forum! You claimed he got you pregnant by not wearing a condom but you used no birth control. How does that make it more his responsibility? How is it that you do not believe you should care for the child you chose to conceive and bring into the world when you could not afford to provide for said child? I realize it is quite a shock to discover that some people do not pander to mothers and even expect them to be held accountable for their irresponsibility. You just got a reality check and it didn't even phase you. You have expressed more desire for money than concern for your child's own well-being. It just hasn't occurred to you that *you* are no less a deadbeat than the child's father because you don't want to foot the bill either. You want him and the state (my tax dollars) to pay you for the decisions you willingly and intentionally made. This is no more about deadbeat fathers than it is about deadbeat mothers and a small child who everyone whines about having to provide for. Sheesh! Go back to school and make yourself worthy of that child and quit pretending to be a victim. The only victim is the child for whom neither parent cares to provide. You're ashamed of Americans for not falling for your sob story? Fine. But, many strong women have happily provided for their children without help from the other parent or the state. Your sense of entitlement and righteousness is an embarrassment to those women (and there are more than a few of us here). Surprise. ======= ======= |
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Little girl, you better shut your mouth and leave it alone if you know
what's good for you. This man means nothing to you, you only want a check from him. Why do you think he'd choose you and your brat over a good life in the Carribean anyway ? He already belongs to other women, they won't take kindly to you spreading his personal business all over the internet either. Get out while you can, he left you, but we'll find you. Keep running your mouth bitch, and you'll see what happens. ****ing welfare parasite bitch. |
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