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How to stop him?
"Seriously" wrote in message ... DB Wrote: -- You are disgusting. You remind me of the ex I'm currently having problems with. You want the money, the control, the time with the kids. What entitles you to all the goodies while he gets pushed away?-- It's drilled into their heads that the law is on their side, they get all the money and tax benefits, and we men get to pay woman because some how we men can't care for a child the same as a woman can. It's a 50's model of man works and pays while woman stays home and cares for child. Did you miss the part where she said that he didn't want anything to do with the child in the beginning? We aren't talking about some poor man that started out as a father and just wants to be with his daughter. When men treat the mother's of their children with the respect and decentsy that they deserve, they will have an equal partnership. He didn't get pushed away, he walked away and stayed away. Own up! Be there! Don't give her a reason to push you away. A mother protecting her child is a powerful thing. Typical "men are always wrong" feminist thinking. When women want men to change they complain men won't change. When men do change women complain the men have changed. |
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How to stop him?
"Seriously" wrote in message ... DB Wrote: -- You are disgusting. You remind me of the ex I'm currently having problems with. You want the money, the control, the time with the kids. What entitles you to all the goodies while he gets pushed away?-- It's drilled into their heads that the law is on their side, they get all the money and tax benefits, and we men get to pay woman because some how we men can't care for a child the same as a woman can. It's a 50's model of man works and pays while woman stays home and cares for child. Did you miss the part where she said that he didn't want anything to do with the child in the beginning? We aren't talking about some poor man that started out as a father and just wants to be with his daughter. When men treat the mother's of their children with the respect and decentsy that they deserve, they will have an equal partnership. He didn't get pushed away, he walked away and stayed away. Own up! Be there! Don't give her a reason to push you away. A mother protecting her child is a powerful thing. How do you know he walked away? Show me in her post where she said he just walked away! I can show you in her post where she said he could have found her if he had searched for her! WHY didn't she file for child support from day 1? She knew where he was--and he apparently did NOT know where she was. Why did she wasit 6 long years? Could it possibly have been because she wanted to establish herself as the one and only parent--thinking that then she would get 6 years of arrearages plus ongoing child support and not have to worry about sharing the child with him? She's no saint in all of this either! Seriously |
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How to stop him?
"Seriously" wrote in A mother protecting her child is a powerful thing. YAwn! |
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How to stop him?
I can see that I'm getting no help or understanding in this
group. I'm done. http://www.amazon.com/Cooperative-Pa.../dp/1880283263 Educate yourself, best thing you can do for ALL involved. |
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I'm not so sure I would read a cooperative parenting book writen by a woman.
I can already invision the things being said about how Mom is more important and Dad should be paying up. "babscat" wrote in message oups.com... I can see that I'm getting no help or understanding in this group. I'm done. http://www.amazon.com/Cooperative-Pa.../dp/1880283263 Educate yourself, best thing you can do for ALL involved. -- The Source For Premium Newsgroup Access Great Speed, Great Retention 1 GB/Day for only $8.95 |
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How to stop him?
On Thu, 14 Dec 2006 03:54:53 +0000, Seriously
wrote: DB Wrote: -- You are disgusting. You remind me of the ex I'm currently having problems with. You want the money, the control, the time with the kids. What entitles you to all the goodies while he gets pushed away?-- It's drilled into their heads that the law is on their side, they get all the money and tax benefits, and we men get to pay woman because some how we men can't care for a child the same as a woman can. It's a 50's model of man works and pays while woman stays home and cares for child. Did you miss the part where she said that he didn't want anything to do with the child in the beginning? We aren't talking about some poor man that started out as a father and just wants to be with his daughter. When men treat the mother's of their children with the respect and decentsy that they deserve, they will have an equal partnership. He didn't get pushed away, he walked away and stayed away. Own up! Be there! Don't give her a reason to push you away. A mother protecting her child is a powerful thing. Did you miss the part where she said that she wouldn't have a relationship with "this asshole"? That sounds a bit more like pushing away than walking away to me. Of course that didn't stop her from trying to pick his pockets. Once again, you are a person with a very one-sided and hypocritical view of things. If he's good enough to pay then he's good enough to cultivate a relationship with his daughter. I'm sick and tired of these women that think because they got custody by default that it somehow makes them a better parent. They act like total bitches to make visitation an ordeal then say something like "I never stopped you from seeing your kid" as if that somehow relieves them from any responsibility for their actions. You want us to have all the responsibilities and the draconian measures to make sure YOU get paid but when it's time for a little effort on your part, you act like the child is all your own. You want to run around claiming the title of "single mom doing it all on her owm" even though you are getting child support and oftentimes welfare. You use your child as an excuse and a shield. You use them to satisfy your own emotional needs. We've all seen the type I'm talking about. Not all CP mothers are like this but those that are engage in their own form of child abuse. Ask yourself what YOU have done to support your child aside from taking money from everyone else to babysit your own child. A mother protecting her child IS a powerful thing but a mother protecting herself by using her child is a powerful EVIL thing. |
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How to stop him?
"Seriously" wrote in message ... DB Wrote: -- You are disgusting. You remind me of the ex I'm currently having problems with. You want the money, the control, the time with the kids. What entitles you to all the goodies while he gets pushed away?-- It's drilled into their heads that the law is on their side, they get all the money and tax benefits, and we men get to pay woman because some how we men can't care for a child the same as a woman can. It's a 50's model of man works and pays while woman stays home and cares for child. Did you miss the part where she said that he didn't want anything to do with the child in the beginning? We aren't talking about some poor man that started out as a father and just wants to be with his daughter. When men treat the mother's of their children with the respect and decentsy that they deserve, they will have an equal partnership. He didn't get pushed away, he walked away and stayed away. Own up! Be there! Don't give her a reason to push you away. A mother protecting her child is a powerful thing. As is a mother destroying her child. -- Seriously |
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A mother protecting her child is a powerful thing.
As is a mother destroying her child. AT this point, there is not a lot of women out there that know how to be a real mother. Most of them just treat the child like a real burden and can't wait for the problem to growup and go away. |
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