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Warning to Men/Fathers
Came across this while lurking on another, quite amusing, board:
http://bbs.babycenter.com/board/prec...tid=5838131257 Men, don't be oopsed! Having kids (or more kids) should be a joint decision, and if it's not, bringing kids (or more kids) into a relationship based on mistrust and disloyalty is doing them no favor. Jeannie a voice for the other side |
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Warning to Men/Fathers
On 24 May 2004 12:03:13 -0700, hpjeannie wrote:
Came across this while lurking on another, quite amusing, board: http://bbs.babycenter.com/board/prec...tid=5838131257 Men, don't be oopsed! Having kids (or more kids) should be a joint decision, and if it's not, bringing kids (or more kids) into a relationship based on mistrust and disloyalty is doing them no favor. More importantly, getting into a relationship in the first place with a nutcase who would even consider doing something like that does NOBODY any good. A word to the wise - don't sleep with stupid people. It's cheaper, in the long run. And helps improve the average IQ, as well. |
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"user" wrote in message ... On 24 May 2004 12:03:13 -0700, hpjeannie wrote: Came across this while lurking on another, quite amusing, board: http://bbs.babycenter.com/board/prec...tid=5838131257 Men, don't be oopsed! Having kids (or more kids) should be a joint decision, and if it's not, bringing kids (or more kids) into a relationship based on mistrust and disloyalty is doing them no favor. More importantly, getting into a relationship in the first place with a nutcase who would even consider doing something like that does NOBODY any good. A word to the wise - don't sleep with stupid people. It's cheaper, in the long run. And helps improve the average IQ, as well. How awful! "I poked several holes in each of my husband's condoms". Gah. Now, before I got pregnant with Emmaline, I went through a period of time when I wound up crying during sex, because we were using contraceptives and I felt it was all pointless, because I couldn't get pregnant! (My husband felt we needed to be married a while before we had kids. But my 'biological clock' was ticking so loudly I could hear nothing else. Now as it turns out, I had PCOS so bad I wasn't *going* to get pregnant without medical intervention, but we didn't know that then. Anyway. I know how it feels to desperately want a baby, and to want it so badly that you don't think straight. On the other hand, it's pretty underhanded to sabotage condoms to "oops" a kid on a partner who doesn't want one. That lady better hope her husband, husband's friend, or husband's wife doesn't read the board. And if he does, or if he finds out what she's done, and especially if she gets pregnant, she'll be lucky if he doesn't leave her. Which I'll bet is NOT what she wants. :/ I cannot imagine disrespecting my husband this much. And some of those women are offering suggestions on how to do it more effectively. Gah. --angela |
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Chotii wrote: *That lady better hope her husband, husband's friend, or husband's wife *doesn't read the board. And if he does, or if he finds out what she's done, Um. Isn't she her husband's wife? -- hillary israeli vmd http://www.hillary.net "uber vaccae in quattuor partes divisum est." not-so-newly minted veterinarian-at-large |
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"Hillary Israeli" wrote in message ... In , Chotii wrote: *That lady better hope her husband, husband's friend, or husband's wife *doesn't read the board. And if he does, or if he finds out what she's done, Um. Isn't she her husband's wife? I'm sure this is roughly the time I should put on my Scarecrow costume and start singing "If I only had a brain!" --angela |
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It's pretty sick...
What irks me is that most of them don't seem to have any recognition that what they're doing might be wrong, no conscience there. Our son was unplanned, but that was laziness on both sides, not deception. Unfortunately he was stillborn, but the urge for another child was strong for both of us, so this one was planned. Personally I'd like another if motherhood agrees with me, as I've always seen myself with two, but DH would just like the one. I'm hoping he'll come round once this one is a year or two, but it would have to be a mutual decision, I could never do something like that to him - it would destroy everything good we have in our relationship. "hpjeannie" wrote in message om... Came across this while lurking on another, quite amusing, board: http://bbs.babycenter.com/board/prec...tid=5838131257 Men, don't be oopsed! Having kids (or more kids) should be a joint decision, and if it's not, bringing kids (or more kids) into a relationship based on mistrust and disloyalty is doing them no favor. Jeannie a voice for the other side |
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